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Harriet, 48

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About Me

I'm not as innocent as I look, LOL but I am as sweet.I have been banging my head against a wall at this dating stuff. I'm a nice person looking for the same. I'm looking for my best friend in life. I'm VERY different from any woman you've ever met. I'm definitely a girly girl. I love shopping BUT, slap a 22 in my hands and we have a day at the shooting range. I'm looking for a man that treats women with respect and has NEVER hit a woman. I'm looking for a man that wants a long term relationship with a soul mate and is not always looking for an upgrade. I'm looking for a man that's looking for "ME". So, let's cut the Crap! I'm a sincerely honest, loyal person that's looking for the same. I don't like mean people, they tend to hurt my feelings. So if you've made a woman cry in the last month, please don't contact me. Ok, these are my bare minimum rules... 1. NO married men. 2. If you're looking for a one night stand.....STOP READING HERE! 3. Your income is not an issue here but if you don't have enough money to pay your next car payment, I'm not your girl. 4. If you have to take out a loan to go on vacation, we're not meant for each other. 5. If you still live with your ex, hmmm....see a therapist. 6. If you don't have a car or place to live......WOW, do I really have to say anything? 7. You must secure and be mentally and financially stable. Life isn't all about money but lack of money shouldn't be an issue either. I'm an honest, sweet, loyal, somewhat shy woman that's looking for an honest man that wants a friend for life. I'm looking for a man that's looking for his best friend by day and a wild woman by night. I'm looking for a man that has class, wants to travel and loves life. I love the outdoors so much that I own a tent that rivals my home so, you should like camping. Ok, just to see if you actually care what I wrote in my profile....mention champagne and strawberries in your reply.I could go on and on with who I am and who I want, blah blah blah, but who really wants to read a novel about that crap? Bottom line......looking for a guy that will treat me good and expect the same, not cheat on me and really wants to be in a relationship. I believe a woman should be there for her partner 100% and treat him with respect and should expect the same in return. After all these years of trial and tribulation, I've learned you only get out of a relationship what you put into it. I'm looking forward to a mature, exciting life with the man I hope to spend the rest of my life with. I hope you like amusement parks because this is going to be a wonderful ride. **BTW, this was a great *** First date? Wow, yes. The most awkward time in a relationship but what a wonderful time as well. The first time you feel butterflies and the anticipation of the first kiss. LOL. On the flip side, the thought of........"how do I get out of this one" and "why in the *** am I doing this?" But, you and I already have one thing in common, we both are looking for a better way of life.Just a hint, if this is the first day of the rest of our life together, make it good, even if it doesn't work out. If it does work, this could be the first date with your future partner........make it good. I know I want my first date to be one that I will forever remember.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a down to earth person who likes the simple things in life. I am a responsible woman who takes care of myself and my family. I have two grown children.I am looking for someone to share my life with. Someone who can be honest and trustworthy. Someone that can make me laugh and have a good time even when we are doing nothing special. I would hope that person can be a loving and kind man who is not afraid to show affection. Must Love Dogs :)

  • Dale

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Let's see...this is the hardest part isn't it? What can I say that doesn't sound the same as everyone else? I'd like to think I'm special and a really good catch...lol. I work hard, play harder and am an independent, self sufficient woman with a heart of gold. I am happy most of the time and love nothing more than to make people laugh. I have many friends, which in my opinion, is a good way to figure out a person's character. People that aren't nice and don't like anyone don't normally have many friends. lol. . I have a brilliant 12 yr old son that I adore and he really is a Godsend to me. Maybe the fact that he's an only child explains why he is so good all the time? I'm just really lucky to have him. I love kids and always hoped I'd have more than one or at least a stepkid or two but I'm done having children at this age. I don't want more of my own but I would be more than happy with someone else's in my life. I'm also an animal lover and have one fat little dog and feisty cat that rule the house. I'd really like to think there is someone out there for everyone although it sure seems to be harder and harder finding compatible matches these days.I like it when people send messages with a little bit of depth and not just "hi, how's it going?" Why not say a little something about yourself? That normally helps the other person to open up and say something about themselves...it's a give and take sorta take thing....lol Hope we all find a good catch! :^D I think the first meeting should be something laid back where we can talk and get to know each other. No matter what, I try my hardest to be a friendly, personable, and fun date! Even if there isn't a spark; I love meeting new people and it never hurts to make a new friend!

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