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Clare, 41

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About Me

I am probably unlike anyone you've ever met. I am seeking my sidekick, but ultimately I would like a long-term partner. I can sip fine wine in a little black dress or drink from a garden hose wearing cutoffs. Most days I'm wearing high heels and a dress, but you'll also find me with my tool belt on once I get home. I don't go out to party often, so I am on here to see if someone compatible may be here looking for someone like me. I'm not looking for Mr. GQ, just someone with some shared personality traits. I'm appreciative, honest, intuitive, sincere, driven, loyal, very passionate, witty, protective, settled, stable, humbly proud, hard headed but good hearted and compassionate with a decent level of intelligence. I am also adventurous, but not stupid. I have an old soul with a playful side, and the friends I have are life-long friends. I'm very proud of and devoted to my son. If any of your pictures are sporting biceps, tongues hanging out, or if you're naturally angry, an atheist, a stalker, a pathological liar, a drama king, are co-dependent or just passing through, are debt ridden, struggling, controlling, in constant need of a party crowd, or if you have multiple conflicting profiles or personalities, I wouldn't be interested. I've succeeded by hard work. I've paid my dues and a few others along the way. I'm independent enough that I'm not a desperate, serial dater. I'd rather be alone than in bad company, and I'd rather be alone than wish I was. I don't know if posting here is the best idea, but to put it bluntly, I'd like to find a mate if possible, not just anyone to mate. If you know what you're looking for and are interested, send me an ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jodi

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ok lets start this right ... I would like to find a sincere romantic fun and Normal one! I know you are out there. I fit that criteria !! Dinner wine conversation sports I'm open for anything as long as I'm with the right company. Very easy to get along with ! I enjoy going to gym, keepingFit and active.!My family is important to me being Italian of course. Let's see where this goes .... It can be a Starbucks or cafe for conversation, or a walk . A great atmosphere so there is no pressure.

  • Louisa

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi : ) Here you will find a family oriented, sincere, thoughtful, compassionate, fun with a witty and cheeky sense of humor kind of gal looking to find a quality family man with a good value system, shares similar interests and we have new interests to introduce each other to.In my spare time I enjoy quality time with family and friends…from a low key weekend at home enjoying a nice home cooked meal then a game of cards, board game or a movie to a fun filled weekend out enjoying a fine dinner and some dancing or a show, concert, hockey, soccer or football game... Listen to all sorts of music...you may even catch me singing a phrase or two now and then ; ) Not a big fan of getting to know someone over a multitude of ***…I mean chatting is a great starting point but ultimately the first meeting is what sets the stage for things to come. Some of my core beliefs…- Everything happens for a reason even if reasons aren’t clear; all is revealed in time;- Old fashioned values of loyalty, honesty, integrity more valid today than ever before;- That ‘serious’ doesn’t start out that way (as far as relationships go) they take one day at a time;- Trust is earned, not given;- Its possible to disagree without fighting;- That a gut feeling is usually right;- That intimacy is an integral part of a healthy relationship;- That being in a relationship shouldn’t mean surrendering your freedom & individuality;- Its possible to be proud without being arrogant;- Being alone is sometimes a blessing, but being lonely is always a curse;- That it takes real strength to admit & apologize for a mistake;

  • Tonia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like a wide variety of things. I really enjoy being outdoors and being on the water boating, canoe, kayaking, sitting and watching the waves crash in... I like most music and I am looking for someone who likes to dance, doesn't mean you have to be a great dancer but will go out on the dance floor with me. I like to travel and enjoy the entertainment, arts, shopping... I am a planner and am usually looking for something fun or different to do but I love spontaneity too. I do like down time as well; watching a movie, reading, snuggling by a fire. My family has a place on Moosehead so I spend alot of time there, so it is a must that you would enjoy going there.I have strong family values and consider it a priority. I have a 9 year old son that is all boy, and he is my little superhero. I am looking for someone that eventually will be interested in family time with us, and be interested in blending their family whatever it may be.I am a romantic and affectionate person and love to have someone that is comfortable with showing their feelings by holding my hand, hugs, kisses and all the other things that make your heart skip a little. I am honest and loyal and expect that in return. I am 5'10" so you must be the same or taller!! I am looking for a relationship, not an every other weekend thing or friend with benefits. I am also looking for someone that lives somewhere nearby, 1 hour or less. I think it is important to have couple time, family time and individual time to nurture yourself. Something relaxing that you can get to know one another and see if there is enough chemistry for a second date.

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