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Violet, 45

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About Me

Hi ... I am ready for a (NEW BEGINNING). I want people with real personalities who are not afraid of the truth and enjoy the simple things in life! Life is 2 Short & People work 2 hard 2 NOT enjoy LIFE!I live day by day and never plan anything.. I am trying to enjoy life as much as possible. I have goals and dreams that I am trying to reach. So for now I work and do whatever in between.... When you least expect it I know you will find him. I have 4 children that I enjoy very much and yes they are all 18 and older so no babies.,,, (did my job) so now it is time start over... I hate starting over!!! but who knows what the future holds for me... Just ready to travel in the next 3 to five years and hopefully its with you.I don't read like I should and do not watch a lot of television. 1. I work a lot!!! 2. TV is Shit!!!!! I hate people who get caught up in crap and do not live because they might miss 12 hours of tv. Don't get me wrong.. I will watch tv and watch it with you just not all day and night!!!! I love all types of music.. depends on who I am with and the mood I'm in and where I am. Not picky about food... good food anyway, I do NOT eat a lot of fast food and I love to cook good food and I will definately cook good for you. I know how to treat a man as long as you know how to treat a woman!!!Email me if..... 1. If you are real NOT a player 2. If you treat your mom with respect! (unless she didn't want you like my mom) ;o( 3. NO NO NO 1 NIGHT STANDS!!!! 4. You know how to (treat a lady) 5. If your not a liar/cheater/scum/loser 6. If you like the simple things in life 7. If you love your kids and will except that I have 4 grown kids (only 1 lives with me going to college) 8. If you buy flowers/cards/and do things just because (I love surprises) & (surprising you) 9. If you are a great listener/work/stable/clean 10. If you are Drama Free!!!/Not Married!!!!/Drug Free!!!! 11. Make sure your photos are recent and you are who you say you are!So what I am trying to say is you don't have to be perfect.. but we are all adults and people take advantages of certain situations and waste time... I don't want my time wasted on some fake ass guy who is not sincere, not real, lies, and not respectful.... Been through all of that I am 45 not 18... So please NO GAMES!!.... Not trying to sound perfect but tired of games...... Thank you and good luck!!!!! xo ;o) On a first date..... 1. No you are not picking me up from my house... lol 2. Please decent clothes ok ;o) 3. No one night stands 4. Lets talk over a drink/appetizer 5. Save the lines for someone else 6. When I am talking to you hopefully you will be into me and not the girl behind me 7. Just go with the flow and if it is meant to meet for a second date then that is great!!! ;0)I am really a nice down to earth person... I am a lady in the street and a freak in the bed!!!! Nothing can be forced and you have to do what comes naturally. If 2 people are into each other then that means there is some kind of chemistry and time will tell when the time is right to take it to the next level. Just be respectful and you will get it back.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Deidre

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is the difficult part, talking about myself without sounding boring, conceited or weird especially when the goal is to sound intelligent, confident and hilarious......ok hilarious might be a stretch, maybe amusing?! :)I enjoy being active, healthy and staying fit but also enjoy my downtime whether it's reading, watching a movie, catching one of my favorite shows or easy conversation. My friends and family tell me I'm fun, loyal, outgoing, affectionate (yikes, sounding a bit like a dog here), compassionate, a good listener, funny. They also tell me I'm anal (I say neat), a nerd (I say goofy), blunt (I say honest). I enjoy travel, surprises, music, dancing, sports (some), books, laid out plans, last minute plans, open mind, photography, silliness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, kids laughter, simplicity, respect, honesty, down to earth, sense of humor about yourself, awareness, standing by your word, hugs/kisses, holding hands, beaches, campfires, friends, family....I have more pictures available and if we end up communicating, I'm happy to share and expect the same in return. :)Good luck with your search. Something easy and casual - drink, walk, etc

  • Betty

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi. Im 44 and not into games so say what you mean and mean what you say! Im just a simple girl. Like hanging out, watching movies, love to laugh. Stop by and say hi.I have 3 grown sons and grandkids who mean the world to me! Music is my passion and so is writing. I'm very expressive through both. So if you like to sing too lets chill and see how we sound together! :) p.s. Kisses on my forehead are my favorite! ;)UPDATE:I am adding a few things now...I work 2nd shift and my days off are Monday and Tuesday. I know thats not easy to work around, but it will be worth it. I am looking for the man who can read my mind, and I his, from a simple glance across the room. That is the sort of chemistry I am want, and I won't stop until I find it...I'm looking for someone to hang out with, someone who can make me laugh, and who can make me feel like Im all his when we are together, as I will do the same for him. Im an adult woman who enjoys the company of a mature adult man. I am quiet n shy at first but do have a wild n funny side if the right person comes along to bring it out. *Kisses on my forehead are my favorite kisses* I know...silly, but it's so sweet! I love quiet evening walks. I want to be kissed in the rain and have my hand held in public. I love PDA. I want to find that man that has the kind of chemistry with me that when we glance at each other from across the room, our eyes speak and we smile knowing each others sweet thoughts that noone else around us can hear or even understand. I want that man who can speak to me through a simple kiss which is very important. Yes, thats the kind of thing I am searching for......are you that man???? I believe in respect. I believe in self respect and giving all that you have as a person to that special someone.I believe in God and his many blessings. Im not materialistic, so know that Im not on here looking for a sugar daddy as they say. I'm just a simple girl. Im looking for a real, deep, committed, honest, faithful, unconditional love like Ive never known, and I wont stop until I find it.....but until then Im just a country girl who can have fun having a nice dinner sumwhere or just hanging out with friends around a bonfire. My family is very important to me and I have 3 grown sons and 4 grands, with 1 more on the way, who I love with all my heart. Im very passionate about love and life, and if Im ever lucky enuff to find true love, I will say that Ive truly been blessed even more. ~~ "She wore blue jeans and a rosary. Believes in God and believes in me. All her friends think she's a little crazy. She wears a smile, heart on her sleeve. Don"t give a d**n what the world thinks of me. She tells me it's all good. She's happy with a bad seed. Happy to be misunderstood."~~ you decide...but keep it interesting!

  • Marisa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am seeking to meet someone I can share life's joys with. I can't really package up all that I am and all that I'm looking for in a neat little online box. Love is a capricious thing and not ruled by logic or convenient circumstances. Whereas I may be perfectly capable of going it alone, many things are more fun with company. I bring joy and respect and expect the same. I care much more about what we share than what happens when we are apart. So some common ground to start from.... I love music and dancing. I don't own a TV and don't miss it at all. My favorite holiday is Beltane. When I'm not stuck behind a desk at work, I make candles, sew, take long walks, go to music and Dagorhir events. If I tell you then where is the test of your creativity? I've been a strongly independant woman most of my life. I'd like to take a little break and let someone else lead for awhile. Hint: if it involves music and any of the other things on my interest list you are off to a good start.

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