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Charity, 41

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About Me

....I'm an extremely confident person. I would like to think I'm "normal" or at least fit somewhere in the spectrum of "normal". I'm a PhD student, mother of one, friends with my ex and his girlfriend, I'm not looking to "hook up" or for "fwb" and don't have time for drama...I'm not sure how "normal" that truly is these days...lol…I’m just a confident, yet goofy kind of girl. I’ I’m looking for the real thing and want a real relationship, curled up on the couch enjoying whatever movie or simply sharing the conversation of our day… Sharing and supporting one another’s dreams and interests…I’m looking for that one person that doesn’t fit on my bookshelf of life, but *** beside me learning the true meaning of life together…I also believe that relationships take time and are not *** in no rush to settle for less than my best friend.I am looking for a guy who understands happiness isn't found in possessions, or in the size of a paycheck. There is no more an attractive quality than a kind/caring/loving soul. If you are the kind of person who comes first in their own life, I am not the girl for you. I am a mom who cares for the future for her son and others…I make conscious decisions every day that reflect the mark I will leave behind when I’m gone and hope you do the same.I am a good person with lots of energy…In a nutshell I am bright, witty, warm, and adventurous. I am educated and intelligent...there is a difference. I can offer both refinement and zaniness, which means I can discuss the existence of nothing and I am wonderfully in tune with my inner child…In fact today my inner child threw a tantrum because the voices in my head refused to share the sandbox of my mental playground…It was weird!...lolWhat you can expect from me: openness, insight, honesty, laughter, intimacy, support, loyalty, independence and respect your independence. I cheer for people in whatever is important to them even in those tough moments.I come house trained, can cook and am able to iron (only when all dryer tricks fail)...lol…And while I am able to take care of most things myself, it doesn't mean that my heart doesn't melt when someone takes the time to do something nice for me. Those little gestures are what romance is made of! I have an open and earnest heart. I know who I am and what I want.What would my friends say about me? (real words from real friends) 1. She is the most balanced person I have ever met and handles every situation with a fair clear view of both sides.2.3. She not only looks like her photos at first glance but when you talk to her you will be consumed by her beauty.4. She is well educated and has the ability to fit in too many walks of life but she is a simple happy person.5. She is not the kind of girl that is going to let one bad moment control the next.6. She has a wild side and can be child like, she is the kind of girl that if there is a ball she will be playing with it.7. She always looks great but the fact that she lives in the moment and knows nails can be fixed and hair can be redone makes her even sexier.8. One of the greatest qualities I have witnessed in her is that she has great compassion for not only her own child but all children.9. She is truly a piece of abstract art! Something low pressure with no expectation....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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