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Alfreda, 29

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About Me

Like many people out there, I hate writing these things because one cannot describe themselves adequately enough in a little box. Trying to describe the lifetime of hopes, dreams, experiences, successes, and failures that made you into the person you are today into ***words or less cannot truly show others who you really are. Nevertheless, I shall try anyways.I recently graduated from NIU and am trying to secure a teaching position so I can actually use my history degree for its intended purpose. Since I was unsuccessful in finding a job for the '13-'14 school year, I continue to work in the retail job that I have had for many years now. It may not be much, but at least it is a job and can pay the bills. I go to church weekly and am one of Sunday school teachers for the preschool class. I love working with children and even though I pursued a career that has me working with older kids, I am able to work with children of all ages.Eventually, I do want to settle down with the right man and have a family. I don't have children of my own and I do not mind if the person I am dating has children. The way I see it is that everyone has a past, and sometimes a child (or two) is part of that past. In a recent conversation with some friends, they described me as one of the sweetest, kindest, most sincere people they have ever met. They said I am a great friend and have such a kind heart which they saw the first they met me. I'm not trying to sound arrogant, but I really am that way. I don't have a mean bone in my body and I will do anything to help those I care about. I like seeing people happy and if I have the ability or means to help them, then I do it. That is the main reason why I loved going to Haiti on a mission trip. There is so much that needs to be done to help the people there and they genuinely appreciate your help.The man I am looking for is someone I can see myself growing with. Notice I said "growing with" and not "growing old with." I am a kid at heart and I refuse to completely grow up because that is just boring, I want someone who is willing to spend the rest of his life laughing at silly jokes, having food fights, jumping in mud puddles, and building snowmen. Life is an adventure and I want to find my partner in crime to make this life as wild, crazy, and fun as possible. Yes, there are times to be serious and yes, I will be serious at those times but I am too free spirited to be serious all the time. I figure I should mention that I do have a tattoo and body piercings since those are deal breakers for some guys. I don't regret any of them and I plan on getting more tattoos because I like them.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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