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Meagan, 36
United States, Illinois, Champaign

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About Me

I am looking for my best friend. I was married for almost 15 years and when we stopped being friends, it stopped working. I am wanting to find someone that I can share all of myself with...my hopes, dreams and my daily random thoughts lol.So I have been divorced for 3 years now. I have dated a little in those 3 years and I have learned some things about what I like and what I don't like, what I want vs what I don't. I must say I am a little discouraged with the way dating is now...it's so impersonal thanks to technology. I really dislike trying to meet someone through a computer, smh what happened to meeting through friends or out in public places??? But here I am lol. So we browse profiles in search of something we like, we make contact via messaging, talk for a little bit (4 *** more) and then exchange phone numbers. Texting commences....hi..how are you? and then BAM send me some pics. UMMM, I have pics on here for you to see...didn't you look at them before you asked for my number?? My point is that everyone is in such a ****ing hurry that they don't take the time to get to know each other anymore these days. Maybe I'm old fashioned but I think being friends first is pretty important. If you just want sex...they are prostitutes trying to make a living hanging out in the streets every night and there are escort services and happy endings at massage parlors, and there are websites geared just for people who are looking for random sexual encounters...but I can not stress enough I'M NOT ONE OF THEM. Point being is I like to take my time getting to know someone. I'm not in any hurry.I'm about 5'2" with a curvy body, dark reddish brown hair, brown eyes and freckles. I am a mother of an 8 yr. old boy. I have a job and live on my own...in other words I take care of myself. I'm smart, independent, creative, adventurous, funny, sarcastic, affectionate, honest, loyal, artistic, romantic and sexy. I'm very passionate about photography, my camera and equipment go with me everywhere. I love being outdoors taking pictures of every place I explore. I really enjoy hiking, kayaking and fishing. Although I don't usually idle much I do occassionally enjoy laying around the house watching movies or reading books. I'm a very curious individual, I like to know what makes people tick. My ideal first date would be doing something outdoors like going for a hike, or going fishing or kayaking down the river...followed up by dinner and a movie, and that could be home made dinner in for 2 with a movie or a meal out on the town and followed up with a trip to a drive in movie theatre. I'm always open to suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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