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Helene, 41

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About Me

I am a hard working person. I believe in doing my part. I do not like someone that is lazy. I am 40 yrs old and I have 2 boys and 1 grand baby. I love going to the beach and the smokies. I am a out going person. I love being outside. I am going through a divorce right now. I am not on here for games and I don't put up with lies or any other childish crap. I want honest up front and nothing hid in closet don't like surprises. If I don't message u back then I am not interested. Sorry but I am being up front.... If I have a first date I would be scared to death. I have been married for 22 yrs. so it might take me a while to get use to this....my favorite foods are seafood, Mexican and Chinese and steaks...and maybe a mixed drink

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dianna

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a driven, motivated professional woman but my biggest accomplishment has been been my 2 wonderful sons. Sincere, passionate, fun, with a confident personality pretty much sums me up. There is a lot more to share with the right person, at the right time.I enjoy a wide range of things. Love the warm weather and being on a beach or on a boat. Love to travel (limited to mostly work these days, unfortunately). Enjoy a lot of different types of music , including recently country.I am looking for someone who is also professionally motivated, but can also let loose and has a great sense of humor. It's important to have the same goals, so if you have a job that is a merely a means for a paycheck, we probably aren't a good match. *****I'm not interested in men under 35, married men, or men that aren't local to me. Please respect this and don't message me if we aren't going to be a good fit. My ideal first date would be dinner downtown or on the water with some good wine. It's summer, so anywhere with outdoor seating and a good view is perfect.

  • Ofelia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a 41 yr old divorced mother of three great kids. Two of them still at home. I have two dogs and one cat. I don't really have a lot of free time due to working nights and sleeping during the day. I do have my weekends off!I like all types of music except classical. As far as movies, I'll watch just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors. Camping is one of my favorite things to do. I'm very laid back and easy going. I can get along with almost anyone.After a couple of not so good experiences on here I felt I should add a few more things. 1. If you're going to lie to me keep looking for someone else to lie to.2. If you think you're going to feel the need to lie to me keep looking.3. If you just want someone to "use" keep looking for someone who wants to be used.4. If you think you might want to "use" me keep looking.5. If you don't want to know something don't ask.6. If you don't think you'll like my answer don't ask.It really isn't hard to be honest and be a good person who knows how to treat a woman.One more thing and Ill get off my soap box...don't ask me for money the first time you meet me. What the hell kinda sh*t is that?*****UPDATE**Are threre any men left who know what the word honesty means? I apologize to those of you that know how to treat a woman. I obviously am not finding the ones who don't lie, take advantage of, and use. Did i mention lie? I understand I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty. I'm not one that has to go out all the time and have money spent on me. I'm happy with getting a coney dog somewhere. Maybe I need to be more high maintenance. If I am not dating you on a commited relationship basis don't expect me to cook for you all the time. I am not your wife, mother, ol lady or whatever you choose to call a woman. Don't get me wrong I greatly enjoy taking care of a man but its a two way street! I do not work as a maid so don't treat me as one.Toilet seats....what can I say but PUT THEM DOWN!!! Especially when you're in my home. What you do in your home is up to you.Pictures....People smile!!! Why do you guys look pissed and mad at the world? Just in case any men did not know this we as women are not impressed to see forty yr old men flipping the camera off. Its ok to act like a gentleman. It would be nice if you were one but I know for some that's a huge request! I'm giving this 2 more weeks then I'm done! I have a 110# boxer at home who drools, berps, has gas and snores just like a man. He's always happy to see me. He doesn't complain when he gets fed. He doesn't lie to me and he's loyal. With that being said lets try this again.People please....is there any men on here that know what the words truth, honesty and loyalty mean? I give everyone a fair chance. Once you lie to me or take advantage of my kindness you're done! All Iwould like to have is one man (preferably one that knows the definition of a man) to prove me wrong about my impression of men right now! I hate to lump the good with the bad but the bad outweigh the good. I'm only saying this so some of you won't waste your time....DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!! I am NOT a bank. I do NOT have bank tattooed anywhere on me. For those of you who do not know this little piece of info this is for you...It is still ok to ask a woman on a date. Either pick her up or meet. Its ok for a man to pay for dinner. I'm not saying you have to all the time but the first time is acceptable. I'm tired of having to update this so please just do the right thing! It isn't difficult to be honest loyal and sincere. It is not acceptable to lie cheat take advantage of and steal money (you know who you are)!Thank you :-)Julie First date.... I prefer not to go to the movies for a first date. I feel like that's two hours wasted not getting to know one another. Dinner would be nice. Going for coffee. Something simple that will give us the opportunity to get to know one another. If things go well then movies are acceptable.

  • Katy

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Just ask

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