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Chandra, 39
United States, Wisconsin, Oshkosh

Offline, last seen Sun, 14 Jun 2026 08:24:34

About Me

I have 2 great kids, that are my world and try to spend as much time with them as possible. I work a sometimes demanding job with not so set schedule when it is. I have at least six years left before my 20. The military has been most of my life, yes I'm a veteran. I don't expect you to understand, but know I still believe in what I do. And I've only come this far being told I couldn't. I don't like making plans as they get messed up and don't always happen, someone that is flexible is great.Just moved to area and would like more friends than co-workers. I'm very easy going and too honest. Sorry no time for drama and bs. I'm not needy or high maintenance and prefer someone that wasn't. Would like someone to look up to, yes that means taller than me. I'd like someone to make me laugh and have fun with or hang out.If you're going to talk dirty to me, you will most likely be blocked. At least get to know someone before you get freaky. I do like to go out once in awhile and I have a few drinks now and then. But if you party all the time and at a bar every weekend, that's not in my plan. Everyone has a sad story, it's best not to dwell on it. With that said I don't need to know all about it. I believe you can't move forward if you're still looking back! This is the show me state right, looking for someone to show me there are still good guys left. Or a reason to get off this site. Just ask me what you want to know. No rush....but would like to be surprised!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Irish Japanese Crime Martial Arts Music Snowboarding Volleyball
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