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Eddie, 51
United States, South Carolina, Sumter

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Internet dating is bizarre...Personally, I connect first with most people’-versa to the many men that have passed by my photos as well. However, supposedly Internet Dating is the now-a-day way to meet someone…but I’m not buying it. I still believe there has to be a better way but until I figure out what that is; I’ll try and make the best of it…Shall I start by saying how I love to travel and list all the things I want in a man...Blah, Blah, Blah....Look- what I've found from a lot of experience is, Chemistry is chemistry, it's a mystery. Why we find sparks with one person and not another-who knows?...But, compatibility is the next layer of chemistry and you have to discover that part of someone’s personality over time, not over a vente half-caf latte with non-fat. So I'd prefer to try and give you a bit more insight about me so we don't waste each other’s time.I enjoy good conversations about all types of topics. Nothing turns a girl on like a great mind-great conversation- now that's sexy! I am very creative and enjoy writing, painting, graphic design, and I’m always coming up with new ideas for my business. I'm passionate in all areas of my life, I enjoy being, spontaneous and adventurous with my partner and love passionate flirtatious banter. I enjoy doing some hiking, I go to the gym but only because I have to but can't really say I love it...yep, there I said it. I'm a beach girl - love the ocean but the mountains too. But I'm not 20 years old anymore and I'm never going to be a size two again...But I take my health serious and love to eat healthy and stay active but I enjoy life moment-by-moment-so some days I enjoy Chocolate and Champagne, possibly just after finishing my Kale and Spinach smoothie and an hour and a half of yoga! I have a lot of very close friends and I love socializing and donating my time to charities that I'm passionate about. So basically: I'm creative, funny, I can be sarcastic at times and I hate long drawn-out explanations...just give me the bottom-line...Now that's Irony... isn't it... being that my profile is so long..., LOL. However, I truly am loving, caring and have a big heart and I'm extremely honest and I just don't have a lot of patience with arrogance, or someone who doesn't treat others with complete respect. I have fun writing, hence why this is so long. (Thanks for hanging in there) I've been published a few times in non-fiction but recently I wanted to try fiction and I'm having so much fun writing a romantic comedy. I love being around other writers, great storytelling is a wonderful gift and so is making someone laugh. I'm only looking for men who are happy with their lives and truly know how to laugh and of course, a loving, kind personality. I’m a sales account manager for Industrial buildings’ energy efficiency, as well as, an international speaker/advocate for brain tumor patients. I help educate medical professionals and raise public awareness about pituitary and brain tumors. This has kept me very busy for the past 13 years and I love it. I deal with a lot of people with very serious health concerns so I really don't have time for drama in my spare time-I make sure I surround myself with people that know how to enjoy life and do their best even when life throws them challenges. I appreciate quality time spent with someone that I have mutual interest with; I'm into quality verses quantity. And, I see humor in mostly everything.- So please... if it bothers you that on many topics my views maybe more left than right, then we are not obviously a match. I seem to receive a lot of mail from men who have beautiful Harley’s or other types of nice motorcycles, so I just want to be polite and tell you I'm not a motorcycle person-at all, so we probably won’t be a good match. I see a lot of people with Traumatic Brain Injury-so I’m not a motorcycle fan, but that’s my deal not yours, so ride on and enjoy, just be safe.I'm not a big drinker either, I like a nice glass of wine here or there and I enjoy socializing with friends where we enjoy a drink but that’s about it. I have a passion for learning about new things so I look forward to good conversations and as I said, I love humor and I love a good laugh. My favorite is the kind of laughing that makes your sides hurt and you snort trying to catch your breath.So In a nutshell, I'm just your normal girl, who doesn't have children, who lives a wonderful, interesting but normal life, who is looking for someone I click with to have fun, laugh and enjoy each other and see where our relationship takes us. I believe there is an ass for every seat and there is someone out there just perfect for me. Most likely not “perfect” but perfect for each other. And for those that have read this entire novel -Thank you! Just trying to weed out a few whack jobs...So thank you for taking the first step to getting to know me. I look forward to getting to know you as well. A first date is a lot of pressure and can be not nearly as much fun as the second date, so I prefer to just meet for a casual drink or coffee, with not a lot of fluff. I’d rather someone feel comfortable, it’s much easier for me to think of fun date ideas after I get to know someone.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. Age from 45ish-55ishLive within 75 milesNo casual "encounters"No drugsNot marriedNo smoking

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Rap Fishing
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