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Casey, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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"Only in Love, is Unity and Duality not in conflict" R Tagore. Looking for a normal upbeat guy that wants to meet a woman, hang out, get to know each other, have fun, and see where things go. I like to do a lot of things. My interests are very diverse. I like learning new things and enjoying the outdoors as much as possible-even when it's cold. I've been married 1 time and I have 1 child--not looking to get married again anytime soon-just want to enjoy life, my guy if it comes to that, and no pressure. Since Aug ***, I've tried this online dating stuff and it has been a total bust just trying to meet normal, stable, and honest--so I'm real selective. I've learned by watching other people in life that most people spend their life and health obtaining the advantages in life and then in later years spend their money and advantages trying to retain their health-no matter which way you look at it-if you can't afford LTC health insurance-then the government gets it no matter which way you look at it--so, overall, life is short and it's about the relationships we etablish***come on now-my signature phrase;) A man that captures my interest and maintains it has the qualities of compassion for others, integrity, honesty, has a sense of humor, passionate overall, and the ability and desire to communicate openly. I live my daily life on the "Law of Attraction". Have to be honest and say that I do not like to be around a lot of drama or drama people or hear a lot of complaining. There are days when just going on a hike is what I need to get away from all the noise and to just be quiet, listen, and enjoy the peace around. So, I just not the average female. I'm more about watching someone's actions then talking, I do not like to gossip, or participate in gossip, and I'm just not a judgmental person. Be who you want to be-just trying to find the right one for me to get to know and spend time with.My favorite times and sounds-being outside when the snowing is falling. Listening and watching it come down. Listening, warming up to a fire-hearing it pop and warming the body up, or a late night stroll on the beach where it ends in an embrace and listening to the waves and the sounds they make. Before a first date, I would hope to meet for a few. I do not drink coffee.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ruby from Evanston | Woman | 41 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    well time to write a new profile.... no clue what to say! Feels so bloody awkward doesn't it? Online dating - whoda thunk? Best way to meet opposite sex nowadays it seems. First off if you are looking for a one night stand, fwb or just aren't "ready",,, i'm not going thru that again.... just move on, not meaning to be rude it's just i am not looking for a one night thing. Also if we don't "click' or if you're not interested, please have the courtesy of telling me and NOT using a "kind lie"... i like honesty and the truth.I will just begin I guess. I am an attractive, tall with long brunette hair and green/blue eyes. I am curvy, open minded and rather humorous I'm told. I enjoy good conversations with people in all sorts of situations. My interests vary in so many ways from music, art, movies, nature, children to enjoying good company. Learning new things is a passion of mine and I am a question asker - everyone can teach someone something.Let's see... i have used this site for a bit and I STILL feel sorta stupid writing this stuff! ...... Honesty is THE biggest thing to me - lies are pointless and stupid and I'd rather forgive a man for doing something wrong than lying about it. I don't hold grudges and don't get vindictive. I guess I'm looking for some casual but often, fun and dating. Going out once in awhile or staying in and enjoying each other's company. Not a high maintenance woman, sure being treated special is great but I am not a 23 year old with childish needs. If we like each other then it should come naturally to indulge each other I figure. Being a single mom can be rough at times but I love it and luckily my girl's dad sees her often so I do have free time. For work I do what I can and find enjoyment in it when i can (but let's face it ... it's work!! LOL ) but luckily I freelance and sculpt at home and that keeps me happy and lets my creative side out. I do insist on seeing a photo of a man who wishes to contact me, doesn't need to be right away, but fair is fair - my picts are on here - send me one ok? Message me and let's see.... I will be putting up newer photos asap... and as a male friend says "what the hell does the rest of her look like???" I shall post more than head shots! :) Meeting for drinks (soft or hard - doesn't matter really) at a pub/lounge is good, background music & comfortable atmosphere. I'm pretty much game for most things... a mutual decision is good.

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  • Anna from Evanston | Woman | 41 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single drama free woman that is tired of these dating sites and I am hoping you are too!I am also a mom of a 10 yr old so if you are not looking for a woman with a child, you may stop reading now.What do I look for? Someone that is funny, sarcastically sexy you might say. I love a man that smells good, takes pride in his appearance, and believes in himself and the world around him. I have a child so I don't mind if you do as well. Likes to cuddle, hug, hold hands, watch scary movies, adores my completely geeky self and does not judge others. Patience, kindness, empathy, and a fun spirit is also a must. I don't drink much but I don't mind a nice cold beer on a hot day. Pool, wings, darts, etc. All fun things even if I suck at them.If you are interested in meeting a really cool chick that is drama free, message me!!Here's a question: Do guys ever read or see some of the photos that they put on here? I'm not trying to sound rude but if you have posted your mug shot, passport photo, or those wonderful 'selfies' with you shirtless, I will not respond or message. It screams a) creepy b) criminal and c) arrogant and self absorbed. I'm just sayin...my opinion onlyThis just in: I am not, repeat NOT looking for an intimate encounter, a ***, or any type of strictly sexual relationship. Not my thing so please do not message me or I will report you. Thanks and have a nice day! I will give in to the rest of this site and say, first date is after the first meet. Something public, not too loud, maybe coffee, a drink at a local pub, who knows. Figure that out when the time comes.

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  • Marci from Evanston | Woman | 42 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just ask....I'm an open book........ *****sorry nothing personal but I don't date outside of my race*********

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