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Joann, 49

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About Me

Integrity and honesty are values I appreciate dearly. Single in my forties had not been part of the plan, but one learns to adjust. And I’ve adjusted pretty well. This is my second time around on this site, I joined when my marriage ended. It helped me ease back into the dating world & even gained a couple of new friends. Then I left meetville for a year and a half. With the New Year, I decided to try this one more time. About me- I am very passionate about life. I still believe in love and romance. I love sharing the good in my life, even if that's just quality time or a home cooked meal, with my loved ones. I enjoy being helpful when I can (even overly helpful at times) and do my best to always lend the ear or shoulder when needed. I love being outside. I grew up on the coast so I especially love beaches. I love to cook and am quite talented at it. I am very independent, always have been. I have my own home in the woods that I had built over 16 years ago. I am one of the nicest people you will ever meet & strive to see the good in everyone. I am truly Southern, raised by my Grandmother, with very strong values and beliefs. I have a very tight group of friends and have a fairly active social life. I am not bored, not lonely, not a booty call and not looking to be rescued. I do not have a problem meeting men, or being asked out on dates, I’m just so tired of the dating scene. I would just like to meet someone I can connect with, and that we will have mutual desire to learn about each other and build from there. I am looking for a relationship. I miss belonging to someone and them belonging to me. I am a hopeless romantic and I want it all. Love, laughter, trust, chemistry, passion and romance. **I do not usually respond to messages from profiles with only one picture or not recent pictures. And not pictures of your truck, cat, dog. etc. I wish you all the best of luck in your search for love."I think every man should learn the true definition of what romance is. It's how you stimulate her mind. It's through real conversation and showing her how original you are.Intelligence is sexy. It has nothing to do with sex." --MrNever Give Up A quiet drink or dinner somewhere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alyson

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a hardworking, independent woman who loves to laugh and loves to make others laugh.I've been divorced for 21 years, and recently ended a long-term relationship, my choice.Have 4 grown children, and 4 grandchildren, that are a huge part of my life. I don't like to hang out in bars, but do occasionally enjoy going out to have a couple of drinks, and maybe play a few games of pool. I LOVE music. Not crazy about country or rap, but most anything else depending on my mood. Could listen to Def Leppard all day long!.Guess I should update this thing, since a few things have changed. Still missing my Boxer, which I lost several months back, due to brain cancer. My daughter found me a new Boxer puppy for Christmas. He will never replace the first one, but I love him. I could tell you so many things about myself, however, until you get to know me, and see for yourself, it really doesn't matter what I say. Cannot kiss a smoker, or someone who dips. Nothing against you, I just can't do it.I don't tolerate disrespect, or being taken advantage of by anyone.I would say that the thing which makes me unique is the fact that I, unlike most others will not hesitate to walk away from a bad situation. Life is too short to spend it in misery.I don't really know if I should admit this or not, but I laugh at alot of things that other people don't find amusing. Just my personality I guess. My ideal first date would definitely be going somewhere very casual. Maybe have a drink, talk, learn things about each other in a comfortable environment. Just be yourself, because I sure will. No expectations! If I start laughing uncontrollably at something you don't find funny, I give you total clearance to walk away and pretend we never met! This could possibly happen.

  • Whitney

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    "Dream of tomorrow , live for today, learn from yesterday"....I love inspirational quotes & affirmations. I enjoy museums , cultural events & festivals, anything educational; i like learning about new things & I enjoy trying new & different cultural cuisines. I like live music, theatre & comedy clubs.I love to laugh & prefer little drama in my life, I'm a fairly easy going person. Shy at 1st then open up once I become more comfortable Good conversation & a drink

  • Audrey

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    My age is correct and pics are current and I ask the same of you - let's be real- misrepresenting age/fitness level/emotional health, etc...is a waste of time. Please stop posting old pics that don't even resemble you remotely -lol- you know who you are!! If you're not sure- ask a friend! I'm very flexible...but not when it comes to dishonesty! This is how I look in person (not my best pics) and I'm a true size 2- small/fit! For me, it's more about what's inside but I also keep in shape, live healthy and my partner with want that lifestyle too- its important to me- I want someone who can keep up! I'll enjoy spending time with you and our adventures but I am really an introvert and need some alone time and want you to have yours too. At a party, I'm likely in the corner having a great conversation with one or just a few people, never the party girl. ;)While I'm open to all cultures and types, I've found that I'm typically most physically attracted to men who are Latin and it's not something that I can change- not exclusively - but it's worth noting. Your inner self is most important to me (chemistry and mental attraction!***add in intelligent, creative, open minded, active/fit in mind and body, ability to find the humor in life and I'm all in. ;) A focus on what we can create and enjoy together is a great start. I'm living my life better now and have learned a great deal from my past, wanting to use those experiences to make an interesting, dynamic future for myself and those I share my life with.To me, it's important to find the right person for me, not the best person now - and I will be honest and kind if I feel we are not a match - it's my nature. Some deal breakers: Showing up an hour late (things happen but if you're going to be more than ten minutes late, please let me know) over ***let's reschedule, not over your ex (while I'm trained in the field, I'm not your therapist), serial dater (I'm looking for someone who wants one partner). I'm very understanding and I give a lot of respect to others - I ask the same in return. If we're making plans, lets give a couple of days notice, The Golden Rule applies here and if you're not sure about anything, just ask- don't assume! I'm not looking for someone to just play with- you gotta be a strong person who is able to express yourself and have your own opinions! If I don't respond to your contact, it's not a negative reflection on either one of us, just that I don't feel we're a good match for whatever reason and I hope you find what you're looking for. Chemistry is best gauged in person - let's plan to do something and get to know each other! I like to try new places and explore things and I'm open to what you want to check out- let's go! First meetings over food and/or drink are great, no pressure here.

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