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Joann, 49

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About Me

Integrity and honesty are values I appreciate dearly. Single in my forties had not been part of the plan, but one learns to adjust. And I’ve adjusted pretty well. This is my second time around on this site, I joined when my marriage ended. It helped me ease back into the dating world & even gained a couple of new friends. Then I left meetville for a year and a half. With the New Year, I decided to try this one more time. About me- I am very passionate about life. I still believe in love and romance. I love sharing the good in my life, even if that's just quality time or a home cooked meal, with my loved ones. I enjoy being helpful when I can (even overly helpful at times) and do my best to always lend the ear or shoulder when needed. I love being outside. I grew up on the coast so I especially love beaches. I love to cook and am quite talented at it. I am very independent, always have been. I have my own home in the woods that I had built over 16 years ago. I am one of the nicest people you will ever meet & strive to see the good in everyone. I am truly Southern, raised by my Grandmother, with very strong values and beliefs. I have a very tight group of friends and have a fairly active social life. I am not bored, not lonely, not a booty call and not looking to be rescued. I do not have a problem meeting men, or being asked out on dates, I’m just so tired of the dating scene. I would just like to meet someone I can connect with, and that we will have mutual desire to learn about each other and build from there. I am looking for a relationship. I miss belonging to someone and them belonging to me. I am a hopeless romantic and I want it all. Love, laughter, trust, chemistry, passion and romance. **I do not usually respond to messages from profiles with only one picture or not recent pictures. And not pictures of your truck, cat, dog. etc. I wish you all the best of luck in your search for love."I think every man should learn the true definition of what romance is. It's how you stimulate her mind. It's through real conversation and showing her how original you are.Intelligence is sexy. It has nothing to do with sex." --MrNever Give Up A quiet drink or dinner somewhere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bianca

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I am a single mother, my son is #1 priority in my life. I enjoy travel, camping by a lake, music, my son & celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. A man who ONLY has eyes for me & can make me laugh are important qualities! I work full time, I am raising my 12 year old son, so it's a package deal :) I do expect anyone I would date at my age to have children of their own, and maybe even grandchildren too, so there is no problem about that as far as I am concerned :) I love music, mostly rock and some newer country. Too many favorite bands to list, but Aerosmith has always been my favorite. I do enjoy sports, racing mostly, and football is something I still need to learn the ropes on (maybe someone can explain that one to me LOL)!! Not much of a wrestling fan, but my son enjoys it, so I don't mind him watching it some nights LOL! I am a firm believer in Karma and The Golden Rule....For me, life is all about reward, the physical pleasures and material goods, enjoying a tender, even sensual, touch. I adore comfort and like being surrounded by pleasing, soothing things. I also favor a good meal and a fine wine. I can be bull-headed and stubborn LOL. I simply want to get things done, and it's that steady persistence that winds up being viewed as stubbornness. I am practical and reliable and happy to plod along in pursuit of my goals. I am a huge chocolate lover!!! Chocolate covered cherries are my favorite :) I am fond of all things pretty, whether it's in my home, at a museum or on the stage. A happy home life to me includes a partner and a stable relationship.I value harmony in my personal life, so I work hard on keeping my mate happy. Sensual pleasures, of course, can only help things along! I can also be a sentimentalist. At the end of the day, however, I am a true romantic and loyal to the core.I love good conversations and can seem a bit chatty at times :) No far-out schemes or shrieking ultimatums here. I prefer to take each day slowly and steadily and work toward my ultimate goal. I stick with projects until they have reached a successful conclusion. I am also extremely patient and dependable. Indoor adventures are also favored :) I am devoted, romantic and somewhat possessive, but have a sensual nature! I adore honesty in a man. If I find out you have lied to me, it's very hard for me to trust again. I truly hate liars. So with all that said, no pressure, let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens. Wondering about anything else? Just ask! Surprise Me.... I am not high maintenance, so something simple but fun sounds good to me :)

