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Sue, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

Offline, last seen Sun, 05 Apr 2026 22:16:27

About Me

For now, I'm just looking for someone I can build a friendship with and if something develops, cool, if not, then I have at least gained a new friend. I am NOT looking for a one night stand, booty call, or hooking up with your wife/girlfriend. If you are younger than 35, we are most likely not traveling similar paths in life. I keep my baggage to a minimum and try to have the least amount of drama possible in my life. I maintain and nurture my family and close friendships so that the drama monster doesn't show its ugly head. It's nice to have expensive toys and do fun things but sharing these things with others and our time together is what I find most valuable. I truly appreciate cuddling on the couch to watch a movie, or drinking coffee someone else made for me. I can honestly say that I can't remember the last time I was "bored". I have a great job that I love as well as a side business I enjoyb as well (9 years). I'm looking for a man who has his own hobbies and friends and doesn't need a woman on his arm 24/s7. I have two young children who are my #1 priority and they require a lot of my time. However, I can make time for someone special. No, you won't be meeting my children any time soon...we can cross that bridge when we get to it. I hope you would feel the same about your own children (if you have them). I' hoping to find a fellow goofball who can totally laugh at me and himself because I will if you don't! :)I love all kinds of music....I have actually met a couple people who claim that they never listen to music. How does that happen? That is one thing I will never understand....nor do I want to. Oh, and if we should meet, can we PLEASE NOT do the "date interview"? I know it's kinda difficult to escape, and unfortunately, I don't have any bright ideas to get around it either....but, if you have bright ideas, then I definitely want to hear from you!!! Anyway, I'm done with my jibber jab for now. Would much rather hear from you! Oh yeah, one more thing....I am REAL (apparently there are "fake" women on here?)Good luck in your dating endeavors...be safe and have fun!! Im pretty open for most anything...as long as it doesn't involve heights or spiders and includes opportunity for conversation, I'm game. I would probably prefer a walk in a park as opposed to a movie or something....bowling could be fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking German Indonesian Bowling
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