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OpalOnline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
ME: I am a smart, strong, independent, generous, passionate and competitive woman. I love a good adventure. I tend to look for the good in everything. I am cognizant that life is about living, and for me that means taking the time to slow down and be present in the moment. Love live music; it's the melody that first attracts me but it is the lyrics that make me fall in love with a song. I enjoy most genres of music; alternative, indie, singer-songwriter, folk, classic rock, jazz, blues and I have even been listening to a bit of new Country which is out of character for me. I’ I describe myself as having an hourglass figure, just a tad too much sand in the bottle for my liking, so I am a work in progress. Other interests include travel, hiking, art and cultural events, unfettered conversation, playing drums, cooking, and quality time spent with my friends and family.YOU: Obviously, chemistry seems to trump all, and quality trumps quantity in my book. I'm not about juggling multiple men I'm tepid toward (which is a disservice to all involved). I realize that mutual "rock your world" chemistry is quite the elusive thing, but I know it is possible. The following are characteristics/qualities I would desire to find in the man I would ultimately want to share my time with – not all are requirements. There could be some magical combination. Witty and educated, can talk on a myriad of subjects Great sense of humor is a mustSees things from a variety of perspectives and is open minded Listens to me and values my opinionsKnows how and when to take risksGenerally sees the glass as half fullThoughtful, passionate, spontaneous, curious, comfortable and quietly confident Young at heart and understands the importance of playShares similar interests and has some cross over with my musical tastesTells me I’m beautiful even when I might not be having the best dayUses terms of endearment liberally, yet genuinelyNot afraid of PDA, will hold my hand, hug and kiss me, in private will throw me down on the sofa, in the kitchen or in the bedroom in the heat of the moment and make love to me with wild abandonKnows my family and friends are important and supports those other relationships in my lifeCooks, knows something about wine and good food, strives to eat healthy Balances self needs with the needs of othersLikes to travelTries new things just becauseAsks and sometimes tells me what he wants, can be directive at timesCan relax and hang out at home having an uncomplicated “us day”– willing to express self in a variety of mediumsDesires happiness for self and othersDoes his own thing from time to time and not totally reliant upon me for existenceLets me dress and wear my hair as I like though he won’t shy away from telling me when I look like crapWill stare into my eyes for hours, loves to kiss and does so, wellWill indulge my whimsy and find it amusingCan guide me to different ways of thinking and decisions, without conking me over the head Not afraid of difficult conversations, willing to let me know if I have done wrong, been hurtful or insensitive, so I can learn to make better choicesMakes time for intimacy and cuddling, preferably upon waking and when we go to bed at night, as our schedules allowCan be strong for me when I just need to rest my head on his shoulder Looking for a guy whose crazy fits with my crazySomeone who just wants to be with me in all my glory, accepts me as is, who sees all my potentialMy intent on my profile indicates that I would like to have a relationship, however, I don't believe in jumping into anything too quickly. I'd like to meet people, see if we click, perhaps make some friends along the way, and should I stumble across the man for me I think we will both know when that happens. I consider myself a Hopeful Romantic - loving the idea of love, yet firmly living in reality. I still see the world full of possibilities. And for the man that might be my match; I can no longer offer you all of my firsts, but I can offer you all of my lasts.Bottom line, if you are relatively attractive or even if you are drop dead gorgeous, have an infectious personality, can flash a wickedly captivating smile, are for the most part happy, have never been incarcerated, aren't on meds for any new-age psychological ailment, and can take all this with a grain of salt, give me a shout - because I'd truly love to hear from you. I believe a first meeting should allow us the opportunity to talk, listen, and learn about each other so we can see if there is some sort of spark. I really don't know how I feel about online dating as it feels a bit unnatural. Not all senses are present and you really cannot get a good idea about the each other till you meet in person. In this day and age I understand the importance of being cautious for safety sake but I don't want a long term online dating experience (only chatting and sending messages online, or having a lengthy phone relationship). At some point we need to meet face to face. If the conversation is great or even good, if our time together seems to flow and not feel pressured, if we leave not wanting the conversation to end we should arrange a 2nd meeting - the real first date. If the opposite is true and you don't think I am a good fit for you, I'd prefer for you just to be upfront with me, and I'll do the same. My feelings won't be hurt - online dating sites are nothing more than an introduction service. The way I see it is we are all here at a cyber space party mingling, and maybe we happen to bump into someone that catches our eye and we begin a dialogue. So the first meeting is really the live version of continuing that dialogue to see if we mesh. It's all good.If you think we might be a good fit or you would like to get to know me, please reach out and let's start with a chat and take it from there. Best luck in your search!
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CarmenOnline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I am a kind hearted person....hence the profession I have chosen for a career. I enjoy being around people most of the time but also like my own quiet time. If you like type A personalities and/or possess the same we will get along well.The saying,"my glass is always half full" is me.....no room in my life for negativity and pessimism. I do not like procrastinators. I believe in getting the job done..... As a trauma nurse I have seen and done a lot in my career and because of this I am now at a point where I want to share my knowledge and experience, which is exactly what I am doing. A Master's Degree in Nursing is in my near future. Although I can be vain I also have no problem going out and getting dirty either. I love to work in the yard and garden when I have time to enjoy the benefits from doing so. Four-.... While I am not a fanatic about it, I do like to think I try to take care of myself.....keep in shape and eat pretty healthy most of the time. I am an independent person but always willing to ask for help if I need it and at the same time help others in any way I can if needed. Honesty and trust are the foundations of a solid relationship and are expected in any relationship I am in but you will get the same from me...... There are a lot of things I like to do.....fishing, camping, biking, hiking, hanging out with friends, bowling, reading, movies, concerts, traveling, going to dinner, decorating, and of course I love shopping.......there are a lot more things I like to do but this is enough to start a conversation. As far as music, I like a variety. I grew up playing piano so I was exposed to every type of music you can think of....except Rap and Heavy Metal. Those are two I really don't care for. I love animals and have pets so I hope you aren't allergic. Family and friendships are relationships I value through thick and thin. Without these in one's life what do you have? If I sound like someone you may like to meet and get to know, get in touch. We'll talk.
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BobbieOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
Enjoy life and treasure friendships. Comfortable in my own skin. New to dating scene - very different than what I remember twenty years ago! Love all aspects of the arts and love music - most genres (not into heavy metal or vulgar lyrics). Spend a lot of time writing. Enjoy traveling and anything outdoors (particularly beach, boating). Enjoy a movie on a rainy afternoon. Can spend hours in art galleries or museums - love history and inspired by learning from others. Sports fan, especially college football. Exercise important in my routine. My two kids are very important to me and live with me a majority of the time. Enjoy my work and find it challenging and rewarding.Eternal optimist... glass overflowing, versus half full or half empty, but real and grounded, too. Great listener and friend. Ready to begin a new - looking forward to what lies ahead.Looking for an independent man who is self-motivated, loves life, strong in his convictions and honors his word. Looking for a man who loves his woman as much as he loves himself. Love being near or on the water - so a location near the water would be ideal. Could be in a restaurant overlooking the water or a picnic on the beach. Engrossed in each others company and intrigued by the conversation. Jovial and light, filled with laughter and funny stories.