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Phyllis, 43

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About Me

I love to LAUGH. Laughing with others, at myself, as well as being funny, finding humour in unlikely places…making the best of situations, smiling, hugging, holding, leaning, dancing, skipping, splashing...and laughing again.I am open and honest. I've never been married...was engaged once... a long time ago. With each new relationship I have lived a little more, loved more, laughed more, and learned more... about who I am, what I like, don't like and what I need and want in my life. I am genuine, gentle, sweet, loving, kind, usually always positive and usually always seeing the best in someone or something. I am a sensitive being, can be serious, but also playful and a little bratty sometimes too...but in a totally fun way. I have an athletic build that is a bit curvy and a few extra pounds. So i am not sure what i should have selected. I am pretty active once again.-Sep 22 this year), hiking, kayaking and am looking forward to doing more…lots more. I do not have children not because I did not want any, but timing was just what it was. I have a back ground in Child & Youth Care, coached recreational gymnastics for 11 years... and through friends and work colleagues, I get to enjoy kids that belong to other people. If it is meant to be, I will become involved with someone who already has children...or maybe even grand children.Family and close friends are important. They may not be perfect but neither am I. I love them anyway. Life happens but what matters most is not what happens...it is how you respond to it. So.....It is time to venture out and risk vulnerability...in search of a soul mate, a best friend, a lover. If you have a healthy approach to life, food, activity, friendship, family, are honest, open, not afraid of emotion, and enjoy some of the same interests...including conversation....about anything and nothing - Social, political, entertainment, feelings, friends, family, spirituality, community issues...concerns...likes, dislikes, doing quizzes to foster getting to know each other.....perhaps it is time to take a chance?Please post your photo - And if you say you are looking for a relationship but are really looking for a sexual encounter...keep fishing.Thanks! Meeting for coffee or tea or lemonade. Get the awkward stuff that did not get touched on - online or by *** of the way and see where it goes...maybe a walk or dinner...or...bowling...aquatic driving range....or mini golf????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tracey

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to dance,sing,walks on the beach i also live in the water. i am on the beach every chance i get,summertime is my season you will never find me in the house.Im always cruising around in my little red truck or out with friends loving life and the adventures it brings.Life is never boring with me thats for sure. My idea of a first date would be dinner and a great movie then drinks and amazing conversation after in a classy place to top off the rest of the night.

  • Alma

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Just taking a look around. Haven't been on in a while but I am sure that I will see some familiar faces. Don't be afraid to say "hi". I am interested in meeting someone who would enjoy going to movies, watching live bands and trying different types of food. I am creative and love to laugh. I also have a huge soft spot for animals. I enjoy doing Pilates, but I am not a fitness fanatic. I do think it is important to have a healthy mind and body. I have a B.A. in Drama and English so I appreciate proper grammar;) Also, if you don't have a pic, I won't respond to your message. I like to have an idea of who I am talking to.If any of this interests you, drop me a line. I look forward to hearing from you:) We meet, it turns out that your photos were actually recent (not 5 years ago;), we talk for hours and make a plan to meet again!:D

  • Audra

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Me & what I like...I have tattoos... no piercings... Working hard, sleeping in. Coffee, quite in the morning, sleeping to a fan. Kissing :), laughing, smiling, sunflowers, golf. Family, friends. Cooking, alone time. My dog. My cat. My job. Music.... all kinds. Dinner out. Oceans, the moon, the smell of up north. Growing my own vegetables. Laying on a boat in the sun. Camping, bed n breakfast, room service. Italian food, accents. A man in uniform. Honesty. Mutual Respect.I have never been married...almost, I am happy and I am doing what I love. I would like to meet a wonderful man and see what happens from there...hopefully... I will find my best friend and we will live happily ever after!...lol .... I'm all grown up... I have raised a boy into a good man.... I am not into games or drama. I have complications in my life just like everyone else....It's finding someone that can adapt to your life and you to theirs. I want that feeling again when he brushes up against you and your heart almost hits your feet, and he didn't even know he did it. I want to see the smile on his face that is the one he has only for me. I want to be at work and can't wait to get home to see him.....everyday. You:Attractive, confident, kind, honest. TALLer, funny, protecting. Smart, handy, spontaneous, sarcastic. Fun. Cares about others and themselves. I would like to meet someone that is in to living a healthy life style and wants to continue to do so. Dinner... coffee... conversation?

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