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Vanessa, 42
United States, Illinois, Evanston

Offline, last seen Tue, 13 May 2025 12:29:13

About Me

I am 42 years old, looking for someone between ***. Dating at first, relationship if things work out. I am tiny, but full of fun and suprise! I have a huge heart, and my family, friends, and faith are very important to me. I have 1 son, he is 22 and in the US Air Force. I have been a stepmom to 3 children, so unless your children are 18+, please don't respond. I don't mean to sound selfish, but my son is an adult, and I am all done raising someone else's children. Being that I have not been single since I was 16, I know what I am looking for, will stick to my expectations, and settle for nothing less. Looking for someone who is financially comfortable, tall in height, good looking, athletic build. Sense of humor, can laugh at himself, and spontaneous. Romance is very important to me, and for the first time in my life I am looking for someone who wants to spoil me!! Someone who is down to earth, and secure with who you are a must. Well mannered, and family oriented. Daily drinkers please do not respond. I am planning on going back to school in the near future to finish my nursing degree, and the medical field is my passion. I think I am very laid back, funny, spontaneous, can hold an intelligent conversation and drama is NOT anything I like or want in my life. I am an excellent cook....coming from an Italian family, cooking is a pre-requisite!! If you cannot handle situations like a grown adult, I'm not interested. I would rather spend the day in Home Depot looking at paint chips than go shopping for anything....I love to go fishing, boating, ride 4 wheelers and shoot guns. Favorite movies are horror, thrillers, action or suspense....NOT into "chic flics". Any questions, please ask! DO NOT CONTACT ME UNLESS YOU HAVE A PHOTO!! I think that if you can handle my profile and give me a chance, you won't be disappointed.....I am the type of woman that if I am happy, YOU will be happy....I absolutely love taking care of the man in my life, and your happiness is a priority to me. I am not interested in head games, or someone who talks to me for a few days then drops off the face of the earth, so please don't waste my time. Looking forward to meeting my "; ;-) I think first dates should be in a public place for dinner, coffee or a drink and spend time talking and getting to know each other. Chivalry is not dead, so I love a man who is well mannered and still opens doors for women, and pulls out their chair.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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