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Phyllis, 43

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About Me

I love to LAUGH. Laughing with others, at myself, as well as being funny, finding humour in unlikely places…making the best of situations, smiling, hugging, holding, leaning, dancing, skipping, splashing...and laughing again.I am open and honest. I've never been married...was engaged once... a long time ago. With each new relationship I have lived a little more, loved more, laughed more, and learned more... about who I am, what I like, don't like and what I need and want in my life. I am genuine, gentle, sweet, loving, kind, usually always positive and usually always seeing the best in someone or something. I am a sensitive being, can be serious, but also playful and a little bratty sometimes too...but in a totally fun way. I have an athletic build that is a bit curvy and a few extra pounds. So i am not sure what i should have selected. I am pretty active once again.-Sep 22 this year), hiking, kayaking and am looking forward to doing more…lots more. I do not have children not because I did not want any, but timing was just what it was. I have a back ground in Child & Youth Care, coached recreational gymnastics for 11 years... and through friends and work colleagues, I get to enjoy kids that belong to other people. If it is meant to be, I will become involved with someone who already has children...or maybe even grand children.Family and close friends are important. They may not be perfect but neither am I. I love them anyway. Life happens but what matters most is not what happens...it is how you respond to it. So.....It is time to venture out and risk vulnerability...in search of a soul mate, a best friend, a lover. If you have a healthy approach to life, food, activity, friendship, family, are honest, open, not afraid of emotion, and enjoy some of the same interests...including conversation....about anything and nothing - Social, political, entertainment, feelings, friends, family, spirituality, community issues...concerns...likes, dislikes, doing quizzes to foster getting to know each other.....perhaps it is time to take a chance?Please post your photo - And if you say you are looking for a relationship but are really looking for a sexual encounter...keep fishing.Thanks! Meeting for coffee or tea or lemonade. Get the awkward stuff that did not get touched on - online or by *** of the way and see where it goes...maybe a walk or dinner...or...bowling...aquatic driving range....or mini golf????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Therese

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If you are looking for someone who is classy, genuine, outgoing, honest,loyal, generous to a fault and just as comfortable in t-shirt/jeans as a formal gown.........I'm your girl. I am definitely an outsdoors girl and love watersports, football, baseball, etc.. I am hoping to meet someone who is loyal, chivalrous and respectful, with integrity and a diligent work ethic. I am a Christian and my faith is very important to me. so I hope it is to you too! My parents have been married for 45 years and are truly committed to each other.......that is what I hope to find that for myself someday. I am not looking for perfection, just perfect for me. I am well established in my career of medical sales and am not looking for a man to financially support me. I am looking for a partner to build a future with together.Are you a guy who enjoys the outdoors, the lake, the river, sports, live music, etc? If so, I hope to hear from you! If you are just looking for a "good time" or Miss Right Now, and we all know what I mean..... please pick another profile, as I am interested in a true relationship. Good luck with your search............

  • Adeline

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a young and vibrant acting 44 year old cool white chick that has a zest for life and you should too.I am looking for someone fun and compatible with my likes and dislikes. Overall, my friendship with you should flow pretty easily. I can only hope we can maneuver into a LTR, but realize that takes time. Ultimately, that is what I am looking for. I am educated, I have a wonderful family and employed at an exceptionally great company - with these, I have very little to complain about. I am a pretty easy going and fun loving individual. I can morph myself into enjoying any situation. Life is what you make of it right?I have my interests listed: Currently I am doing a lot of reading, photography and hanging with my friends/family. I do not like to fish! I'll go with you, but no need to bring an extra pole. I do not watch the races on TV (in person is fun) and not much of a sports fan; unless it's my sons team. I will attend games, but watching on TV tends to bore me. I do watch the Superbowl each year though for whatever that's worth. You should be comfortable with who you are, have an active lifestyle, good job and a pleasant outlook on life. Have time in your life to actually get to know someone. Confidence is very sexy whereas arrogance is not. If you like who you are it will show in genuinely nice ways. Be healthy and enjoy some of what I have listed above for interests – If you think we could be a match drop me a message and let’s get out and start doing things. A first date should be comfortable. My preference is a glass of wine with appetizers; something simple and casual.I am confident enough to be myself. I have a “just chill and let the chemistry do its thing” approach. If we like each other we’ll move forward, if we don’t, it was still great meeting you.

  • Aisha

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I like to fish, camp and play volleyball. I am very in to my family love my kids. my music love rock, country and hip hop. go for a walk down bye river and get to know each other

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