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Martina, 39
United States, Michigan, Canton

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About Me

I have a difficult time writing about myself, but here are the basics. I'm looking find an awesome connection with someone that has a great sense of humor. Sense of humor is a must!! You must not only be able to dish it out, but be able to take it as well! I love cooking, reading, shopping and most of all spending time with family and friends. I'm a single Mom with a 12 year old son, so you must be ok dating someone that has a child. I'm sweet, caring, funny and loyal and looking for the same in someone that I may potentially date.I think building a strong friendship is very important with somone you may potentially date. To be able to take time to build that bond and trust is essential. However, that doesn't mean I want to date someone that is also dating several other women. Even though taking time is important, I believe exclustivity is also very important when there is a connection.I am a bit shy at first, but tend to open up to someone that can make me laugh and I feel comfortable with. I would like to find a man that is pretty well established, what I mean by that is that you have a job, a car, the basics. I don't care what your job is or what kind of car you drive as long as you have one! I'm a pretty simple girl and as I long as I am having fun with someone it doesn't really matter what we do. I'm usually attracted to smart, intellectual type of guys. Someone with good vocabulary, that is polite, and has good manners is definitely a plus!There of course a lot more to know about me, if you'd like to know more just send me a message :)P.S. My proflie says I'm a Gemini but I'm actually a Cancer and I'm unable to change it.....in case it matter to anyone :) Lunch or coffee, something simple to see if we click :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Salsa Dirt Bike Racing Sailing
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