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Shirley, 40
United States, Illinois, Evanston

Offline, last seen Sun, 26 Apr 2026 00:11:04

About Me

Hello! I’m looking for someone who doesn’t know what they want in life, has hang-ups from past relationships, has lots of drama in life and is not able to carry a conversation. Ha-Ha just kidding. But I have to say, you meet people after reading their profiles and they’re the complete opposite of what they say. So I had a thought: maybe if I put what I don’t want but say that’s what I want…maybe I will find a super cool person! LOLSeriously though….I LOVE my life, my career, my family (daughter, dogs, and cat). I've really had a great time and have lived my life to the fullest...I have travelled all over the world with my job. I have been in the Air Force 20 years now and have spent half this time overseas. I have also been all over the United States as well. My plan is to travel with her all over the world when she’s about 10. So for now…travelling is not out of the question by no means; but I am more geared towards family events/day trips. I'm not into bar scenes/clubbing. I consider an awesome day as swimming with sting rays/tubing/sky diving/wakeboarding/boating/watching gocart races....whatever gets you outside and get the andrenaline pumping....come home with a slight sunburn...make a great meal...lay down on the couch and watch a movie. Love to BBQ and hang out with close friends. Looking for someone who can really enjoy life and appreciate it. Someone who has their life together: career, house, car etc. Someone who really knows what they want. Life is way too short for not being happy. Sure…everyone has drama, but it’s what you do with it that matters. Learn from it, laugh at it and it will be all good. I am open to try just about anything. I can't wait to get my daughter on a wakeboard or in her first go cart race :-) I have a great sense of humor...LOVE to laugh at life/myself...if you don't like someone who is sarcastic/witty then I'm not your girl...you have to be able to just relax and enjoy the great moments we have been given and not be so uptight. I love all kinds of music/movies. I absolutely love the song by Kenny Chesney "Don't Blink" it really makes you sit back and think...goodness life is just going by so fast and not to waste a single second.I love animals....so if you’re not big into animals I’m not your girl.I’m looking for someone to share my life with but not looking for marriage right now....but no opposed if I find the right one. I would rather be in a relationship that was like a marriage and NOT married…. then be in a marriage that was just a piece of paper and no substance. Been there…done that…got the T-shirt. Take care....Ciao!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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