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About Me

; have lived here for about 20 years.I value life, family, friends, loyal to the end. I happen to be a widow but that does not define me. It has enabled me to be a better, more compassionate and loving person. Active, fun, stable, supportive, nature loving, animal loving and enjoy men and have no negative connotations connected to men. I beat to a different drum, if you can keep up.Have learned no-one, nothing and life is not how it appears and how you think it is going to be; and then it is how we chose to react to this and what we do with it, this is a gift.What would I take with me if stranded on an island for 1 year ?1. THE man that I loved; which would be my best friend and a great lover2. My rescued furry friend3. Toothbrush, dental floss3. Water, water and more water4. Music5. Books6.Some things you may find intriguing about me.1. Very passionate2. Weak when it comes to: good looking men in a suit or a uniform and sexy high heels ( guess how many I own )?3. Compassionate about animals in need, children and senior citizens. They can not always defend themselves.4. Will stop what I am doing to " do a random act of kindness" to the ones who least expect it.5. My smile can light up a room.6. Very driven when I have a cause that is close to my heart.What do I look for in a man; a man that would be considered a "keeper"?1. He would be honest2. He would have an awesome sense of humor3. Likes to have fun in more ways than just one4. Treats me and others with respect5. Does the right thing - does what he says he is going to do6. Loves nature, his family, his work, children and animals7. Eats healthy most the time and is active more often that not8. Takes care of himself; owns dental floss and knows what manscape means9. Is open to Adventure,spontaneity, breaking a rule now and then10. Good heart, intelligent and can laugh at lifeand a bit more; To get to the First Date; now that is the journey and not the destination.Perhaps HH, a walk in the park, a hike, Starbucks; throw it out and lets see what happens!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lilian

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I love to travel, own reptiles, have several tattoos but you wouldn't know it when meeting me, listen to heavy metal music, love going to concerts - especially small venues, and watch hockey. I do find myself with alone time and wishing there was someone fun to adventure with! :). Zip line? Vegas? Ride an elephant? Take a photo road trip? Let's go!I have a 18yr old son who's the world to me! He's just graduated highschool, and I'm wondering what the next chapter will bring!I'm non judgemental, open minded and easy going. Independent. I'm not a political nut nor overly religious. Live and let live... we all deserve a smile no matter what our walk of life. I truly believe you can judge a person's character based on how they treat those who can do nothing for them. I take photos everywhere I go, and love to travel. I especially like trying new food, (fell in LOVE with Greek food!) always try the local drink... and generally enjoy meeting people from all over the world. I'm ready for a long-term partner. Someone to laugh and enjoy life with! If you have no intentions of actually getting to know me, please keep fishing. I'm worth getting to know! Also, have a pic of yourself uploaded before contacting me! You can see me, I'd like to know who I'm talking with! First meet? How about coffee, or possibly lunch. If we decide we'd like to see each other again and go on a real date, I'm all for something active! I'm not exactly your "gardening & glass of wine" type kind of girl.... :)

  • Janis

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Internet dating, isn't it so much fun? LOL - Some things about me: I like fishing, bowling, going to the movies, going to concerts and eating out (who really likes to do dishes? LOL). I do take care of myself and do try to eat right and exercise, but I'm not an extremist about it. : ) I work full-time outside all year. I'm a car inspector so it's a physically demanding job as well as mental. In the summer, I get quite the farmer's tan, despite using sunscreen! LOL I am a self-published author, and writing is one of my passions and I do write when time permits. My personal goal is to become a successful author and make a good living at it. I enjoy traveling and the beach is my favorite place and I do go as often as I can when time and money permits, cause girl's gotta pay the rent. : ) I don't watch much television, but spending time with friends and family and watching a good movie is great.I really like all kinds of music, rock, Christian, country, jazz, house, I enjoy listening to them all except secular rap. I do watch sports occasionally, but watching something live is better; i.e. in other words, to me it's more fun to watch a local high school football game then to sit in front of the television and watch the cowboys play! No, not that we can all rides horses, even though I do know how! And yes a pick up truck is my favorite vehicle! : ) LOL I love classic cars ***Firebird - yep one these days! : ) I love to watch drag racing, funny car, and demolition derbies are fun! At one time I wanted to be a drag car racer! : ) I love to laugh every day and have a great sense of humor. I do look at the brighter side of things, but of course can be serious when needed. Communication, honesty, trust, integrity, are important! I have old fashioned morals and values. I believe in treating others with dignity, courtesy and respect. A kind smile does wonders for the other person! : )I can dress in a business suite (oops wait a minute, I don't own one of those anymore! lol - I can wear a dress and heels and be just as comfortable as when I wear my favorite pair of jeans and a t-shirt and have my hair pulled back in a ponytail - either way I am quite happy and at ease with myself. : ) I also have a knack to get people around me to relax and enjoy themselves. I'm not really sure how that happens, it just does. : ) My photos are current. Profile photo taken late spring of ***in front of my gf's home and the other two at my b-day party. My "adopted" dad, is not my real dad. I lost both my parents years ago. This man and his wife I met three years ago, and he has become like a dad to me, hence I call him my adopted dad. :)If you clicked yes you would like to meet, send me an *** me know! When we meet, maybe there will be that spark, and maybe we will talk and laugh and the time will fly by! We won't know until we meet. At the very least we could be friends and friends are priceless in this town!Also need to add, I did not realize that when I first filled out my profile I chose the wrong year date - my gf suggested I redo my profile add more things about me and obviously correct my year of birth : ***stuff happens! Somewhere that we can have a conversation, like a coffee shop or a restaurant, or a park, doesn't really matter where, does it? LOL.

