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Ila, 31
United States, Tennessee, Cleveland

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About Me

Well to start off with I hang out with my kids a lot. If this is something that gets in the way of any relationship I wont consider it. I will admit right away that I have become very alof and alomost let myself become imprisoned to inside my home. I had about the worst year of my life last year. Lately staying in with the kids is about all Ive been doing, reading, and thinking. To need to find inspiration motivation and live a little again. I have been known to have interests in biking,camping, skating, tennis, frisbee golf, and ping-pong ( not beer pong,lol). I have a membership At the Beach Ladies fitness and tanning but do I go? This is my past and I want to be doing all those things again and all the other things I could get lucky to try. I consider myself very open minded to listen to what people have to say. I appreciate people of all different backgrounds and cultural differences, yet I seek only the most honest. I like music such as Dubstep,Tecno,industrial..... Regae,Jazz, and symphony. This is just a 1st step. I can offer only what I got. I am not desperate nor needy. I do not need pitty from others. I love myself and find meaning in everything. I have always taken care of myself. I just lost part myself along the way.I want to trust in people again and I hope 4 this and to have something of a life again. I would be comfortable getting some coffee or maybe going to see a show.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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