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Elisa, 29
United States, Massachusetts, Somerville

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So, like 90% of you, I'm new to this and not great with writing a description about myself. However, one thing is for sure, if I'm not honest, you won't know if I'm right for you. If you don't like what you read then it's better for both of us! I love making the most out of life, laughing and having fun. I can be a little neurotic so I want someone who can see that as a silly quirk of mine and can help me laugh at myself when I take things too seriously.Here it goes:- I think I'm a great catch. I'm loyal, trusting, caring, supportive and enjoy being in a relationship and marriage. - I'm divorced. It was devastating but I'm definitely not broken or looking for a rebound. I learned a lot about me and a lot about marriage which I think will make me a better wife and person in the future. - I am an AMAZING mother. My daughter is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I would like to have more children but believe in lots of discussion before it happens. - I want to get married again. Don't worry, I'm not going to expect a proposal on date 3, but that is what I want in the future. - I'm an amazing cook. I also enjoy it and I love trying new foods and recipes. - I am looking for new hobbies and things to enjoy in my life! Maybe your hobbies could be my hobbies. If that seems strange to you ask me to elaborate. - I want someone who is college educated with a promising career. No, I'm not looking to be some trophy wife, but I do want someone who is financially stable and is determined to continue to advance in their career. - I like having some independence. You should be able to have a night with the boys and I should be able to have a girls night. It makes our date nights that much more to look forward to so we don't get into boring habits!- I want someone who respects and seeks out the opinions of their family when it comes to tough situations. To me family is very important, even with their flaws, but they know you best so their opinion on your life should be something you want and take to consideration. - I love trying to come up with fun or unique things to do with my spouse! I expect you to do the same once in a while. I don't mind dinner and a movie but not every date...- I love music and going to concerts. I like a little bit in every musical genre and never pass up an opportunity to see a show!- I enjoy nights at home in sweats watching tv on the couch but I don't like to get in the habit of it too much.- I love to travel but haven't done as much as I would like. I want someone who is as motivated as me to save for a fantastic trip to somewhere exotic!- I'm not into sports but that's only because I wasn't raised watching them. However I throw a GREAT Super Bowl party and am fine with learning more about whatever sports you may be interested in...TV Shows I enjoy (or enjoyed): Damages, Friends, Scandal, Twin Peaks, Revenge, The Sopranos, Top Chef, Project Runway, Blacklist...; 90's. Here's some things that don't work for me:- I'm not looking for someone who calls themselves a "redneck." Most people have never even experienced a true redneck. I'm from the south, I know. - If you think marriage is perfect and there's never times where you have to actually work on it, you're crazy. - Smoking is okay only if it's a good cigar or the cigarette on special occasions. - If your hobbies ONLY include fishing, hunting and camping we may not be a good fit. I don't mind those thigs but I need other hobbies to try. - If you are not an adventurous eater, we probably won't be able to enjoy many meals together. Meat and potatoes is fine only once in a while. - If you are an atheist I appreciate your views but we aren't a good fit. I was raised Catholic and believe in God. I'm very accepting of other religions but I just need someone with some sort of faith in God regardless of which religion it is. Anyway, this may be more info than you need but if anything sparked your interest send a message! I think every girl wants the guy to show up with flowers and candy and go to a beautiful/expensive dinner, dancing, etc. While I'm not opposed to that kind of evening, I'm more interested in seeing what YOU think is a date that represents you! I am more attracted to the thought you put into a date. I don't need to be impressed I just need to know you want to do something I might enjoy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Electro Caribbean Italian Portuguese Vietnamese Documentary Horror Drag Racing Soccer / Football
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