  • Marion

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Now that my son is nearly grown, I have more time for me! Just "me" is getting kinda dull, so I'd love to make the me, a "WE!" =)So as not to scare away those that like correct grammar, I know that the "we" should have really been an "us"...but not as catchy...sorry ;)!I am a pretty unique gal that does not fit the mold of most women. If it is a girlie girl that you are looking for, then I am not the one for you. I love to sweat and don't mind getting dirty. Don't get me wrong, I do clean up nicely too! I am not one to talk much about pop culture, in fact, I am not really sure who the Kardasians are, or even care to know...Not much of a TV watcher either. I am not materialistic and live pretty simply. If your profile pic is of you standing in front of your expensive car...we are probably not a match. Also...I have noticed many of you guys are into your motorcycles! Honestly, they really scare the heck out of me...being an orthopaedic nurse...so if this is an important part of your lifestyle, I don't think I can share that with you.I am an independent, down to earth, positive, and basically happy person. I am looking for that man out there who will thrill me, challenge me , inspire me, and be my missing piece. I am in a wonderful place in life....it is truly good...and look forward to sharing my happiness and time with that special guy.I live a healthy lifestyle and and am very fit and active. I love anything outdoors! Swimming, hiking ,biking, kayaking, beaches, lakes, mountains...can you introduce me to more?I am an avid runner and love the challenge of races, the longer the better! I adore my running friends, but would love to have a new training partner ;)! There is something very special and intimate about working out alongside a partner.....I want that. I also enjoy Yoga and practice nearly every day. This world of flexibility, strength, grace, and spirituality is my new frontier. I would also love to share this love with a Yogi guy!I like to cook and am getting better and more creative now that my son is past the chicken nugget stage. There is nothing more satisfying than feeding someone and getting their genuine compliments! All healthy stuff...if you like a steady diet of grease, you will become bored with me and my choices.I love music and always try to keep a good song in my head. When the going gets tough, just start singing it! I especially like classic rock, jam bands, reggae, and the blues. Love live shows in smaller venues or at huge outdoor festivals. Bob Marley once said: "a good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain"...ahhhh so true, at least for me :)On the spiritual side, I am a thoughtful, kind person that always seems to take the side of the underdog. I've been told I have a big heart. Born and raised a Catholic. It is my foundation, and has helped to shape who I am today...although I haven't been to church much lately, I am more spiritual than ever. I find that I no longer need rules and structure to help me be my best possible caring and compassionate and peaceful me....I try to live by the Golden Rule. When you think about it, isn't it the basis behind every world religion?I hope to find a like minded, passionate man who also does not fit the mold. Please, please be happy, optimistic, fit, active and soulful. Did I mention fit?? Respect for your mind, body and soul should be a priority. Are you kind? Crunchy, chewy and yummie are an added bonus also! Did I mention fit? Oh yes, I did...sorry to be redundant but this is a must. One that knows the correct use of an apostrophe and "their, there, they're" is a bonus too!Intimacy and affection are also very important to me. You too?Are you out there? I look forward to meeting you......together!

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