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Summer, 48
United States, North Carolina, Chapel Hill

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About Me

; have lived here for about 20 years.I value life, family, friends, loyal to the end. I happen to be a widow but that does not define me. It has enabled me to be a better, more compassionate and loving person. Active, fun, stable, supportive, nature loving, animal loving and enjoy men and have no negative connotations connected to men. I beat to a different drum, if you can keep up.Have learned no-one, nothing and life is not how it appears and how you think it is going to be; and then it is how we chose to react to this and what we do with it, this is a gift.What would I take with me if stranded on an island for 1 year ?1. THE man that I loved; which would be my best friend and a great lover2. My rescued furry friend3. Toothbrush, dental floss3. Water, water and more water4. Music5. Books6.Some things you may find intriguing about me.1. Very passionate2. Weak when it comes to: good looking men in a suit or a uniform and sexy high heels ( guess how many I own )?3. Compassionate about animals in need, children and senior citizens. They can not always defend themselves.4. Will stop what I am doing to " do a random act of kindness" to the ones who least expect it.5. My smile can light up a room.6. Very driven when I have a cause that is close to my heart.What do I look for in a man; a man that would be considered a "keeper"?1. He would be honest2. He would have an awesome sense of humor3. Likes to have fun in more ways than just one4. Treats me and others with respect5. Does the right thing - does what he says he is going to do6. Loves nature, his family, his work, children and animals7. Eats healthy most the time and is active more often that not8. Takes care of himself; owns dental floss and knows what manscape means9. Is open to Adventure,spontaneity, breaking a rule now and then10. Good heart, intelligent and can laugh at lifeand a bit more; To get to the First Date; now that is the journey and not the destination.Perhaps HH, a walk in the park, a hike, Starbucks; throw it out and lets see what happens!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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