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Shirley, 36
United States, Illinois, Champaign

Offline, last seen Sun, 07 Jun 2026 04:22:41

About Me

well here we go......I am a 35 year old single mom of a wonderful little boy. We have a dog, a cat and a fish. I am a hard worker and can usually "get it done" when I need to. I love to do yard work. I always end up throwing and stacking the firewood with the people I hire to bring it to me. With that though I am a very girly girl and work in a fancy women's clothing boutique. I LOVE flowers, getting pedicures and massages but love camping and going to the river and long drives up in the woods drinking beers. I can cook pretty good and love to bake during the holidays. I love to hang out and spend time with my family and close friends. I would almost always choose a night in with a movie and dinner in our jammies then a night out and about, but I will always require special "date" nights out together with my special someone. My son has a very good dad that he sees regularly and I am not looking for a daddy for him. I need someone that can respect and love me so that my son sees how a healthy relationship works. My special someone needs to be a friend to my son and support how I raise him and the rules I set for him. I am always a good listener and would respect your opinions and ideas if you are someone in a serious relationship with me and have parenting ideas to bring to the table. I am pretty open minded and love meeting all kinds of people. I believe I have a gift of compassion for people and can usually see the good side of most people, and even if someone is really different in societies eyes I can find a wonderful part of them that alot can't see. Some would call it a downfall but I think its a good thing. Oh and I love to sing and dance in the morning when I am home alone and noone is watching LOL.....seriously....and I have been told I am silly and goofy before. Coffee or drinks......walk by the river.....pretty open as far a a date goes. I just want both of us to feel comfy on the first date and not feel alot of pressure

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Gardening Canadian Japanese Spanish Adult Family & Kids Martial Arts War Western
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