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Vanessa, 33
United States, Tennessee, Cleveland

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About Me

FIRST OF ALL...IF YOU DO NOT READ MY PROFILE THEN YOU ARE GOING OFF LOOKS ALONE, AND NEED NOT TO RESPOND!!; I am a very attractive mother of 3; YES A MOTHER! If you cannot accept children, and consider them as always needing a babysitter apply elsewhere. I am looking for a relationship longer than a week or two, to eventually lead to a marriage. I have NO time for He said, She said, Baby daddy drama! I dont put up with issues for long, I am a very accepting kind hearted person, but dont look at me tell me im beautiful and I never hear from you again; SO IF you are looking for a 5'***pound person IM NOT IT!; I am just me, I will not be anything else unless its for me.I am a hard working mother of 3 beautiful well rounded kids;..work as a nurse night shift local hospital Im a hard worker strong headed and sometimes stubborn but have a huge heart....Yea we r gonna bump heads sometimes but if you arent a forgive/forget type please dont respondDONT RESPOND IF YOU HAVE ANY THOUGHTS, FEELINGS OR ISSUES WITH ANY OF THE FOLLOWING;1. I AM NOT GONNA PAY FOR MY DINNER ON A DATE2. I AM NOT GONNA DRIVE AROUND TO "MEET" YOU ANYWHERE, ESPECIALLY AT A CLUB3. IF YOU HAVE KIDS/KID..DONT LOOK ME IN THE EYE, TELL ME THEY ARE YOUR WORLD AND YOU ARE BOUNCING AROUND FROM GIRL TO GIRL 4. IF YOU NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP/POTENTIAL MARRIAGE AND YOUR PROFILE LIES, YOU SHOULD CONSIDER CHANGING IT5. IF YOU CANNOT ACCEPT HONESTY WITH OR WITHOUT ASKING FOR IT6. IF YOU ONLY BRUSH YOUR TEETH WHEN YOU HAVE TIME AND YOU SMOKE7. IF YOU CANNOT BE YOURSELF AROUND ME ON A FIRST DATE8. IF YOU HAVE NO PLANS ON FINANCIALLY EVER SUPPORTING A FAMILY, YOUR MONEY IS YOURS AND YOU EARNED IT FOR YOURSELF9. IF THE VALUE OF YOUR CAR SUPERSEDES YOUR LIVING SITUATION AND YOU EITHER LIVE WITH A ROOMMATE OR PARENTS10. IF YOU HAVE NEVER PAID ALL THE BILLS OF LIFE (ENTERGY, H20, CAR, ETC) ON YOUR OWN11. IF YOU HAVE 3 OR MORE CHILDREN AND YOU HAVE 3 BABY'S MOMMA'S....DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT RESPONDING12. IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY CONCERN FOR CHILDSUPPORT, MAY OR MAYNOT HAVE CHILDREN OUT THERE WHO KNOWS....NOPE!13. IF YOU TALK GHETTO ON THE PHONE TO YOU "HOMMIES" LIKE YOU ARE A BIG BALLER, YOUR WHITE & YOUR INCOME IS $014. IF YOU CANNOT LOOK ME IN THE EYE AND LET ME KNOW YOUR PROBLEMS, CONCERNS ETC AND LIE AND SAY "NOTHING"15. IF YOUR PARENTS ARE GONNA KNOW MORE ABOUT OUR SEX LIFE THAN I DO On a first date, a dinner and an activity of some sort would be nice. Time to talk, eat and converse about life/interests etc. I really like it when a man is unique in his thoughts of a first date. Something "out of the ordinary" would be nice.I also like outdoor activities.too...four wheelers bowling...pool...danci.g etc

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Swimming
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