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Abby, 41

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About Me

Most importantly, I have 4 boys that mean the world to me, i love them the most and they always come first. Other than them, I love the ocean, lake, river, pretty much anything with water. I also love animals. Sports can be fun to watch with the right person but hockey is my favorite. I don't know much about it, but I love watching hockey. I do have a few tattoos and my belly button is pierced. I do like tattoos, a lot. There is a lot more to me, so if you want to know, go ahead and ask. I will be honest with you. Sometimes I'm to honest, so only ask if you really want to know. It doesn't matter what is planned for a first date. It could be anything from dinner to a picnic and fishing. Although if we do fishing, when I catch them you will need to take them off the hook for me. :-) As long as we have time to talk and get to know eachother better, that is what counts.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Juana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm funny and free spirited. I love to laugh and live life.**Although it can be flattering to hear from so many in their 20s’ and early 30s’… there’s only one thing I think we’d have in common and I don’t need to go “online” to find that / nor is that what I am looking for now. I won’t respond to you if you’re not in my age range ***, so please respect my time as I respect yours.I have an active social life and a large network of friends (both genders). I am trying meetville to find someone for a meaningful relationship. I don’t need a website to find a date or someone to “hook-up” with. If that is what you are looking for, don’t waste either of our time. I have no interest in making out with you on a first date, let alone a "meet and greet", don't DISRESPECT me and try or expect it ***it is NOT going to happen!I can be kind of cranky if I don't get some coffee in the AM... I'm pretty low-maintenance though... I drink it straight black! That’s how I like my coffee, but NOT my men… I mean no disrespect, just being honest and again not wanting to waste your time or mine… I won’t respond, so please don’t bother.I like sports, I enjoy going to games or the horse track. I'm not really a soccer fan but I recently went on a date to a DC United game... the fans are crazy fun!I like to play games... Jenga, cards, Pictionary, Scrabble... I'm excellent at Connect Four lol.... I'm kind of bad-ass at Ski-Ball but any other game... avoid picking me for your team---I suck... darts, corn-hole, bowling, pool... I try, but I suck...I like going to see live music and I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, to dance, dance, dance and I know HOW to dance!!!A "guilty pleasure" ***I love to go to Karaoke! I'm not a big movie-goer, but will go if it is something I really want to see. Of course, I’ll need popcorn with lots of butter (only at the movies) :-).I like being by the beach and spent a lot of time at various beaches this summer. Started paddled boarding this summer – pretty fun! There's just something about the ocean air and the sound of waves crashing in!I live close to a wine bar that happens to have great outdoor seating... I like to just chill on their patio, soak up some sun and drink some water and WINE (I have a love, love relationship with wine).I'm usually always on some sort of crazy diet, but when I'm not I love to eat!!! If I had my way and unlimited funds.... I'd eat sushi all day every day... I do like a good steak... seafood... oysters... I like big crab legs, but not whole crabs... I don't like having to crack them... I'm not "prissy" or afraid to get my hands dirty.... perhaps I've just never learned how to do it right... I have a sweet tooth and like Gelato, Triamisu, Cheesecake, or anything with peanut butter in it....Since May of this year ***, I've been on a smoothie kick and I usually start my day with one. I bought one of those Ninja blenders you see on infomercials..... I try to mix it up) if you're lucky I'll make you one sometime... it'll change your life LOL ;) I'm a busy person, I consider my time valuable and share the same respect for your time. I believe in "meet and greet" over coffee or wine... ***minutes to see if there is "real-time"connection and the next step would be a "first date"... I'm old-fashioned and think the guy should plan that.

  • Ofelia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a 41 yr old divorced mother of three great kids. Two of them still at home. I have two dogs and one cat. I don't really have a lot of free time due to working nights and sleeping during the day. I do have my weekends off!I like all types of music except classical. As far as movies, I'll watch just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors. Camping is one of my favorite things to do. I'm very laid back and easy going. I can get along with almost anyone.After a couple of not so good experiences on here I felt I should add a few more things. 1. If you're going to lie to me keep looking for someone else to lie to.2. If you think you're going to feel the need to lie to me keep looking.3. If you just want someone to "use" keep looking for someone who wants to be used.4. If you think you might want to "use" me keep looking.5. If you don't want to know something don't ask.6. If you don't think you'll like my answer don't ask.It really isn't hard to be honest and be a good person who knows how to treat a woman.One more thing and Ill get off my soap box...don't ask me for money the first time you meet me. What the hell kinda sh*t is that?*****UPDATE**Are threre any men left who know what the word honesty means? I apologize to those of you that know how to treat a woman. I obviously am not finding the ones who don't lie, take advantage of, and use. Did i mention lie? I understand I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty. I'm not one that has to go out all the time and have money spent on me. I'm happy with getting a coney dog somewhere. Maybe I need to be more high maintenance. If I am not dating you on a commited relationship basis don't expect me to cook for you all the time. I am not your wife, mother, ol lady or whatever you choose to call a woman. Don't get me wrong I greatly enjoy taking care of a man but its a two way street! I do not work as a maid so don't treat me as one.Toilet seats....what can I say but PUT THEM DOWN!!! Especially when you're in my home. What you do in your home is up to you.Pictures....People smile!!! Why do you guys look pissed and mad at the world? Just in case any men did not know this we as women are not impressed to see forty yr old men flipping the camera off. Its ok to act like a gentleman. It would be nice if you were one but I know for some that's a huge request! I'm giving this 2 more weeks then I'm done! I have a 110# boxer at home who drools, berps, has gas and snores just like a man. He's always happy to see me. He doesn't complain when he gets fed. He doesn't lie to me and he's loyal. With that being said lets try this again.People please....is there any men on here that know what the words truth, honesty and loyalty mean? I give everyone a fair chance. Once you lie to me or take advantage of my kindness you're done! All Iwould like to have is one man (preferably one that knows the definition of a man) to prove me wrong about my impression of men right now! I hate to lump the good with the bad but the bad outweigh the good. I'm only saying this so some of you won't waste your time....DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!! I am NOT a bank. I do NOT have bank tattooed anywhere on me. For those of you who do not know this little piece of info this is for you...It is still ok to ask a woman on a date. Either pick her up or meet. Its ok for a man to pay for dinner. I'm not saying you have to all the time but the first time is acceptable. I'm tired of having to update this so please just do the right thing! It isn't difficult to be honest loyal and sincere. It is not acceptable to lie cheat take advantage of and steal money (you know who you are)!Thank you :-)Julie First date.... I prefer not to go to the movies for a first date. I feel like that's two hours wasted not getting to know one another. Dinner would be nice. Going for coffee. Something simple that will give us the opportunity to get to know one another. If things go well then movies are acceptable.

  • Darla

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well I am back again. I am looking for a nice man to spend time with and see where it goes. I like to do a number of different things to have fun. My last few relationships just haven't worked out like i had hoped they would.I will not respond to messages from men with no photo, the reason being, you are hiding something. Most likely are married and just wanting to mess with someones head. If you are married,please don't bother me. I want someone my age or maybe a bit oler. No young pups.Please don't waste my time. I have had enough of liars and cheaters and men that just want one thing. Good Luck to All.

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