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“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.” -Bob Marley

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Zelma from Cleveland | Woman | 34 years old | Gemini
    Zelma

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    HI! I'm Monica! I'm a person who is very outgoing and not shy. I like to express myself through writing. So here in my profile, I've written a lot in order for you to get to know me just a little! This is just a sneak peak into my life and there is SOOOO much MORE to who I am and what I'm about! I like to express my thoughts, feelings, likes/dislikes, etc so you don't have to wonder about me! I'm very open and honest! You will just have to contact me and meet me in person to really get to know me better!My personality is: outgoing/extroverted, happy, energetic/athletic, and positive!!!!People always seem to be drawn to my outgoing personality like a magnet! I've always been a positive role model to others by encouraging and motivating them! I'm loving life and enjoying each day as it comes! I'm a people person so I always enjoy meeting new people! I'm very energetic so I love working out, sports, and doing outdoorsy activities! I am a creative, artistic, and entertaining kind of a person. I like to laugh and be silly, but I'm also able to be serious/professional when I need to be!I've traveled ALL over the world! I'd love to share now, but I'll leave the stories and details for our date!...yes I now like Country! Food: Italian, Sushi, Mexican, Chinese, BBQ, etc! I'm NOT picky! I can eat!!!!! :)Spirituality:I'm definitely a woman of God who has Jesus in my heart as my Lord and he's my #1! I want him to shine through my personality to others on a daily basis! I give God all the praise for the person he has helped me become! I go to church usually Wed nights and Sundays! I volunteer on a regular basis in the nursery ***I feel that it's important to pray, read Bible, Worship, etc daily to keep a relationship with God strong! It's about having a relationship with God and Jesus Christ, NOT about just being a good person or just going to church. "FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE SENT HIS SON, JESUS, THAT WHOEVER WILL BELIEVE IN HIM WILL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE (IN HEAVEN)"! JOHN 3:***in Bible)What I'm Looking for in my Soul Mate:A man who is "equally yoked" (spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc) with me! I definitely need a man who is athletic and who goes to the gym on a weekly basis because I do and I can't have a couch potato!!! We need to have a lot in common so we understand each other and so we can enjoy doing the same kinds of activities together! A man who also has God #1 in his life! A man who goes to church weekly, reads the Bible daily, prays daily, and who "walks the walk and talks the talk" as a Christian! I'm looking for a man who is confident in himself and in God! ***** I only want to find a man who is wanting to get married and have a family! ****If you are: a man who can't commit to a relationship, who only wants to be friends or friends w/benefits, who is confused easily, who plays games, or is a player then SORRY I'M NOT INTERESTED!!!!! THANKS!!!!! :)God Bless!Monica :) We don't even have to spend money on our first date! I'm NOT a gold digger and I don't need a lot of money to be spent on me in order for me to be happy! For our first date I'd be happy with going to the gym to workout or a walk on the beach!!!! I want us to just be able to be comfortable and be ourselves to get to know each other! We need a place we can go to where we can communicate well with each other with no distractions. Being able to talk to get to know each other and show our personalities is crucial on a first date! If we have things in common and there is that "spark" (and it's mutual between the both of us), then I'd want to move forward with a second date to continue to get to know each other!*** I want to THANK YOU in advanced for your contacting me!!! I appreciate the time you took to read my profile to get to know me a little more! I'm open to receiving your messages, etc and I will take the time to read each of them! I do though, want to apologize in advanced. I won't be able to respond to everyone's messages. Time is precious and goes fast! I'm a very busy person and would rather spend my time in the gym or accomplishing something that needs to be done. Not that you aren't important. I want to express this without hurting you. It's just that I'm very particular in what I'm looking for and not looking for in my soul mate. I've prayed specifically to the Lord and I know God wants to bless me with my hearts desires for my husband. I will NOT settle for less than God's best... (for ME)!!! I won't write back to you if I already know in my heart and spirit that I'm not interested or think it won't work out. I don't want to waste either of our time and I'm not a lady who will confuse you or play mind games with you!!! I pray you understand that and can accept that! I pray you won't take that the wrong way or be hurt by this. I'm here to find my soul mate... NOT to play games, NOT to only be friends... or friends with benefits, and/or NOT to become a "player"! :)*** I have been single the past 5 yrs...because I have chosen to NOT date. I have turned people and dates down in those 5 yrs. I'd rather be single and happy then to settle for less and be in a miserable relationship that isn't God's will. And I definitely DON'T want to settle and eventually get divorced! I've been praying and waiting on the Lord for HIM to lead me to my husband/soul mate! I've never been married or had kids and this is my deepest heart's desires!!! I feel that I've waited a long time and haven't met my husband any of the places I go on a regular basis (church, gym, social events, grocery store, etc). Going on a dating website is my last choice and I never really wanted to join one, but because 2 of my very good friends met their husbands on dating websites and they have encouraged me to do this, then that's why I'm here and figured maybe this could be a good way God can bring me to my future husband! I've been waiting the past 5 yrs and

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  • Nancy from Cleveland | Woman | 29 years old | Capricorn
    Nancy

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    Woman. 29 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 26-36

    Im looking for someone to date who also has absolutely no time to date!Seriously, I doubt that ill ever find the kind of man I want in my life online but why not give it a try? I'm looking for the kind of person who will dance in the middle of the room alone if the beats are good, loves bass music, who is adventurous and loves to explore, has the means to travel and knows the difference between your & you're and to & too.About me: Active adventurer, i love to travel and explore new places. I ski all winter and festival hop, camp and explore all summer. My motto is "work hard and play harder". I'm a cancer and as such a very loyal person. Loyalty is very important to me. While I would like to be in a relationship again, im not looking for a situation where we spend every minute together. i have a lot going on in life and am looking for someone who can be trusting and confident while im out and about and ill return the favor. Don't know... Never seriously tried a dating site before haha. I guess probably grab a beer somewhere where we can talk? I love the microbrews...

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  • Aisha from Cleveland | Woman | 31 years old | Aries
    Aisha

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I would consider myself fun and outgoing. By profession I\'m a teacher. I absolutely love my work. It would be soooo refreshing to meet just a nice, easy-going and smart person. Are you the one?

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