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Hester, 42

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About Me

Ok , time for an update....If you are an egotistical douche bag..... please DO NOT message meIf you think I am here because I am desperate to get laid....please DO NOT message meIf you are desperate to get laid...Please DO NOT message meIf you live in the past....Please DO NOT message meIf you are NOT happy...Please DO NOT message meIf you don't have a current photo...take one...or get one of your friends to take one...everyone has a camera on their phone!Have some class, it's not flattering to have someone immediately ask for sex! I can find that in a bar!Use your brain...assuming you have one!If you have gotten to know yourself well...Please message meIf you live in the present moment....Please message meIf you ARE happy and have a GREAT sense of humor...Please message meThere is more to attraction than a photo, I have looked at a photo and thought..."I'd hit that"...then they speak...and I think...."with my car""Note to self" Do Not use weights in this pond...all the lazy ****ers are on the bottom!HAPPY FISHING! First Date is either coffee, lunch, or dinner. With plenty of intelligent conversation!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ofelia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a 41 yr old divorced mother of three great kids. Two of them still at home. I have two dogs and one cat. I don't really have a lot of free time due to working nights and sleeping during the day. I do have my weekends off!I like all types of music except classical. As far as movies, I'll watch just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors. Camping is one of my favorite things to do. I'm very laid back and easy going. I can get along with almost anyone.After a couple of not so good experiences on here I felt I should add a few more things. 1. If you're going to lie to me keep looking for someone else to lie to.2. If you think you're going to feel the need to lie to me keep looking.3. If you just want someone to "use" keep looking for someone who wants to be used.4. If you think you might want to "use" me keep looking.5. If you don't want to know something don't ask.6. If you don't think you'll like my answer don't ask.It really isn't hard to be honest and be a good person who knows how to treat a woman.One more thing and Ill get off my soap box...don't ask me for money the first time you meet me. What the hell kinda sh*t is that?*****UPDATE**Are threre any men left who know what the word honesty means? I apologize to those of you that know how to treat a woman. I obviously am not finding the ones who don't lie, take advantage of, and use. Did i mention lie? I understand I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty. I'm not one that has to go out all the time and have money spent on me. I'm happy with getting a coney dog somewhere. Maybe I need to be more high maintenance. If I am not dating you on a commited relationship basis don't expect me to cook for you all the time. I am not your wife, mother, ol lady or whatever you choose to call a woman. Don't get me wrong I greatly enjoy taking care of a man but its a two way street! I do not work as a maid so don't treat me as one.Toilet seats....what can I say but PUT THEM DOWN!!! Especially when you're in my home. What you do in your home is up to you.Pictures....People smile!!! Why do you guys look pissed and mad at the world? Just in case any men did not know this we as women are not impressed to see forty yr old men flipping the camera off. Its ok to act like a gentleman. It would be nice if you were one but I know for some that's a huge request! I'm giving this 2 more weeks then I'm done! I have a 110# boxer at home who drools, berps, has gas and snores just like a man. He's always happy to see me. He doesn't complain when he gets fed. He doesn't lie to me and he's loyal. With that being said lets try this again.People please....is there any men on here that know what the words truth, honesty and loyalty mean? I give everyone a fair chance. Once you lie to me or take advantage of my kindness you're done! All Iwould like to have is one man (preferably one that knows the definition of a man) to prove me wrong about my impression of men right now! I hate to lump the good with the bad but the bad outweigh the good. I'm only saying this so some of you won't waste your time....DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!! I am NOT a bank. I do NOT have bank tattooed anywhere on me. For those of you who do not know this little piece of info this is for you...It is still ok to ask a woman on a date. Either pick her up or meet. Its ok for a man to pay for dinner. I'm not saying you have to all the time but the first time is acceptable. I'm tired of having to update this so please just do the right thing! It isn't difficult to be honest loyal and sincere. It is not acceptable to lie cheat take advantage of and steal money (you know who you are)!Thank you :-)Julie First date.... I prefer not to go to the movies for a first date. I feel like that's two hours wasted not getting to know one another. Dinner would be nice. Going for coffee. Something simple that will give us the opportunity to get to know one another. If things go well then movies are acceptable.

  • Bianca

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello and thank you for visiting my profile! :) I'm an easy going person and I love to laugh so if you have a great sense of humor that's a plus! I'm a very passionate woman. I can be a bit shy at first, but I usually feel at ease fairly quickly. I love to travel and socialize with friends. I like to listen to music and go for long walks. I'm usually up to do anything as long as it's fun! I can easily enjoy a night out and a quiet evening at home. I'm well educated and own my own home. If you want to get to know me better send me a message. If you're not interested I wish you luck in your search for that special someone. Have a great day!P.S. Will only respond to people with pictures...sorry Talking over coffee or dinner, a walk in the park... It's hard to decide when I don't even know you yet!! lol

  • Bettie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy reading, paddleboarding, hanging out on boats, enjoying the beach, watching live music and trying new places/activities. As long as we are laughing, I am pretty content. I enjoy my life as it is, and think it could be even better with someone to laugh with me more often. I would describe my life as active. I come from a large family, but they are back in PA. I have 2 really cool teenage sons who are ready for me to meet new people. I enjoy my job, though it is challenging. I believe it is important to give to our community at large and try to do so frequently. I can not sing well, but love to sing in the car alone anyway. I have many things I'd like to try now that my children are more independent and self sufficient. I am not very coordinated or athletic, yet I love to play. I like many kinds of music including top 50 and country. Pet peeves? Littering! Loves? Concerts, random acts of kindness and Sunday morning****ails overlooking the water... Something active and fun! Coffee is not a first date, its a screening and that's cool enough. Comedy clubs or amateur stand up would be more fun for me. Then, I will know that you can laugh! It doesn't require money to be fun. Festivals and walkabouts can be amazing.

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