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Benita, 38

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About Me

Mostly interested in meeting a road bike or hiker companion in the mountains+sw foothills...About me: Suppose I'd be described as free-spirited, independent, rather selective, and perhaps a bit eccentric. However, I'd say I am an authentic type of person whom appreciates the uniqueness of my own direction, and rarely bothered doing my own thing. Hardly believe confidence should be mistaken for narcism/selfishness, nor self-reflection perceived as isolation. If that makes sense. Knowledge is the interesting journey to wisdom. The (intelligent) modern misfit, non-conformist, adventurous, freestyle personality is incredibly appealing to me. Scientist/Explorer father: global upbringing. Cultured by various impressions, education, work, close relationships and experiences. Attracted to fit, mindful, genuine, respectful individuals with a preference for working out in nature. Defying gravity on road bike to unforgettable views + mental satisfaction of pure freedom downhill.-- nil flying ticks. Yikes. Curious, no expectations.... Hard to predict where you may encounter extraordinary people. Until then, Cheers.“But how could you live and have no story to tell?” Dostoyevsky

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hollie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    i love the beach, sports, outdoors, im very outgoing, i have a 9 year old boy, he's my life and he keeps me going all i need now is a gentleman that knows how to treat a lady.....i love country music but listen to anything....i love watching movies....life is good.......play pool, maybe going for a walk...maybe go bowling. ....anything really.

  • Ida

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I do tend to come across as a tough girl hard as nails with a rough exterior. But once you get to know me I have the biggest heart I just tend to keep it hidden. But it is just a defense mechanism. With that being said I am loyal to a fault. I would give you the shirt off my back if I thought you needed it and you and I were friends (or more). I like to do the little things. I believe actions speak louder than words. You can say I love you a thousand times but if you don't show it it doesn't mean a damn thing. I am sarcastic so watch out.I am looking for an equal loving partner, who is dependable, stable, hardworking with the same values who can communicate. Who is comfortable with himself and indepedant. Who likes to spend time together as well as with his own friends. I do not have to be joined at the hip with my man. I do not want a guy who already has children. I am sure you who have children are great guys and are wonderful dads I just don't want to date you. I want to come first in the relationship and my partner to be first. If you come with a child I will never be first nor would I expect to be. You also come with an ex who will always be part of the relationship and I just don't want to start a new relationship off that way. With my job I see all of the heartache this brings and I would rather be honest and just say I don't want to start off this way. I am sure I am missing out on some great guys but I am willing to take that hit to be a priority. It is hard enough starting a relationship with two people let alone more.If all you are looking for is to get laid? Crawl up a chicken's butt and wait. I look before I leap. I actually want to care about someone before I leap into bed with them. It makes it all that much better If that isn't your style I totally understand keep on looking. I respect your aproach to life, you respect mine. Plus let's be honest no matter how well you know someone that first time with anyone is always awkward and not the best. So it really should be with someone you care about so you can laugh about it and make it really rock the next time. I am big on family. I spend lots of time with mine. My parents have been married for over 42 years and have set a standard. There is nothing wrong with me being 35 and never married with no children. I only want to be married once and expect to stay that way. I want to raise my children in the same type of household I grew up in. I was never in a rush to do so. Yes I have been in long term relationships and I have had my heart broken. I have the strength to know what I want and not to settle. Life is too short.Each relationship I have been in has taught me something. Sometimes it was a harsh lesson to learn but it was obviously something I was supposed to know. (sometimes I had to learn the lesson more than once :) )I want to travel to Australia. I am scuba diver but it has been a while since I have dove. But I would really like to dive there. I would also like to see the galapogos (not sure that is spelled right) islands and swim with the turtles. I used to be terrifed of sharks. But my big brother being the loving brother he was made my first dive after certification a shark dive and a shark feed. So I am cured of that. LOL Our family is known for traveling together when we can. Which is awesome. I have been skiing (water) since I was 6. But spending the weekends with my brother and friends at the lake can be fun. But I will be honest and say I didn't go one time in ***. But this year is my year to return. Who knows? Depends on the person

  • Geneva

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    A simple girl with simple needs. Looking for my best friend. My last relationship ended over 2 years ago so I'm hoping to find someone who is really ready to share their life with me and allow me to share mine with them. Im far from perfect and always see life as a opportunity to improve but I am also very proud of who I am and the things I have accomplished. I'm looking for someone who actually likes children being that I have 3 at home. A understanding and love for animals is a must as well. I work with them and have a passion for caring for them! If you don't like them or cant handle being around them then please don't bother... I have no drama in my life and I prefer to keep it that way. So many men on here say they are looking for a good woman with good morals and qualities but then get upset because I'm not looking for a one night stand! Please be prepared to establish something with me before assuming we will be jumping into a sexual relationship! That said, once I've reached that point I'm a very sensual, sexual and affectionate person! I love romance and want the same in return!* Yes, I date black men and any other race if I find you attractive* I have a child who is young and her deadbeat dad is not around. I am NOT looking for someone to raise her or support her BUT she is my world and if you prefer to date someone without kids (young) then Im not for you!* I have dogs, Two of them. Both totally harmless. * I am 5'8. I do not care if you are 7ft or 5ft but PLEASE don't lie about it. Why do men lie about their height anyway??? Is that like weight for a woman...? * I work out about ***times a week. That means Im WORKING on my body. Not that I have the perfect one... far from it. However, my pics are accurate. Id REALLY appreciate it if yours were too.* I'm NOT looking for a penpal! If you are unable to communicate, meet up or live far too far away for us to even imagine establishing anything then I'm not for you! Im pretty easy and old fashioned in some senses. You lead, I'll follow. That doesnt mean I'll do anything.. just means I respect a man for what he is :)I dont expect you to lay your coat over a puddle of water but if you hold my hand and help me jump Im a happy camper. I think a first date needs to be in a place that we can converse and get to know one another... other than that, Im pretty easy to satisfy!

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