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Vanessa, 42
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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I am 42 years old, looking for someone between ***. Dating at first, relationship if things work out. I am tiny, but full of fun and suprise! I have a huge heart, and my family, friends, and faith are very important to me. I have 1 son, he is 22 and in the US Air Force. I have been a stepmom to 3 children, so unless your children are 18+, please don't respond. I don't mean to sound selfish, but my son is an adult, and I am all done raising someone else's children. Being that I have not been single since I was 16, I know what I am looking for, will stick to my expectations, and settle for nothing less. Looking for someone who is financially comfortable, tall in height, good looking, athletic build. Sense of humor, can laugh at himself, and spontaneous. Romance is very important to me, and for the first time in my life I am looking for someone who wants to spoil me!! Someone who is down to earth, and secure with who you are a must. Well mannered, and family oriented. Daily drinkers please do not respond. I am planning on going back to school in the near future to finish my nursing degree, and the medical field is my passion. I think I am very laid back, funny, spontaneous, can hold an intelligent conversation and drama is NOT anything I like or want in my life. I am an excellent cook....coming from an Italian family, cooking is a pre-requisite!! If you cannot handle situations like a grown adult, I'm not interested. I would rather spend the day in Home Depot looking at paint chips than go shopping for anything....I love to go fishing, boating, ride 4 wheelers and shoot guns. Favorite movies are horror, thrillers, action or suspense....NOT into "chic flics". Any questions, please ask! DO NOT CONTACT ME UNLESS YOU HAVE A PHOTO!! I think that if you can handle my profile and give me a chance, you won't be disappointed.....I am the type of woman that if I am happy, YOU will be happy....I absolutely love taking care of the man in my life, and your happiness is a priority to me. I am not interested in head games, or someone who talks to me for a few days then drops off the face of the earth, so please don't waste my time. Looking forward to meeting my "; ;-) I think first dates should be in a public place for dinner, coffee or a drink and spend time talking and getting to know each other. Chivalry is not dead, so I love a man who is well mannered and still opens doors for women, and pulls out their chair.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Oh for gods sake WHY!!!!! How many times does a person have to describe themselves for strangers? I have tried unsuccessfully to sum myself up before and don't know what to say. I am presently employed as a labourer on the pipeline and am out of town alot so starting any sort of relationship proves to be quite difficult. I'm not looking for someone who feels the need to take care of me as i'm perfectly capable of taking care of myself!!! It would however be nice to meet someone who loves to travel and is financially able to do so. I travelled alot when i was younger and had no problem doing it on my own but as i get older i think it would be more enjoyable to share the experience with someone special. Am looking for someone that takes care of himself and is confident. As far as age goes i would definitely like someone around my age. PS There is this button on your computer that will check your spelling for you....USE IT!!!!! It is a real turn-off when someone sounds illiterate or just can't be bothered to put forward a good impression. Sorry for the rant but some of the profiles i have been reading sound like they have been written by someone in elementary school! I am quite shy so going for a drink would probably be the for the best. A couple glasses of wine is usually enough to get me chatting!

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  • Yesenia from Evanston | Woman | 41 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love music and cats... looking for that one who makes my heart skip a beat. Coffee and good conversation

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  • Helga from Evanston | Woman | 41 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am dating over 40... wow... what an adventure. I imagine we all have some great stories. I don't think it's possible to precisely describe the person I want because life can surprise you and something/someone you never thought you wanted can turn into something wonderful.I hope to find a kind, responsible man who can appreciate my strength and also understand and be sensitive to my soft side. I have been told I come across as too independent and as if I don’t need anyone... it’s true, I can take care of myself but I would love to find someone to share life with. I am nurturing and take care of others. I also should mention that I am the full time parent of a toddler - I adopted a baby as a single woman so there is no "daddy drama". Parenting is challenging but it's also the absolute best decision I have ever made!Let’s face it, there is chemistry or there is not. I am a size 12 and curvy. I am extremely healthy and eat a mostly vegetarian diet. I love SCUBA and long (fast) walks. I can’t sit still for long periods of time. I am always on the go and am a morning person. I'm VERY drama adverse. I can be a bit sassy. I deeply value my friends and family and work to maintain strong/healthy relationships. I am also very outgoing and not at all shy... I love talking to people and learning their story.For fun..... 2' x 3'), summer concerts in the park. I love music...I am looking for a kind, stable, funny (dry sense of humor is fine), nerdy/geeky, intelligent MAN. I hope you find what you are looking for… nothing fancy... coffee or a drink

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