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Essie, 53

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About Me

I'm interested in nearly everything; a problem solver who's never been prone to thinking 'inside the box'.-- who loves to laugh, a voracious reader, being out in the garden year round, creative or home improvement projects, interesting/intellectual conversation, expanding my mind, exploring new places, and meeting new people; plus the music is always on in my world, always! I'm a girl - I own a zillion pairs of heels to go with the little black dresses hanging in my closet []. But most often default to my cowboy boots to dance in, or my beloved flip flops + a good glass of wine while out digging in the garden or hanging out with friends & family. Love the sight/sound/smell of the ocean, or any body of water. I love to fly, and would travel the world if I could afford it. I also have a wicked good sense of humor, so you'll definitely need one too; it's a 'must have' in my world! The ex got to keep the unhappy life we were living, plus the friends who weren't really friends. Yet for the longest time, I believed I'd lost everything. Took me a bit longer to recognize the gift I'd been given -- the freedom & luxury to begin again, and who among us hasn't wished for a do-over at some point in our lives? I finally embraced mine with extreme gratitude, and now am happier than I've ever been. I'll always miss the feeling of having family around me; I grew up in a large extended family + had a fantastic experience raising my kids, but now it's just me, which admittedly can be a bit rough at times. I've paid my debts, purged the majority of my possessions, and happily watched my children settle into their own lives. I've no responsibilities other than to myself, the dog the kids left behind, and my elderly mother who's nearing the end of her journey. I'm now looking forward to doing all the things dreamed of but put aside in our early adult years, while we invested ourselves in building careers & raising children. Living through the hardships taught me the true gift of life -- tomorrow is always another day to get it right. "Just when the caterpillar thought its' life was over...it became a butterfly."; forth from city to country several times throughout the years, so I'm open to just about any direction at this point, and am more than willing to relocate for the one I don't want to be apart from. I have no set agenda for what the future will look like, or who I might be fortunate enough to spend it with --... My arms are free of baggage, my heart is wide open, and my soul is drawn toward what lies ahead - the proverbial blank slate ready for life's next great adventure, a new journey with a map yet to be written. I'm not here to endlessly date, or be someone's companion until they figure out what they really want. So if that's what you're here for, please be kind & pass me by. I'm simply seeking one man, who comes equipped with morals & personal integrity, to build a deep, lasting connection with. I'm thankful for my past, living in the present, and ready to build an even better future, full of greater possibilities than we ever expected - I hope you are too. Let's make lightening strike & squeeze every last fantastic drop out of this life!Is it possible to miss someone you haven't met yet? The space between my fingers is where yours belong.....where are you?~ *** want crazy....'~ *** Be Somebody'~ *** 'I can't change the world, but I can change yours' Prefer a first meeting to be casual and relaxed, somewhere that lends itself to conversation, to determine if we've been lucky enough to *** spark of chemistry. If not, no worries, it's always great to make new friends! However, if we should find ourselves that lucky & decide to have the infamous first date, then who cares what or where -- because hopefully, it will be our last...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marietta

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    HOPE TO FIND MY FRIEND,COMPANION,PARTNER,LOVER CONFIDANT ETC. I AM TIRED OF BEING SINGLE WANT TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH JUST ONE MAN. JUST SIGNING UP LATE AT NIGHT WILL FILL OUT LATER IF YOU WANT TO LEARN ANYTHING ABOUT ME JUST ASK I AM AN OPEN BOOK JUST TURN THE PAGES WHATEVER WE BOTH DECIDE ON

  • Annette

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I want a relationship with someone who accepts me as I am. I enjoy quiet nights at home, movies or just tv. I can cook but don't enjoy unless someone to appreciate it. I enjoy shooting pool even though I'm not a pool shark. I love dancing or just listening to music. Slow dancing in the arms of your man is heaven.. I love the sun and warm weather! I hate the cold weather! I am retired but work part time. Enjoy walks in the park with a special person, just being able to show that person how much you care about them!! Not looking for a one night stand, I believe I have more to offer in life than just that. I'm independent but would like a strong man to be able to lean on when feeling down or insecure. Looking for someone i can feel comfortable with, not having to worry bout how i look or act! I'm not athletic or interested in extreme sports or running marathons. I've always considered myself a city girl but do like being outdoors. Want to be able to talk to each other and actually listen to what the other is saying! I'm open to all options. Meet for coffee or a drink, dinner. Shoot a game of pool, go to a movie, go to an event. Like I said I'd like to meet people with the chance of meeting the person I'm meant to be with!

  • Patrice

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Last I was on this site was for 3 months when I was 53. I learned that if you re-open your profile on this site the one thing you cannot do is change your age. I am now 58. I am super down to earth and a casual cool chick. I am actually happy everyday, drama free, peaceful, positive and I do not take pills to be this way. My oldest daughter tells me I am funny, an artist and totally cool. My second daughter says I am beautiful inside and out and an achiever, my foster son says I saved his life and made him the great man he has become and youngest son says I am an angel, the best Mom ever, strong and he is an amazing man and owes 98% of this to me. Sweet!I work part time as this is all I need. I pick up extra work shifts regularly. I do enjoy my free time.I look forward to connecting to a strong solid balanced man, a true sweetheart. Definitely anger free and without drama, negative or with heavy baggage. Certainly we must have that chemistry. Easy positive happy living is what I say. I dig a protector, rescuer and provider type person as myself.I want my guy to have my back, as I would his.It would be great to meet a guy who likes hanging out with his gal and wants to share our life together.I figure this online matching is going to take some time.I do dabble with musical *** artistic creativity. I would certainly enjoy sharing creativity with my guy. Common things are good. We can learn from each other and grow with one another all while sharing. And it is really fun and exciting to me. No worries if this is not in you, it is not a must have thing for me. As long as you could be supportive of my passions in life.I like old adventures, new adventures and hanging out at home, because really, there is no place like home.I have done some traveling over the years in the states and abroad. I always thought I would have roamed around the world forever if I had choose not to raise children. I apparently choose to plant my seeds and as a single Mom for most all of their years, I alone raised awesome healthy amazing people. I am proud and did a great job for sure. So now that they are all grown up, I do have much more time for my own individuality and old school passions. And more time for friendship and love to share with a great guy.I am not into religion though quite spiritual.It would be best if we have a similar income and you are well situated as I am. Or, if you earn more than I do that is fine too. Of course true love and a great partner rules all. :) Let's message, talk on the phone and see if we mutually want to meet and decide. Message me if:If you read all my profile.If you are very interested and you suspect I might be intersted in you.I prefer you make first contact. (I might make first contact).If you find me attractive.If you have recent photos, face and full body. And you smile, show your teeth. If your not looking for a woman in my daughter's (son's) age group. (We all agree).Well, there you have it!And thanks to the lawyer on site:WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites you **DO NOT** have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

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