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Esperanza, 49
United States, North Carolina, Chapel Hill

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About Me

Humour is a must ! Up front so as to NOT waste your valuable time ... I'm looking for a match that is self confident and happy in their own skin. The first thing you are curious about is the 'must love dogs' bit right ? Well if you don't mind hanging out with some cool pooches - rescue is my thing ... hunting breeds to be specific !you're still here ? ... it does tend to scare most men away ! That is my true passion. I believe in giving back & if one small step makes a difference then I'm in ... My 'career that keeps me covered comfortably' is as a Freelance Designer ... I love life, my dog - black lab rescue :) enjoy my career(s) with enthusiasm ... a happy, open minded, grounded gal. I have at least a few awesome dogs about, at any given time, hanging at my house. Love being outdoors, LOVE my family ... I hold my friendships close to me ... Love to laugh, travel, the arts, music is huge ... always downloading and listening to cool new stuff but my tastes are wide and varied from Indie, electronica, rock, pop, classics to the old stuff, 50s, 60s and the list goes on. Known as a 'gear head' I appreciate my toys. Also appreciated are fine wines & dining, cooking a fab meal, dinner parties / entertaining and a single malt ... with or without cigar ! Social, active & looking for someone who feels the same ... So ? If you are cool with what you read drop a line ! Well if it makes it this far .... oh don't roll your eyes ! if you're on this site you KNOW there are way too many connections that don't cut it ... lets be upfront about that ! Lunch - dinner, casual - a chance to meet & see if there's something worth exploring !

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Indian Japanese Drama Music Sci-Fi Sport
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