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Tamara, 48
United States, North Carolina, Chapel Hill

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UPDATED ***:Hi, thanks for stopping by! :) I know what "having magic" feels like and believe it's possible to have again. YouTube "Like Jesus Does" by Eric Church. Don't have to have a man, just at a great place in my life and finally ready for the right one who can touch and capture my heart. And I know you're out there. I'm selective, but my heart is receptive. I'm a true lady, I don't pursue, but secure in expressing interest first. Just initial attraction and curiosity to indicate I am open, ok? :) You'll be pleasantly surprised to discover I'm not 'the average bear in the forest'... I understand what it's like to be a man in the world. I don't want to be another "job". I'm not the clingy, needy type. It's about mutual life enhancement. During the day, I expect you to go out and conquer; you'll have my wind at your back. If you need to work late, go do your thing and do it well! Then come take me to a romantic dinner, make me laugh, tell me your truth without fear. I'll make you feel like a king every morning and night. I value my women friends and know that men need their time too. I may push you out the door because I want you to have your freedom to be a guy with the guys. The warmth will still be there when you get home. I've been asked, am I more like Ginger or Maryann? Answer: both! Win over Maryann, be rewarded with Ginger. ;) I love being a woman and enjoy my femininity. Need the polarity of a strong masculine presence to trigger the very feminine and passionate "Ginger" in me to come out and play. ;) My life is rich with the love of family and friends who describe me as a genuine, quality, classy, gracious, whole-package lady. I've always looked at least 10 years younger than I am. I'm happy, easy-going, honest, supportive, loyal, good communicator, no baggage, games, or drama, with positive life outlook. I'm assertive, not intimidating. Shy as a child but have grown into a confident woman. I'm playful and enjoy clever, flirty banter. Be prepared for me to dish back. :) Forgiveness is easy, no one is perfect. I love life, too short and valuable to ever sweat small stuff. Humor is all good, I love to laugh till I cry. Comfortable in any setting, dressing up or just hanging out. I know how to have fun. Love the outdoors, ocean, NASCAR, the Giants, boating, travel, camping, hiking, all kinds of music, movies, adventure. A spontaneous road trip, rappelling, zip-lining and climbing a rock wall are on my list. Love children. Wanted a full house but not in God's plan. I've been blessed to help others raise theirs. Will gratefully embrace yours. Ever met by the aroma of freshly baked cookies? Nothing like my chocolate chip oatmeal! I'm a singer/songwriter working on 2nd CD and a writer maintaining 2 Blogs and working on 1st book. Not looking for perfection but for my equal (physically, spiritually, emotionally, mentally). Warm eyes and smile spark chemistry, but quality of heart and character keeps me. Great conversation is a turn on! I'd be happiest with confident, outgoing, humorous, intelligent, easy-going man whom I can respect, admire and adore. I work hard to be my "best me" inside and out and want to continuously grow as a person with a strong man by my side to grow with me. That's the kind of man I can make feel like a king every day of his life. I'm a deep well of treasure; the man who cherishes that gift will never be sorry. I have no "ideal" first date except I do appreciate someone who knows how to provide a classy and comfortable venue. I appreciate effort, thoughtfulness, and creativity, as long as the date provides a forum to talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Gardening Caribbean German Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Sci-Fi War Basketball Computer Games Outdoor Hobbies
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I love to travel, own reptiles, have several tattoos but you wouldn't know it when meeting me, listen to heavy metal music, love going to concerts - especially small venues, and watch hockey. I do find myself with alone time and wishing there was someone fun to adventure with! :). Zip line? Vegas? Ride an elephant? Take a photo road trip? Let's go!I have a 18yr old son who's the world to me! He's just graduated highschool, and I'm wondering what the next chapter will bring!I'm non judgemental, open minded and easy going. Independent. I'm not a political nut nor overly religious. Live and let live... we all deserve a smile no matter what our walk of life. I truly believe you can judge a person's character based on how they treat those who can do nothing for them. I take photos everywhere I go, and love to travel. I especially like trying new food, (fell in LOVE with Greek food!) always try the local drink... and generally enjoy meeting people from all over the world. I'm ready for a long-term partner. Someone to laugh and enjoy life with! If you have no intentions of actually getting to know me, please keep fishing. I'm worth getting to know! Also, have a pic of yourself uploaded before contacting me! You can see me, I'd like to know who I'm talking with! First meet? How about coffee, or possibly lunch. If we decide we'd like to see each other again and go on a real date, I'm all for something active! I'm not exactly your "gardening & glass of wine" type kind of girl.... :)

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Just me looking for just you.... Are you there??I'm looking for the person will become my best friend, the person I will have great conversations with, share uncontrollable laughter, be flirty, enjoy a bit of adventure and a romance that will keep us happy together.You are the guy that is fun, flirty, romantic, tall and attractive (please include a recent photo). Communication, honesty and integrity are very important qualities you possess and laughter is a must. You are adventurous enough to enjoy some new experiences but down to earth enough to enjoy an evening cooking dinner together over a glass a wine - oh yes and more laughter. You look absolutely hot in a pair of jeans and enjoy hosting a bbq for friends. On the flip side you clean up nicely for work or a special event. Most importantly you are available emotionally and morally to enter into a relationship.If this describes you - what are you waiting for, send me a note, say hi.If this isn't you, good luck in your search.Words I live by...If you can imagine it, you can achieve it... Dream big and believe it is already yours and it will be. I believe in you, do you believe in me? It could be a coffee, a glass of wine, a walk in the park... Would you rather do something different and exciting? I'm open to suggestions.

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  • Kerri from Chapel Hill | Woman | 49 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi! Thanks for stopping by.I have an amazing life and want to share it with a great person. I'm happy and secure and love being outdoors. I know how to balance hard work with adventure. I am versatile and have fun getting dressed in heels and doing a night on the town with dinner and listening to music.I work in an office, so I love anything that gets me outside. I enjoy going to the lake, camping, fishing, bbq, bonfires, etc...Being outdoors brings me next to nature. I have a zest for life and would like to experience all the good and fun things that life has to offer.My friends know me as an honest, responsible, and genuine and fun loving person who has a great sense of humor. I am a positive person and look at life's challenges as lessons from which we can grow and become stronger.My ideal match is an honest and genuine person who has similar interests, family values, is ready for a serious committed relationship. I prefer someone 6'1" or taller (since I am sort of tall, I do like to wear heals on occasion :)I would like a person that has goals in their life, a stable career, honest, has a nice smile and teeth, kind hearted, but is independant.I am looking for that special someone to share my experiences with and hopefully the future with as well. I desire a relationship that that is based upon trust, respect and keeping one another focused on our mutual goals in life.If you think this description fits you, then I would love to hear from you! P.S. I prefer e-mails to "being a favorite." Let's enjoy everything from a night on the town to a quiet evening enjoying pizza and a good movie. Variety is the spice of life and adding creative twists to the same old things keeps it interesting

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