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Shirley, 40

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About Me

Hello! I’m looking for someone who doesn’t know what they want in life, has hang-ups from past relationships, has lots of drama in life and is not able to carry a conversation. Ha-Ha just kidding. But I have to say, you meet people after reading their profiles and they’re the complete opposite of what they say. So I had a thought: maybe if I put what I don’t want but say that’s what I want…maybe I will find a super cool person! LOLSeriously though….I LOVE my life, my career, my family (daughter, dogs, and cat). I've really had a great time and have lived my life to the fullest...I have travelled all over the world with my job. I have been in the Air Force 20 years now and have spent half this time overseas. I have also been all over the United States as well. My plan is to travel with her all over the world when she’s about 10. So for now…travelling is not out of the question by no means; but I am more geared towards family events/day trips. I'm not into bar scenes/clubbing. I consider an awesome day as swimming with sting rays/tubing/sky diving/wakeboarding/boating/watching gocart races....whatever gets you outside and get the andrenaline pumping....come home with a slight sunburn...make a great meal...lay down on the couch and watch a movie. Love to BBQ and hang out with close friends. Looking for someone who can really enjoy life and appreciate it. Someone who has their life together: career, house, car etc. Someone who really knows what they want. Life is way too short for not being happy. Sure…everyone has drama, but it’s what you do with it that matters. Learn from it, laugh at it and it will be all good. I am open to try just about anything. I can't wait to get my daughter on a wakeboard or in her first go cart race :-) I have a great sense of humor...LOVE to laugh at life/myself...if you don't like someone who is sarcastic/witty then I'm not your girl...you have to be able to just relax and enjoy the great moments we have been given and not be so uptight. I love all kinds of music/movies. I absolutely love the song by Kenny Chesney "Don't Blink" it really makes you sit back and think...goodness life is just going by so fast and not to waste a single second.I love animals....so if you’re not big into animals I’m not your girl.I’m looking for someone to share my life with but not looking for marriage right now....but no opposed if I find the right one. I would rather be in a relationship that was like a marriage and NOT married…. then be in a marriage that was just a piece of paper and no substance. Been there…done that…got the T-shirt. Take care....Ciao!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lawanda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Loving Jesus, and desperately seeking his will for my life.Hi Everyone,I wanted to take a moment to tell you a little bit about myself. I am a Christian mother of four gorgeous children, and each one of them are different and called of God to make a difference in this world in which we live in. I am at this time in my life experiencing the most fulfilling and wonderful relationship I have ever had in my life. The relationship I speak of is the one I have with my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I never knew love until I met him, spent time with him, and built a relationship with him. I once had a very special friend share with me what God told her in her prayer time with him; that we as human beings tend to give the most intimate parts of ourselves away to other people here on earth, and that most intimate part was never meant for a relationship between two people, it was meant for us and God. That is why we struggle so hard sometimes, and get hurt so bad when relationships fail or fade away, because we gave a part of ourselves away that was never meant to be given away. God knows us like no one or anything else does. He wants to have an intimate relationship with you and I. Believe me, I've tried doing it on my own and with the wrong people, and it has always left me broken hearted. I am sooooo amazed at God's love for me, it takes my breath away. I have never felt so loved, cherished, adored, appreciated, and fulfilled in all my life. I am truly blessed. I want to share this love with as many people as I can. If after reading about me, makes you curious about this relationship I am describing, or you just want to know more about me, know that I would love to share with you.....Isaiah 61:1 "......He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives, And the opening of the prison to those who are bound" Go to church together, and grab a bite to eat afterwards."A womans heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek God first to find her."

  • Lizzie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Life is too short, and I believe that we need to enjoy life to the fullest. Some ways I enjoy life is taking the time to go for a walk at Spanish banks ***of my favorite places. To sit on the beach and look at the beautiful city that we live in. To spend time with family and friends, whether that is enjoying a nice dinner and a glass of wine, watching a movie, going out dancing or just being together.I enjoy my wine and in my industry, I get to partake in some of the best food and wine in BC and the world. I firmly believe that we spend too much time worrying about what others may think of us, and not enough time thinking that we are beautiful, kind, interesting... and I could go on and on.... Anyways, this is a little bit about me. I am looking for some fun -- to laugh, to joke and enjoy life ....to love and be loved. Going for a walk at Spanish banks with a nice cup of coffee

  • Zelma

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for someone who can be at ease hanging out watching a movie or sitting by a camp fire..... to getting all dolled up for a fun night out. I enjoy pretty much anything...... If your with the right person anything can be fun. Some things I currently enjoy....... I love being out doors and I grew up hanging with the guys playing match box cars....lol. Of coarse my dad wanted a son, but he got me *** I got Barbies and Tonka Trucks....lol. I enjoy cooking and baking...I'm pretty good, not to toot my own horn or anything :) I love antiques and refurbishing things I come across. ....I am a history buff and staying up to date with current events. I appreciate those who can hold a good intellectual conversation about current events rather then just so called reality shows. I love to learn, explore and travel. I go target shooting with my 16 yr old son and I am a pretty good shot ;). I can be kind of a wise ass sometimes, but all in good fun. But I am also very loving and giving of my time. Which my time means a lot to me...if I am taking time away from my son to be with you, make it worth my while and don't waste my time with BS, please.....I'm a pretty independent woman because I had to be but I would like to find someone to spend time with, get to know and go on some adventures with. And most importantly, have some fun... Life is too short not too :) I'm not into playing games. I'm looking for a loving and real relationship with a man who knows what they are looking for, is self confident, and knows how to treat a woman. I'm not looking for booty calls or lies.....Honesty is the best policy... I'm not looking for perfection but I do believe there is someone perfect out there for me and vise vera. Chemistry is key....."Physical attractions are common, a mental connection is rare." There's more to me then just a pretty smile and I'm looking for chemistry and a connection with someone beyond just a physical attraction. Meet some where for a couple drinks see if we connect and go from there......

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