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Tonya, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

Offline, last seen Sat, 10 Jan 2026 07:57:29

About Me

Nature, cottages, animals, fun long drives, Tim's, motorized toys....more too! Looking for love long term...BUT.....short term..if it happens..for the animal magnetism encounters that are simply undeniable..until I find the perfect fit! Just being totally honest. It has to be a mutual fun encounter..could lead to more.. No drama! I'm independent and affectionate and a lot of fun. I am naughty and very nice. I have had 3 *** with people in my life! YES ONLY 3!!!! ..where I just knew it would lead to something. It did..I was with each of these men long term. I am not the most patient person for this type of scenario..emails and dates. So bare with me.. I have not dated for 20 years.. I do however want to find my partner, who is a great person with a naughty side. I'm just trying to have fun with this dating thing. At this stage in my life I feel like now I can do what I want and I can find the man I want..I will find him because I'm a positive person and I am determined..I am outgoing but not too much so! I am relaxed not domineering or jealous. I am not your average girl. I can ride a motorcycle in my jeans and t shirt wearing heels while talking on my phone..bluetooth of course! ..I will fend for myself, i would also love a hand with things, cuddle up to someone I truly care about. Im self sufficient and can do this all on my own...but I would love a companion now at this stage of life. I've been on my own again for almost 2 years.. They have taught me a lot about men growing up..I will search until I find that one true fit..I will keep him when I find him! Best of luck to everyone! Coffee or a drink

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Skiing Basketball
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