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Tabatha, 47

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About Me

Everyone is on here looking for the same thing. Be honest about who you are-after all it will be known eventually. Honesty, affection and communication are a must, even when communication can be challenging. Must have good character, and you know whether or not that is you. Please be independent and responsible. I like a man who is charismatic, outgoing, and extremely confident (which is not to be confused for****), and well mannered who understands that there is a time and place for everything. A healthy balance of going out and staying in is good. Tend to be outgoing and social, have a sense of adventure but not a huge thrill seeker (no need for speed!). I enjoy live music, ethnic cuisine, sushi, 80’-especially the Bears and the list goes on. I eat healthy but do not exercise as much as I should. I am not athletic and toned and yep, have a few extra pounds. I am real and will always have curves. I am comfortable with who I am and you should also be comfortable with who I am. Having fun and being able to laugh with the person you are with is important. It’s not really what you are doing, but the company you are doing it with that makes it a great time. I’m prompt, do what I say I am going to do and try to live by the golden rule. Not into messaging for extended periods of time. Talking on the phone gives an initial impression but you do not know if you connect with someone until you meet in person. No picture, no response. Looking for someone between the ages of ***Someone who has similar interests and ones of their own, with a sense of style. Please know that I am looking for someone that is interested in a LTR. If we have been out several times and have chemistry and a connection, you need to know that the exclusivity in the relationship topic will arise. Becoming involved in a relationship with multiple people is not what I am looking for and I am not interested in someone who does that. Someone once said "Don't Make someone a priority when they only make you an option" is a great saying. You live and learn. Oh, and-I don't really understand the "wants to meet you" feature. This site is free, how about just saying hello? First dates can be challenging...anything short term with long term potential. Open to suggestions and thinking outside of the box! No movie first dates..cant chat in a theater!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kayla

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I give freely, laugh out loud and love life. I'm a mellow, fun person with a positive outlook who believes happiness is an inside job! I've a pretty independent spirit and strive to be non-judgmental and accepting. I can put on heels and dress up, but I'm most comfortable in a swimsuit, tee shirt, flip flops. I am monogamous, trusting and can't deal with a jealous or insecure man. I love to travel and experience new places, went to Belize and Turks & Caicos this year! It would be great to find someone to scuba dive with, as I've caught the bug and now want to visit all the out of the way dive spots in the Islands! I love trying new things (just got Open, Nitrox & Advanced certified in Scuba ***!!), plus all the stuff listed above, concerts, bike rides, picnic, fishing, art galleries, etc. I'm hoping to find someone to do these things with (as well as what you like, of course!) but also to just kick back with, make dinners, hang by the pool, howl at the moon, cuddle, enjoy each others company. Lets take long weekend trips and play hookey! I prefer not to follow the beaten path and shy away from "upscale" resorts and crowds of people. I know how to appreciate life, relax, soak up the sun, and take in the sights.; blue skies and blue water turn me on. I love all animals, nature, and have a little wiener dog... and I tend to play it LOUD! Gotta say, can't do Country though.I'd enjoy a man who's (glass-half-full-kinda) happy, affectionate, spontaneous, and that doesn't take himself too seriously. Ultimately, I want a fulfilling relationship, I believe everything is better when I'm sharing my life with someone. Happiness I have, but my heart desires to be full. I have no children or crazy ex husband (but I was married for ***years), I have my own home, am not here looking for a sugar daddy or a handyman. Question: when you strike up a conversation with someone in "real" life, do you ask her how old she is when you meet?! See what I mean?-holed on a search engine. Let's talk on the phone, then for a first meeting, just something quick to see if we click in person (and you look like your photos-mine are all current within a year). But, please do be prepared to at least speak to me on the phone after a few *** don't think texting allows for good communication and, I'm not here to have a cyber relationship!

  • Mildred

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Ready for the next chapter in my life.....Positive,loyal and fun to be around. Looking for a kind, fun to be around, chivalrous man that knows how to enjoy life and works to live, not someone who lives to work. Looking for a man who shares the same outlook on life, who doesn't take themself too seriously, and enjoys the simple things in life as well as the finer things. My biggest assets are my genuineness, what you see is what you get and my thoughtfulness. I'm told my best feature are my blue eyes and smile. I'm still getting situated, But want to reamin open because you never know when the right person may come along. I have 2 grown children***& ***who are my biggest blessing! I enjoy all kinds of music, but I do prefer soft classic rock. I enjoy the outdoors, preferably, walking, biking or hiking. I love to cook butI would love to find a man who enjoys to cook as well, so I get to enjoy a meal without having to go out! I love being active but there are times I really enjoy just being at home, enjoying a quiet dinner and a movie. I also love being around friends and family. I would love to meet that someone special who's looking to enjoy life to the fullest! If you're a player, married or like playing games please move on!! I do prefer a clean cut guy, never been one for facial hair although it seems to be the thing for most guys anymore. I also not a motorcycle enthusiast, had a accident so took it as a sign to stay off. Depending on the person, we can play it by ear.

  • Diann

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I like to laugh and be around fun positive people. Life is short so make good choices. I like to work and believe I have a strong work ethic. But, also know how to relax and have fun. Bucket list is to watch a game from the Green Monster and some day to have a few of my ashes spread there. I know but I`.. oh and on that note love Football. So yes I love the Patriots too. Sports on all the time.I consider myself a beach bum. I can walk on the beach or just sit and read a book. It is so relaxing listening to the waves or better my music on the ipod. Back in the day I surfed a bit but that is a distant memory... When I first came back stateside I tried to dive on Cape Cod and visibility was less than ideal so got frustrated and stopped and then children and... I love the outdoors and enjoy hikes and the challenges that come. Not a fan of snakes but can take care of myself if need be. I like the hot weather so will not complain about it like most people. Camping is fun too. I like the RV personally but can rough it in a tent providing I have an air mattress. I can not start fires I admit but love to sit by them. I can fish but can not bait a hook. I can not explain why a worm grosses me out but it is true. I was a master griller in training until I got a Big Green Egg. This is by far the best grill I have ever had and surpasses my Jenn Air gas grill with rotisserie to the point sadly it just sits by my pool. This Green Egg is a ceramic grill so temps can reach up to ***degrees. I can smoke at low temps or make a steakhouse style steak at ***degrees. I have even made pizza on this grill. Grilling is a life style and it is fun to be creative. I can cook too but prefer to sit back and grill.To describe myself I would say I`m athletic kind average height about 5'4" and about ***pounds. Irish catholic light skinned. I like to walk and exercise and am in pretty good shape. I am not Barbie!I consider myself a strong role model for my children. Many years ago I had an injury to an arm and gave up my career as a nurse and moved across the country hoping the warm weather would help. I did not know a sole here but believed the warm weather wound lessen the pain. I'm not going to lie, it was terrifying but I prevailed. Life throws you curves it's what you do when the chips are down that determine your character. I persevere ! We could enjoy some Tapas and Wine or Coffee and Bagel.

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