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Valarie, 49
United States, North Carolina, Chapel Hill

Offline, last seen Fri, 30 Jan 2026 17:49:42

About Me

I've been in the Upper Valley for several years... a conscious decision to redefine myself from Type A to human being. So far so good--would love to find a like-minded person who appreciates a healthy work/life balance. Although I've worked in engineering and science all my life, I try to balance with creative projects and an active outdoor life.I am deeply committed to those in my life. I do not suffer fools. I am honest to a fault and require straight talk and clarity. I thrive on laughter, physical touch and emotional engagement; a compelling and committed partner; intimacy in all forms.Who I am is the woman grown from my girlhood adventures, aware that what I see is only my perception... old enough to scoff at what is ridiculous and absurd in my world... curious enough to know that I haven't discovered everything that belongs in my world. I am irreverent and value it in others.What am I doing? Raising 2 teenagers to be responsible and compassionate adults, staying physically active (cardio, strength training), being a contributing community member and good friend. Aside from that, experiencing a renaissance... reconciling the external by looking within, developing and strengthening my intuitive and creative dimensions, deepening my spirituality. coffee, hiking, minigolf, auction, breakfast

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Korean Portuguese Documentary Western Dirt Bike Racing Snowboarding Outdoor Hobbies
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