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About Me

I like to think of myself as a fun, kind-hearted, thoughtful, educated, generous woman. I am a teacher (kindergarten). I enjoy spending time with friends, listening to live music, dancing, traveling, watching movies... I also like to try new and fun things. I am looking for a man who I can get to know and have fun with... someone who has a good sense of humor, is laid-back but can be serious when needed... someone who does not have much drama in their life and who is happy and comfortable with who he is and knows what he wants. I'd like to meet a man who is serious about having a relationship and settling down some day. I would enjoy dinner and conversation... get to know each other a little.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Juana

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm funny and free spirited. I love to laugh and live life.**Although it can be flattering to hear from so many in their 20s’ and early 30s’… there’s only one thing I think we’d have in common and I don’t need to go “online” to find that / nor is that what I am looking for now. I won’t respond to you if you’re not in my age range ***, so please respect my time as I respect yours.I have an active social life and a large network of friends (both genders). I am trying meetville to find someone for a meaningful relationship. I don’t need a website to find a date or someone to “hook-up” with. If that is what you are looking for, don’t waste either of our time. I have no interest in making out with you on a first date, let alone a "meet and greet", don't DISRESPECT me and try or expect it ***it is NOT going to happen!I can be kind of cranky if I don't get some coffee in the AM... I'm pretty low-maintenance though... I drink it straight black! That’s how I like my coffee, but NOT my men… I mean no disrespect, just being honest and again not wanting to waste your time or mine… I won’t respond, so please don’t bother.I like sports, I enjoy going to games or the horse track. I'm not really a soccer fan but I recently went on a date to a DC United game... the fans are crazy fun!I like to play games... Jenga, cards, Pictionary, Scrabble... I'm excellent at Connect Four lol.... I'm kind of bad-ass at Ski-Ball but any other game... avoid picking me for your team---I suck... darts, corn-hole, bowling, pool... I try, but I suck...I like going to see live music and I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, to dance, dance, dance and I know HOW to dance!!!A "guilty pleasure" ***I love to go to Karaoke! I'm not a big movie-goer, but will go if it is something I really want to see. Of course, I’ll need popcorn with lots of butter (only at the movies) :-).I like being by the beach and spent a lot of time at various beaches this summer. Started paddled boarding this summer – pretty fun! There's just something about the ocean air and the sound of waves crashing in!I live close to a wine bar that happens to have great outdoor seating... I like to just chill on their patio, soak up some sun and drink some water and WINE (I have a love, love relationship with wine).I'm usually always on some sort of crazy diet, but when I'm not I love to eat!!! If I had my way and unlimited funds.... I'd eat sushi all day every day... I do like a good steak... seafood... oysters... I like big crab legs, but not whole crabs... I don't like having to crack them... I'm not "prissy" or afraid to get my hands dirty.... perhaps I've just never learned how to do it right... I have a sweet tooth and like Gelato, Triamisu, Cheesecake, or anything with peanut butter in it....Since May of this year ***, I've been on a smoothie kick and I usually start my day with one. I bought one of those Ninja blenders you see on infomercials..... I try to mix it up) if you're lucky I'll make you one sometime... it'll change your life LOL ;) I'm a busy person, I consider my time valuable and share the same respect for your time. I believe in "meet and greet" over coffee or wine... ***minutes to see if there is "real-time"connection and the next step would be a "first date"... I'm old-fashioned and think the guy should plan that.

  • Sadie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hey guys!! On here looking for a nice guy!! Someone that I can connect with, that knows how to be a good friend to me as well as a boyfriend. I love seeing and doing things, I have alot of interests, Im FAR from boring, and Ill always make sure you have fun!! Im very upbeat and positive, I can have fun in almost any situation, Im easy to get along with and Im really looking for the same. Unfortunately I do attract the Debbie Downer types (I dont know why) but if your an argry person, hates life, complains, does drugs to get thru the day, plzzzz dont contact me I cant change your life!! LOL Happy fishing everyone!! something quick meet and greet dont want you to have to spend alot of money and dont expect me to put out..LOL

