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Kristy, 49

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About Me

Life is short so break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile. "When you give yourself away, love becomes something that you do, not just something that you say" ......“Ultimate Real Man.” Not just any man. I don’t want one of the generic, low-life, defective models. No users, boozers, losers, or boring snoozers. They do not fit into my current lifestyle and they don’t qualify to be part of my future. The man I want should smell like testosterone and have real “man skills.” I want a man that knows how to mow the lawn, wash the car, and repair things. Please don’t think that I am lazy and cannot do these things for myself. I want a passionate lover that is willing AND ABLE to make love any time, any place.I also want him to protect me. I want to experience that “safe” feeling you get when a real man is holding you during a thunder storm. He will be man enough to scare the boogieman away and will be willing to get out of bed and check on that noise outside (or at least act like he did). He will kill spiders and other bugs and NOT try to put the dead bug anywhere near me. I want him to WANT to take care of me. If I am sick, he should WANT to make me a cup of tea or run to the store for cold medicine. (Don’t worry, I will NEVER send him to the store to buy the big purple box) He needs to be my best friend. He needs to be my activity partner and be willing to discover new things together. If he comes equipped with a boat or a motorcycle, that would be awesome but is not a requirement. He MUST be equipped with a great sense of humor and be able to make me laugh. I tend to crack a lot of jokes and if he cannot understand my warped sense of humor, I will have to return him to the dating pool.I saved the most important attribute for last. He MUST be equipped with an open heart which means he must be able to GIVE love and not just receive love. I will not waste my time on a man that is incapable of loving me the way I deserve to be loved. He needs to be kind, caring, honest, faithful, and love only me. I know I have asked for a lot. Are you the "ultimate real man?"If you are still reading this, I'll tell you a little about me. I enjoy all kinds of music especially live performances. I love country and rock, some blues and jazz. Hate rap. If you get turned on by walking through Home Depot, you are my kind of man. A man should have man skills. Women always enjoy shopping with a gay friend- let's do brunch. I appreciate a great sense of humor and a little adventure. Being able to laugh is important, I'll save being serious for the office. I enjoy camping, fishing, and riding horses and ATVs. Reading, old movies, and cooking are things I also enjoy. Nothing better than spending a rainy day watching the entire Godfather or Star Wars movie collections while cooking up some "experiment" in the kitchen. On second thought, I can think of something better but the censors may not approve. I hope to meet someone with a sense of adventure, a sense of humor, and a touch of class while still being down to Earth. Applicants must be easy going, drama free, and know how to relax, laugh and enjoy life. You get bonus points if you have a boat or a motorcycle. Take me fishing or take me on a poker run - its all fun. I love concerts, music festivals, and amusement parks. If loud music or roller coasters are too intense for you, we won't make a good match. I don't play head games and I dont want a man who plays them on me. If interested in getting to know me better just drop me a line, I'm game. The first "meeting" should be relaxed so a simple drink or cup of coffee is a no pressure way to spend an hour. If there is interest in getting together a second time, dinner, drinks, movie, dancing, etc. It doesn't really matter as long as the person I am with is fun and has a great sense of humor.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joann

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Integrity and honesty are values I appreciate dearly. Single in my forties had not been part of the plan, but one learns to adjust. And I’ve adjusted pretty well. This is my second time around on this site, I joined when my marriage ended. It helped me ease back into the dating world & even gained a couple of new friends. Then I left meetville for a year and a half. With the New Year, I decided to try this one more time. About me- I am very passionate about life. I still believe in love and romance. I love sharing the good in my life, even if that's just quality time or a home cooked meal, with my loved ones. I enjoy being helpful when I can (even overly helpful at times) and do my best to always lend the ear or shoulder when needed. I love being outside. I grew up on the coast so I especially love beaches. I love to cook and am quite talented at it. I am very independent, always have been. I have my own home in the woods that I had built over 16 years ago. I am one of the nicest people you will ever meet & strive to see the good in everyone. I am truly Southern, raised by my Grandmother, with very strong values and beliefs. I have a very tight group of friends and have a fairly active social life. I am not bored, not lonely, not a booty call and not looking to be rescued. I do not have a problem meeting men, or being asked out on dates, I’m just so tired of the dating scene. I would just like to meet someone I can connect with, and that we will have mutual desire to learn about each other and build from there. I am looking for a relationship. I miss belonging to someone and them belonging to me. I am a hopeless romantic and I want it all. Love, laughter, trust, chemistry, passion and romance. **I do not usually respond to messages from profiles with only one picture or not recent pictures. And not pictures of your truck, cat, dog. etc. I wish you all the best of luck in your search for love."I think every man should learn the true definition of what romance is. It's how you stimulate her mind. It's through real conversation and showing her how original you are.Intelligence is sexy. It has nothing to do with sex." --MrNever Give Up A quiet drink or dinner somewhere.

  • Blanca

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Talking about oneself can be quite challenging. Ok..... I can be stubborn at times....I know... but its my only fault... seriouly! and it could be a quality... depends how you look at it !) I' m active, busy, funny, playful, caring, romantic, ..... wanting to love , live and grow with someone who has similiar views on life.Interested in meeting someone who has a positive outlook on life. An active, outgoing, caring person who beleives in quality over quantity. It all has to start with friendship .... NOT INTERESTED IN; one night stand , friends with benefits... head games... etc... Thank you for respecting

  • Constance

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I have been told that I'm pretty mellow & "not your typical Scorpio", which I would tend to believe has to do with age & maturity?! "Pick your fights", "Don't sweat the small stuff", "It is what it is" or perhaps it's because I like to SMILE & enjoy a good sense of humor?! With that said, however, I am also not a pushover & if warranted....people do recieve the sting of my poisonous tale/tongue! As far as "nothing serious" goes...I do prefer to date, then see where it leads & if a "relationship" develops...BONUS!!! But I will only go with it for as long as it remains healthy for both parties. I am NOT interested in "one night stands", "booty calls" or games...if this applies to you, please move along!!!I am a "traveling nurse" from the mid-west, out here in Cali on short & long-term assignments. The beauty, quaintness & people of "NorCal" have really captured my heart & I will remain here for as long as possible. My child is grown & remains in the mid-west, which allows me the freedom to open myself up to new experiences as I sneak up on the big 5-0!I enjoy most types of music as I was a music major & in "show choirs" throughout Jr & Sr High school. I have dabbled back into singing over the past 4 years, but just for fun! I enjoy singing karaoke frequently & I am more likely to be able to tell you where the karaoke spots are in a town rather than the churches. Lol!! I enjoy watching live music/bands perform as well.My varied interests are listed below, if you feel that we could hit it off...feel free to message me! If not, best of luck in your continued search!

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