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Alyson, 49

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About Me

I am a hardworking, independent woman who loves to laugh and loves to make others laugh.I've been divorced for 21 years, and recently ended a long-term relationship, my choice.Have 4 grown children, and 4 grandchildren, that are a huge part of my life. I don't like to hang out in bars, but do occasionally enjoy going out to have a couple of drinks, and maybe play a few games of pool. I LOVE music. Not crazy about country or rap, but most anything else depending on my mood. Could listen to Def Leppard all day long!.Guess I should update this thing, since a few things have changed. Still missing my Boxer, which I lost several months back, due to brain cancer. My daughter found me a new Boxer puppy for Christmas. He will never replace the first one, but I love him. I could tell you so many things about myself, however, until you get to know me, and see for yourself, it really doesn't matter what I say. Cannot kiss a smoker, or someone who dips. Nothing against you, I just can't do it.I don't tolerate disrespect, or being taken advantage of by anyone.I would say that the thing which makes me unique is the fact that I, unlike most others will not hesitate to walk away from a bad situation. Life is too short to spend it in misery.I don't really know if I should admit this or not, but I laugh at alot of things that other people don't find amusing. Just my personality I guess. My ideal first date would definitely be going somewhere very casual. Maybe have a drink, talk, learn things about each other in a comfortable environment. Just be yourself, because I sure will. No expectations! If I start laughing uncontrollably at something you don't find funny, I give you total clearance to walk away and pretend we never met! This could possibly happen.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    First things first...I am REAL! What you see is what it is.. One of my favorite quotes is: Stay strong in your mind, True to your heart, and GOOD things will follow. I enjoy surrounding myself around good hearted, hard working, active happy people. About me in a NY minute...I'm fun.. lol.. no really I am...outgoingFavorite sports teams, Yankees, Jets and Cowboys!!Favorite drinks coffee water and vodkaLove must movies not a big fan of Horrors unless its the ";Love most music not a big fan of hard core rap or hard core metalLove the beach more than the country but I do enjoy both..Ok...YOUR UP!!!In a NY minute, please tell me about you... :) Looking forward to hearing from you.. Ande. My Ideal fist date would be like that date in the "Hitch" movie! Lol...But don't worry guys I'm not expecting that at all! First date should always be to impress, so just keep it simple and keep it real.

  • Eula

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    With all due respect to those who say we can't 'have it all', I have to disagree! I am mom to two great kids who are my top priority, enjoy my work and have embarked on a new challenge to run a 5K. I've run 2 and have caught the bug....running another one the end of the month. I enjoy downtime with friends, love getting lost in a good book and think a quiet night with a glass of wine is hard to beat.I love being a mom, and I am front and center at sports and school activities. The kids are getting older now, though, and spending more time with their own friends. When I'm not busy with my new passion of working out, decorating or trying out new recipes, I might settle in for an episode of Mad Men or The Voice. It usually doesn't matter what I'm doing; I'm happy and enjoy life!I'm a planner at heart but flexible and adventurous enough to enjoy spontaneous events and lazy Sunday afternoons at home. I believe in living life as fully as possible and finding something to laugh about every day. But even as great as life is, I can't yet say that I 'have it all' until I find that guy who will share it all with me. I imagine spending time with a man who is a great role model; I hope that he shares my commitment to being healthy and will challenge me to keep going. In my ideal world, my guy has a kind and caring streak, and enjoys doing little things to show people that he cares. I realize that no one is perfect (including me!), but I know that someone is perfect for me. Is it you? A first date could be anything from meeting for a cup of coffee at the local coffee shop; going on a bike ride and a picnic; a quiet dinner where we can get to know each other a bit more.

  • Julia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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