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Alfreda, 29

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About Me

Like many people out there, I hate writing these things because one cannot describe themselves adequately enough in a little box. Trying to describe the lifetime of hopes, dreams, experiences, successes, and failures that made you into the person you are today into ***words or less cannot truly show others who you really are. Nevertheless, I shall try anyways.I recently graduated from NIU and am trying to secure a teaching position so I can actually use my history degree for its intended purpose. Since I was unsuccessful in finding a job for the '13-'14 school year, I continue to work in the retail job that I have had for many years now. It may not be much, but at least it is a job and can pay the bills. I go to church weekly and am one of Sunday school teachers for the preschool class. I love working with children and even though I pursued a career that has me working with older kids, I am able to work with children of all ages.Eventually, I do want to settle down with the right man and have a family. I don't have children of my own and I do not mind if the person I am dating has children. The way I see it is that everyone has a past, and sometimes a child (or two) is part of that past. In a recent conversation with some friends, they described me as one of the sweetest, kindest, most sincere people they have ever met. They said I am a great friend and have such a kind heart which they saw the first they met me. I'm not trying to sound arrogant, but I really am that way. I don't have a mean bone in my body and I will do anything to help those I care about. I like seeing people happy and if I have the ability or means to help them, then I do it. That is the main reason why I loved going to Haiti on a mission trip. There is so much that needs to be done to help the people there and they genuinely appreciate your help.The man I am looking for is someone I can see myself growing with. Notice I said "growing with" and not "growing old with." I am a kid at heart and I refuse to completely grow up because that is just boring, I want someone who is willing to spend the rest of his life laughing at silly jokes, having food fights, jumping in mud puddles, and building snowmen. Life is an adventure and I want to find my partner in crime to make this life as wild, crazy, and fun as possible. Yes, there are times to be serious and yes, I will be serious at those times but I am too free spirited to be serious all the time. I figure I should mention that I do have a tattoo and body piercings since those are deal breakers for some guys. I don't regret any of them and I plan on getting more tattoos because I like them.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Hi there!I'm at a great point in my life and I’m looking to share it with that special someone. I'm happy and secure, love travelling and I’m involved in a variety of activities. I know how to balance hard work with adventure. I’m just as happy getting dressed in heels and doing a night on the town as I am curling up in my pjs with a good book.I work in an office, so I love anything that gets me active or outdoors. I enjoy roller blading and running at the beachfront, either by myself or with someone special. I hit the gym regularly and play in both dodgeball and volleyball leagues. I have a zest for life and want to experience all the good and fun things that life has to offer. In November I’ll be heading to Australia for a few weeks of sightseeing and fun!My friends know me as an honest, reliable, genuine and fun loving person who likes to have a good laugh. I’m driven in my career but at the same time have a great work/life balance.My ideal match is an honest and genuine person who has similar interests, family values, is driven and has a passion for life. He is also physically fit, makes me laugh like crazy and loves to travel.I am looking for that special someone to share my experiences with and hopefully the future with as well. I’m looking for a relationship that that is based upon trust, respect and is full of laughter and adventure.If you think this sounds like you, then I would love to hear from you! Let's enjoy everything from a night on the town to a quiet evening enjoying pizza and a good movie. Variety is the spice of life and adding twists to the same old things keeps it interesting. P.S. I prefer *** winks :)

  • Taylor

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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Originally from St. Louis, MO... Love the St. Louis Cardinals, sorry Ranger fans...I like going out for drinks or to see a band but also love staying in and watching movies.Anything else you want to know, just ask.

  • Kelly

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    I am fun, easy going as well as out going. I love living life to the fullest. I have everything in life...a wonderful son, an amazing family, a career I am very successful in and plan on furthering. My thing is that I will be 30 next year and I am not in love. I want to know true love that kind of love that you seem to only find in fairy tales or movies. Call me a dreamer ok I will be that. I am not into games or drama I want romance and passion. walks on the beach and candlelite dinners, flower just because your thinking of me. I see everyone around me happy and get a bit jealous but hey who wouldn't lol. anyway if its love you want feel free to message me. If its games you pay then move on to the next profile. Being in a relationship I like to give as much as I get I am spontaneous and traditional so of course I would want the traditional date of dinner and a movie but the ending has to be spontaneous

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