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Etta, 51
United States, South Carolina, Sumter

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About Me

ME: Hoping to find my best friend, as well as the love of my life.. a cool combination... I'm outgoing, spontaneous, athletic, friendly, talkative. I love a dry direct sense of humor...Seinfeld was a favorite of mine! Chemistry is a must, kissing should be amazing. If the spark isn't there, it can't be forced...With the right person, I enjoy being close and intimate. I do not want to date multiple people, just one person to connect with fully. Not interested in being in your personal episode of The Bachelor.MY GUY: TALL...SWM. He manages to find a moment in his day to make a quick call or send a text, just to say, "I'm thinking of you". It takes 30 seconds and he knows he's just made me smile. Sometimes he takes me out for a nice dinner (I love to wear heels and dress a little sexy for him). His mind & his heart are in a "good place" to start something up. No games/no excuses. He's a gentleman who treats me like a lady; opens doors, walks me to the door etc. He is a man's man though... That's what attracts me to Him. When we're together no subject is off limits...we can discuss anything. He wants a true partner in his life. He puts US...our relationship, high on his list of priorities.Simple philosophy..."If it could've worked...it would've worked". Applies to everything...but past relationships are what I'm referring to...Many of the people on here have been through a rough transition, a divorce, but to really move forward we need to leave behind past hurts/baggage. My motto is learn from the past, don't live in the past. When we feel a "connection" with someone; seize the moment, let yourself be vulnerable, it's the hardest thing to do, but can bring the most amazing results to a relationship. Build trust...I love this quote: "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." So keep taking the shot!! Because..."You Only Live Once...but once is enough if you do it right"... (okay maybe that was 2 quotes...It's Two, It's Two...It's Two quotes in One!!) What floats my boat.. TALL, Athletic, Great smile, Friendly, Funny, Confident, but not C0cky. A real guy, who isn't a fake or pretentious. I see through this. A guy who is handy and knows how to build stuff/fix stuff, is a big turn on to me, Man hands..so sexy! And throw in a dash of caveman...lol.Does he exist? Yes he does...but do I exist for him??? All is right with the world when...He wraps me in his arms, kisses me and I fall asleep curled next to him. Is this you? Are you strong enough to be my man?"Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end"... It's not rocket science, let's not make this harder than it has to be.Could be almost anything...a walk, a dinner, a drink, a boat or bike ride, a poke in the eye with a sharp stick...the options are limitless. I suggest we leave the last one out though :)Any interest? Did I make the short list? Drop me a note. Thanks and have a great day!PS: I'm not into coffee, so that's really the only get-together that probably wouldn't appeal to me...sorry Mr. Starbucks...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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