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Zelma, 34

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About Me

In my spare time I like to work out, do dinners or drinks with friends, intelligent conversations, old school concerts, occasional sporting events, movies, read a lot of books, and try new things. I like to gamble occasionally, but am not into spending a lot of money doing it. My favorite band is Rush and I almost never miss a concert.I am in the middle and try to avoid extremes. I like to go out and I like to stay in. I like spending time with someone but also have some space. I'd like to find someone that can be in the middle as well. I tend to dress casual but can dress up when asked. I consider myself semi-active. I like to try to work out and stay in shape, but I like to kick back and relax too. I think having a good balance is important. I love little weekend driving trips and would like to do more. I would like to take a driving trip or a train trip sometime soon.I'm looking for what most of us are looking for. Chemistry and an emotional connection. I think communication and good relationship skills are key to a good relationship...not expecting everything to just magically work out on its own or expecting someone to just be a "soulmate."Anything else just ask. I'd love to hear more about you. A few tidbits:I don't like giving out my number unless we are about to meet. If you don't ask me questions I will eventually quit writing. I don't do hookups or friends with benefits so please don't waste my time trying to get that. Move on. Something casual. Meet for a coffee or a drink and see if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    When I am not bound and shackled to my job, I like exploring what this area has to offer. I *** or two once in awhile, used to go hiking at least twice a month and run/ practice yoga/ do Crossfit/ cycle around town but I am dealing with an overuse injury right now (not fun), travel overseas, visit with friends and family, museums, etc... I prefer being active but don't have a problem staying in for a night. I do listen to music but I refuse to listen to death metal, country music that talks about tractors and trailers, rap that talks about 'popping a cap in someone' and 'itches and hoes.' I don't find such music pleasant as I cannot relate to the situation. Otherwise, I'm pretty open to listening to many different things. I lived in the NOLA area for a little while and discovered Cajun and Zyedco music (neat stuff.) I have been blessed to have lived in several states so far and have dicovered things that make each area of this country great. As I mentioned, I like to travel and try new things. In any case, fun times are ahead and maybe you will be interested in joining me? Honestly, a movie or a show on the first date is nice and all but you don't really have the chance to get to know the person. I would prefer to find any activity that we could do together that requires us to talk and work together. I'm up to try new things so let us go exploring.

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