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Joni, 36
United States, Illinois, Champaign

Offline, last seen Sun, 07 Jun 2026 02:13:45

About Me

I've been on and off meetville...met some very nice men through this site, just no long term connection yet. I'm not sure what is going to lead to that connection happening there is so much to consider at this stage of life. There are kids, mortgages, exes, personal finances (things we didn't have to think about when we were 20)...it's going to take a pretty fantastic connection to want to work with all of that and make it stick. I know I'm willing, I hope that whoever I meet has thought seriously about it too.Some of what I'm looking for:ConfidentKindCaringHas patienceOpen to new ideasCan carry a conversationEmpathy for the plight of othersLoves and/or appreciates learningAwareness of others (our actions impact others, whether intentionally or not)I am a loyal and committed partner. I want to be in a long-term committed relationship. I am looking to build a future with someone. I want to find someone who enjoys my company as much as I enjoy his and I want it to feel easy to be with each other (that said, relationships do take work).I haven't travelled much and I plan on doing a lot more in the future. There are a lot of places I want to see. I certainly haven't seen enough of this beautiful country of ours and can't wait to see more of it! Plenty of other countries I'd love to visit too.I love all kinds of music. I do have some favorites like.....I love to dance...so anything I can dance to is great!! I'm a golden oldies fan. I sing in the shower (doesn't everybody?). Sometimes I even sing when I'm not in the shower! Sometimes I sing and dance at the same time (think the unicorn song from the Irish Rovers).I rarely drink, I’m usually driving and would NEVER mix the two. Meeting over drinks, for me, means meeting for coffee.I have children. If that bothers you at all, please keep looking elsewhere because they are a huge part of everything I do. It doesn't matter to me if you have children or not. I'm already a parent so more children in my life is fine with me. If you don't have children, that's fine too. A few points I would like to make to reduce the likelihood of wasting your time or mine:- I am only interested in sex as part of a committed relationship. I don't do one night stands and am not interested in sleeping with someone I JUST MET.- If you message me with nothing more than "hi", you will not receive a response. If you are interested enough to message me, say something about yourself (or even the weather), or ask me a question (like you would if we were meeting in person). - If you choose to message me please refrain from saying I'm cute. I'm not twelve years old nor am I a puppy. (You can also refrain from using terms such as, but not limited to, hot, sexy, pretty, etc.) As a matter of fact, just don't say anything about my appearance. This online forum means we are limited to a photo and some words on a screen. You wouldn't send me a message if you didn't think I met your standard of attractiveness.- While I can completely appreciate you having interests in sports, cars, movies, etc., if you are ONLY interested in these and know nothing, nor care for anything, beyond such interests then we would not be a good match.- If you feel the need to talk about your sexual prowess in your profile, or at all for that matter, we are not a good match.- If you find yourself complaining about all of this "politically correct bullshit"...we would not be a good match.- If you've ever complained that white people/men are becoming the minority whose rights are being *** would not be a good match.Happy Fishing!!One more thing - no pic no response - not interested in chatting with a phantom...lol. Probably getting to know each other a little better over coffee...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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