  • Alyson

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a hardworking, independent woman who loves to laugh and loves to make others laugh.I've been divorced for 21 years, and recently ended a long-term relationship, my choice.Have 4 grown children, and 4 grandchildren, that are a huge part of my life. I don't like to hang out in bars, but do occasionally enjoy going out to have a couple of drinks, and maybe play a few games of pool. I LOVE music. Not crazy about country or rap, but most anything else depending on my mood. Could listen to Def Leppard all day long!.Guess I should update this thing, since a few things have changed. Still missing my Boxer, which I lost several months back, due to brain cancer. My daughter found me a new Boxer puppy for Christmas. He will never replace the first one, but I love him. I could tell you so many things about myself, however, until you get to know me, and see for yourself, it really doesn't matter what I say. Cannot kiss a smoker, or someone who dips. Nothing against you, I just can't do it.I don't tolerate disrespect, or being taken advantage of by anyone.I would say that the thing which makes me unique is the fact that I, unlike most others will not hesitate to walk away from a bad situation. Life is too short to spend it in misery.I don't really know if I should admit this or not, but I laugh at alot of things that other people don't find amusing. Just my personality I guess. My ideal first date would definitely be going somewhere very casual. Maybe have a drink, talk, learn things about each other in a comfortable environment. Just be yourself, because I sure will. No expectations! If I start laughing uncontrollably at something you don't find funny, I give you total clearance to walk away and pretend we never met! This could possibly happen.

  • Harriet

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm not as innocent as I look, LOL but I am as sweet.I have been banging my head against a wall at this dating stuff. I'm a nice person looking for the same. I'm looking for my best friend in life. I'm VERY different from any woman you've ever met. I'm definitely a girly girl. I love shopping BUT, slap a 22 in my hands and we have a day at the shooting range. I'm looking for a man that treats women with respect and has NEVER hit a woman. I'm looking for a man that wants a long term relationship with a soul mate and is not always looking for an upgrade. I'm looking for a man that's looking for "ME". So, let's cut the Crap! I'm a sincerely honest, loyal person that's looking for the same. I don't like mean people, they tend to hurt my feelings. So if you've made a woman cry in the last month, please don't contact me. Ok, these are my bare minimum rules... 1. NO married men. 2. If you're looking for a one night stand.....STOP READING HERE! 3. Your income is not an issue here but if you don't have enough money to pay your next car payment, I'm not your girl. 4. If you have to take out a loan to go on vacation, we're not meant for each other. 5. If you still live with your ex, hmmm....see a therapist. 6. If you don't have a car or place to live......WOW, do I really have to say anything? 7. You must secure and be mentally and financially stable. Life isn't all about money but lack of money shouldn't be an issue either. I'm an honest, sweet, loyal, somewhat shy woman that's looking for an honest man that wants a friend for life. I'm looking for a man that's looking for his best friend by day and a wild woman by night. I'm looking for a man that has class, wants to travel and loves life. I love the outdoors so much that I own a tent that rivals my home so, you should like camping. Ok, just to see if you actually care what I wrote in my profile....mention champagne and strawberries in your reply.I could go on and on with who I am and who I want, blah blah blah, but who really wants to read a novel about that crap? Bottom line......looking for a guy that will treat me good and expect the same, not cheat on me and really wants to be in a relationship. I believe a woman should be there for her partner 100% and treat him with respect and should expect the same in return. After all these years of trial and tribulation, I've learned you only get out of a relationship what you put into it. I'm looking forward to a mature, exciting life with the man I hope to spend the rest of my life with. I hope you like amusement parks because this is going to be a wonderful ride. **BTW, this was a great *** First date? Wow, yes. The most awkward time in a relationship but what a wonderful time as well. The first time you feel butterflies and the anticipation of the first kiss. LOL. On the flip side, the thought of........"how do I get out of this one" and "why in the *** am I doing this?" But, you and I already have one thing in common, we both are looking for a better way of life.Just a hint, if this is the first day of the rest of our life together, make it good, even if it doesn't work out. If it does work, this could be the first date with your future partner........make it good. I know I want my first date to be one that I will forever remember.

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