  • Greta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First of all, I did not select anything for Body Type because none of the choices are descriptive of me. I am Curvy!Also, I put that I don't smoke, but I smoked in the past and have switched to e-cigs! LOVE THEM!Ok now that business is out of the way...Ultimately, I am looking for My Soul Mate! (as described below) However, I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my life and my future. And when I am free of this situation, my Acting Career will be my main focus!Plus, I've never been a fan of living in the cold weather up here; and I would like to live in a place where I can have flowers blooming in my yard all year around...rather than having them destroyed each year by winter.Then again, my family & I guess I will wait until the time comes to make that decision. It will mostly depend on where the majority of movies are being filmed at the time!So where does that leave me in my search for My Soul Mate???I want to go out on dates and have fun and enjoy life, but am I still looking for My Soul Mate? Is it wise to start a "relationship" with someone here if I may be leaving in a few years? I certainly don't want to hurt anyone by my leaving, including myself.However, if he IS My Soul Mate, wouldn't he want to move with me? Or should I not even be looking for him here? It couldn't be someone who has children here because I would never expect anyone to move so far away from his child/ren for me.So anyway, there's some random ramblings from my mind! L! I guess I'm not sure what I'm looking for here/now.But I do know that I would like to go out on dates! I don't want to put that part of my life on hold for years, regardless of future plans.Plus, this woman has needs!)So I guess if you don't mind going out with someone who is as confused as I am...I'm available! L!And here's what I had on my profile before:I cannot be summed up in a paragraph...I am multi-faceted...like a Diamond!I am looking for my Sun to Shine on me and reflect all of my beautiful colors!!! =8)I am a Movie Actress, a Fashion Designer, an Artist!I am looking for a meaningful relationship.I am looking for My Soul Mate---THE ONE to love who loves me. THE ONE to live my life with, laugh with, play with...I am focused on finding THE ONE!In an effort to save myself time and anyone who is reading this both time and possible hurt feelings, I have included below a description of My Soul Mate.If you meet this description, I would love to hear from you! We can then get to know each other better and find out if we are indeed Soul Mates!If you do not meet this description, you are not the one I am looking for. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I am just being honest. I wish you the very best of luck and hope you find what/who you are looking for! =:)Now for the description (and explanations, if necessary)...MALEMy Soul Mate is a man. However, I am bi-sexual and attracted to women as well. I am willing to be with only one man (if you are into men too, that's cool with me), but I would like to occasionally include women in our sex life. If we find someone that we are both attracted to and that person is interested in us, that would be perfect! If another woman (or man) is included, it would have to be a situation with all of us. If I am not included, I feel it is cheating, and I would NOT be ok with that. We can discuss this further in person if you make it past here and the rest of my description... Also, please know that Bret Michaels (should the opportunity arise) is MY "clause in the contract"! L!AGEAge is just a number! No one can change when they were born! Age is not important. I have dated people my own age, people younger and people older. What IS important is maturity! Age and maturity have ABSOLUTELY *NOTHING* to do with each other. I have known young people who are mature and older people who are immature. My Soul Mate will be mature...regardless of age!LONG HAIRWhile I certainly know there are plenty of good looking guys with short hair and even some with their heads completely shaved, I have ALWAYS been attracted to long haired men! Basically, if you look like you were in an 80s Hair Band...YES! If you WERE in an 80s Hair Band...HELL YES!! If you look like Bret Michaels...PERFECT!!! If you ARE Bret Michaels...F**KING PERFECT!!!!!!!!! (And what took you so long? I've met you many times! L!) All joking aside, my Soul Mate will have long hair! It can even be past your a**! I promise I won't even be jealous if yours is longer than mine! L! Hair color is not important (though I mostly find myself attracted to blondes) as long as it's long! L!*UPDATE*I may have to forgo this requirement as apparently, there are no long haired men left on the planet!I guess if I see a guy who has long hair, I'll know he's THE ONE...cuz he's the ONLY one with long hair! L!*********THE INSIDE STUFFThis is the hardest part... I could probably go on FOREVER listing attributes I'm looking for... I'm not even sure where to start... I guess I'm looking for the male version of me! Plus some extra stuff I might want and need in my life!Here goes...Intelligent (LOVE having deep intellectual and philosophical discussions!), Kind, Caring, Considerate, Thoughtful, Romantic, Spontaneous, Adventurous, Wild, Imaginative, Creative, (Love Musicians...must be the Actress in me!), HONEST, Open, Communicative, Ambitious, Sweet, Silly, Funny, Comical, Crazy (in a FUN way, NOT psycho), Hard Working, Takes Pride in Self and Work and Everything...I guess that's a start! If I think of anything else, I'll add it...All of these things are just like ME!Like I said, I'm looking for the male version of me!I also want to add that I am an EXTREMELY *HONEST* person. I am straightforward and *NOT AT ALL* into lies and games and bullshit. I expect the same from anyone who contacts me. If you cannot be COMPLETELY HONEST, keep moving on because you are NOT for me! (Not trying to be mean...just being honest!) I would like our first date to be going out to dinner, having drinks and talking and getting to know each other better.From there, I am open to whatever--a movie or dancing or...whatever we decide!

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