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Nichole, 32
United States, Montana, Missoula

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Hi there. Thank you for visiting my profile. Since there will be plenty of time for us to get to know each other, here's just a preview.I am single mother of a beautiful 20 month old girl. Like most others, i am here looking for my better half. A best friend, wonderful partner, and great father. I am looking for the package deal. Who isnt? I have always taken my relationships seriously, and in fact, do not like to date casually. Im either in it for the long haul, or not in it at all. Not even when i was younger. I have always been a one-man kind of girl. I am just hoping that this next one will be my last. =) I would like to settle down and just enjoy life. Be happy. Make my partner happy. Well, every girl can dream for this to happen, right?I am a fun, outgoing, yet serious woman looking to start off as friends and just see where it leads. As i just stated, I am not looking for anything casual, so i only ask that those looking for long term (in the end) contact me. Let's face it, we can all go to a bar and pick someone up if that's what we wanted. Its just not my scene anymore. I have simply grown out of it! Please do not interpret this as "she's boring." I can assure you--i am far from that! If there is a football game you want to go to, and you want to hit the Sports bar to watch it? Im game!! Or after a long day at work? Sure. Let's grab a drink! I actually enjoy Sports bars more than just regular bars. They are more classy and you can sit and relax more i think. Also, I would like to be a good role model for my daughter. And i also respect myself too much to just go off with anyone... So i am looking for someone similar. A man who wants to find his life-mate. Please do not waste my time if you are on here just to hook up. You will find it a lot easier to pursue another woman than waste your time trying with me. I just want someone real, serious, and most of all? Who knows what he wants. I feel i have a lot to offer and hope for the same in return. All i need is a chance. And maybe better luck--hmm.. So far, im still looking. But this just means he hasn't found me yet....A few important things to note: 1) Please do not get offended if you have messaged me and i dont reply. I get a lot of messages and will only answer the ones that meet my requirements. Its nothing personal. 2) I will not reply to cheesy pickup lines. Save those for your trip to the bar. I cant believe some of the lines people use on me. Really? Seriously........its not going to work with me. If anything, it makes me NOT want to talk to you. I dont care how hot you are. Just avoid using them, or dont bother contacting me.3) I will automatically delete the messages i get that read, "hey baby" or "hey sexy"***i like to converse with intellectual individuals like myself. If you cannot start a conversation with anything other than "You're hot" or "hey baby"---then there's no chance for us. Its actually a turn off to be called BABY. Im not a baby. Im a woman. I guess you get an "E" for effort. But dont expect a reply. My hand hits the delete button. I dont even look at your profile. And no, i dont care how attractive you are. Looks are just icing on the cake for me. I am far deeper than looks.4) I will hit the delete button if you have no profile picture. Imagine how many OTHERS have done this to you, or will do this to you. How many opportunities are you missing out on?! One of the basic requirements ought to be a photo. If you cannot figure out how to post a photo, then please have someone assist you. I do not want to hear excuses. There is no "CANT." And no, i will not give you my *** tel#. You shouldnt give your info out either. Just figure out how to get your photo on here. When there is a will, there is a way. So find it! =***Please ensure you have more than 1 photo listed if you plan to have a picture of yourself amongst a group of friends. It is extremely difficult to know which one you are, when you are in a photo with 8 other people. I read someone's profile recently--and he too, complained about this. You can put an arrow? A circle? Anything! To indicate which one in the group you are. Or just have a few pictures of JUST YOU also. I dont like to sit there and guess. Stand out from the crowd. Show your confidence! 6) Please refrain from posting photos of you all snuggled up with other women. This is self-explanatory. But obviously i have come across a number of profiles where the guy looks a little too cozy..... I tend to shake my head and think "are you on here trying to find a new partner? Because that photo tells me you are just fine right where you are...."***Do you want to see photos of me sitting on a guy's lap or in a tight embrace? If you just said, "sure, why not?" Then you are not for me. I want my guy to care! And this is common sense. One of the things you should avoid is making your partner worry, doubt you, or not trust you. Dont start things off with any of those things. Dont post those kinds of pictures. Re-think your photos if this sounds like you! You may be sending across the wrong message. Maybe not intentionally either!Thanks for listening. Best of luck. Again, i just wanted to be open and honest. I have been trying this online dating bit for awhile now.and i just had to share my thoughts on a few things!Well? If you made it through this and you are still interested, please contact me. Who knows where it will lead! And if not? Then keep your chin up and good luck! "Just keep swimming!"***the ocean is a large place!Ciao! First dates are always the hardest, but they dont have to be. Perhaps just a coffee or a light stroll. No pressure, and it can be as short or.....as long as you'd ilke it to be!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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