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Harriet, 48

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About Me

I'm not as innocent as I look, LOL but I am as sweet.I have been banging my head against a wall at this dating stuff. I'm a nice person looking for the same. I'm looking for my best friend in life. I'm VERY different from any woman you've ever met. I'm definitely a girly girl. I love shopping BUT, slap a 22 in my hands and we have a day at the shooting range. I'm looking for a man that treats women with respect and has NEVER hit a woman. I'm looking for a man that wants a long term relationship with a soul mate and is not always looking for an upgrade. I'm looking for a man that's looking for "ME". So, let's cut the Crap! I'm a sincerely honest, loyal person that's looking for the same. I don't like mean people, they tend to hurt my feelings. So if you've made a woman cry in the last month, please don't contact me. Ok, these are my bare minimum rules... 1. NO married men. 2. If you're looking for a one night stand.....STOP READING HERE! 3. Your income is not an issue here but if you don't have enough money to pay your next car payment, I'm not your girl. 4. If you have to take out a loan to go on vacation, we're not meant for each other. 5. If you still live with your ex, hmmm....see a therapist. 6. If you don't have a car or place to live......WOW, do I really have to say anything? 7. You must secure and be mentally and financially stable. Life isn't all about money but lack of money shouldn't be an issue either. I'm an honest, sweet, loyal, somewhat shy woman that's looking for an honest man that wants a friend for life. I'm looking for a man that's looking for his best friend by day and a wild woman by night. I'm looking for a man that has class, wants to travel and loves life. I love the outdoors so much that I own a tent that rivals my home so, you should like camping. Ok, just to see if you actually care what I wrote in my profile....mention champagne and strawberries in your reply.I could go on and on with who I am and who I want, blah blah blah, but who really wants to read a novel about that crap? Bottom line......looking for a guy that will treat me good and expect the same, not cheat on me and really wants to be in a relationship. I believe a woman should be there for her partner 100% and treat him with respect and should expect the same in return. After all these years of trial and tribulation, I've learned you only get out of a relationship what you put into it. I'm looking forward to a mature, exciting life with the man I hope to spend the rest of my life with. I hope you like amusement parks because this is going to be a wonderful ride. **BTW, this was a great *** First date? Wow, yes. The most awkward time in a relationship but what a wonderful time as well. The first time you feel butterflies and the anticipation of the first kiss. LOL. On the flip side, the thought of........"how do I get out of this one" and "why in the *** am I doing this?" But, you and I already have one thing in common, we both are looking for a better way of life.Just a hint, if this is the first day of the rest of our life together, make it good, even if it doesn't work out. If it does work, this could be the first date with your future partner........make it good. I know I want my first date to be one that I will forever remember.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Victoria

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very energetic person ,that loves to dance, work out at the gym, and do anything outside from yard work, to hanging out at the lake.I like to stay in shape and if its not raining, I am outside doing something to keep busy. I love animals and have dogs.Traveling is great, but I am also just as happy, going for a ride in the mountains to look at the leaves. I love the beach too. As for music, anything that I can dance to works for me. I am looking for someone who appreciates life and wants to have fun, and live life to the fullest. I dont mind getting dirty, & if you wanna work outside, I will work with you, I can dress up when the situation is right, but am a jeans kinda woman that loves to be involved in life, Every day is a new adventure, and to have someone to share it with, and have fun with, would be awesome.I am looking for , just someone like me, who loves the outdoors, likes to dance, and appreciates life and wants to 'live it" and not just sit around, watching TV and let life pass them by. Honesty is important to me. A person is only as good as their word, So if you can be honest, no drama, no BS, and want to live everyday like it is a gift and you wanna have fun, enjoy life and can be honest with me, then drop me a line. My outlook on life is-- live like there is no tomorrow, laugh like no one can hear you, dance like no one is looking, and love with your entire heart , soul, To be able to find someone, to just have fun with, seems the best realtionships, can hit you when you least expect it. I am looking for someone to share smiles with,,, someone that loves life! Someone to walk with me, on this journey, called life! Someone to walk WITH me... not in front of me... not behind me... next to me.... sharing the laughter, and sometimes the pain , of everyday life!! One thing I have learned in life, is that anything worth having, is worth working for. So, if you like what you see, and what you read, drop me a line... Nothing fancy, maybe a light meal, somewhere we can chat and get to know each other., find out each others interests, see if there is any chemistry between the two of us,Then we can decide if we want to go on to a second date. and see what happens

  • Constance

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I have been told that I'm pretty mellow & "not your typical Scorpio", which I would tend to believe has to do with age & maturity?! "Pick your fights", "Don't sweat the small stuff", "It is what it is" or perhaps it's because I like to SMILE & enjoy a good sense of humor?! With that said, however, I am also not a pushover & if warranted....people do recieve the sting of my poisonous tale/tongue! As far as "nothing serious" goes...I do prefer to date, then see where it leads & if a "relationship" develops...BONUS!!! But I will only go with it for as long as it remains healthy for both parties. I am NOT interested in "one night stands", "booty calls" or games...if this applies to you, please move along!!!I am a "traveling nurse" from the mid-west, out here in Cali on short & long-term assignments. The beauty, quaintness & people of "NorCal" have really captured my heart & I will remain here for as long as possible. My child is grown & remains in the mid-west, which allows me the freedom to open myself up to new experiences as I sneak up on the big 5-0!I enjoy most types of music as I was a music major & in "show choirs" throughout Jr & Sr High school. I have dabbled back into singing over the past 4 years, but just for fun! I enjoy singing karaoke frequently & I am more likely to be able to tell you where the karaoke spots are in a town rather than the churches. Lol!! I enjoy watching live music/bands perform as well.My varied interests are listed below, if you feel that we could hit it off...feel free to message me! If not, best of luck in your continued search!

  • Kelly

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am divorced and looking for someone special i can spend my life with. I am a mother of 4 grown children, nd a grand-mother of 9 I have a great sence of humour and love to have fun. I love music, dancing, going to the movies. I like to think i'm romantic in my our way, candelight diners and then curl up to a good movie. I have a 2 yr old Rottie ( Bullet } who is my big baby, who i would never part with he is my best friend. Only time will tell. Have a great day :) Coffee & conversation is a good :-)

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