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Valarie, 49

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About Me

I've been in the Upper Valley for several years... a conscious decision to redefine myself from Type A to human being. So far so good--would love to find a like-minded person who appreciates a healthy work/life balance. Although I've worked in engineering and science all my life, I try to balance with creative projects and an active outdoor life.I am deeply committed to those in my life. I do not suffer fools. I am honest to a fault and require straight talk and clarity. I thrive on laughter, physical touch and emotional engagement; a compelling and committed partner; intimacy in all forms.Who I am is the woman grown from my girlhood adventures, aware that what I see is only my perception... old enough to scoff at what is ridiculous and absurd in my world... curious enough to know that I haven't discovered everything that belongs in my world. I am irreverent and value it in others.What am I doing? Raising 2 teenagers to be responsible and compassionate adults, staying physically active (cardio, strength training), being a contributing community member and good friend. Aside from that, experiencing a renaissance... reconciling the external by looking within, developing and strengthening my intuitive and creative dimensions, deepening my spirituality. coffee, hiking, minigolf, auction, breakfast

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I think I am a happy, nice and fun person to be around, I enjoy hanging out with my family and friends as much as possible. I have an 18 year old son who I love dearly and just left for college this fall. I'm a pretty down to earth person a jeans kind of girl : ).. I love watching movies, whether it's going to the show or just relaxing on my sofa wirh a good glass of wine. I enjoy taking long walks, I find it to be a great time to think or just listen to some good music. I try to work out about 3 or 4 times a week it keeps me feeling good both physically and mentally. Cooking is also something I enjoy doing. I have to admit I'm addicted to the food network! However I'm not opposed to going out for a nice dinner and a martini either : ) I love trying new places, new foods. Enjoy going to the zoo, race track, festivals, musicals/plays,dancing & just about anything outdoors. Love traveling haven't had the opportunity to do as much as I would like lately but hope to work that back into my life soon enough. It would be nice to meet someone who has a good sense of humor and is a good hearted person. Someone that likes to enjoy life! Physically, I'm attracted to taller men at least 6 feet at a min, since I'm a pretty tall person my self. I hope that doesn't sound to shallow : ( ... I have to have that special spark/feeling which I think is very important in a relationship!If any of this sounds good to you, I would love to hear from you. if not, good luck and I hope you find what your looking for :)

  • Morgan

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm a kind, emotional stable person looking for the same. I enjoy a wide variety of things from camping, fishing, reading gardening and home renovations. I love to laugh. It keeps me young! I am looking for a man that wants to date, go slowly and explore the possibilities with me. Being great friends first is my goal. I like to keep active and try new things. I find that being single has its challenges but I'm starting to embrace the freedom that comes with it. The zoo! Or timmies...then the zoo! LOL

  • Summer

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ; have lived here for about 20 years.I value life, family, friends, loyal to the end. I happen to be a widow but that does not define me. It has enabled me to be a better, more compassionate and loving person. Active, fun, stable, supportive, nature loving, animal loving and enjoy men and have no negative connotations connected to men. I beat to a different drum, if you can keep up.Have learned no-one, nothing and life is not how it appears and how you think it is going to be; and then it is how we chose to react to this and what we do with it, this is a gift.What would I take with me if stranded on an island for 1 year ?1. THE man that I loved; which would be my best friend and a great lover2. My rescued furry friend3. Toothbrush, dental floss3. Water, water and more water4. Music5. Books6.Some things you may find intriguing about me.1. Very passionate2. Weak when it comes to: good looking men in a suit or a uniform and sexy high heels ( guess how many I own )?3. Compassionate about animals in need, children and senior citizens. They can not always defend themselves.4. Will stop what I am doing to " do a random act of kindness" to the ones who least expect it.5. My smile can light up a room.6. Very driven when I have a cause that is close to my heart.What do I look for in a man; a man that would be considered a "keeper"?1. He would be honest2. He would have an awesome sense of humor3. Likes to have fun in more ways than just one4. Treats me and others with respect5. Does the right thing - does what he says he is going to do6. Loves nature, his family, his work, children and animals7. Eats healthy most the time and is active more often that not8. Takes care of himself; owns dental floss and knows what manscape means9. Is open to Adventure,spontaneity, breaking a rule now and then10. Good heart, intelligent and can laugh at lifeand a bit more; To get to the First Date; now that is the journey and not the destination.Perhaps HH, a walk in the park, a hike, Starbucks; throw it out and lets see what happens!

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