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Allyson, 54
United States, Maryland, Hagerstown

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Hi,First of all, Thanks for stopping by. Let's get this smoking thing out on the table. I quit backslid and at this point seem to be on the way to winning the battle to set them down for good. (a work in progress)There are tons of things I enjoy. I don't have to be the best at something to have fun doing it. I like to play......a lot. From volleyball to tic tac toe :). I also enjoy peace, quiet and a mindless evening of sitcoms or movies. I have a fairly quick, sometimes sarcastic, wit. I try to make the best of what ever task I have to do. I am so not afraid of acting silly and have been known to do so on several occasions. I like to think of myself as having a thick skin, but when it comes down to it I will cry at the drop of a hat. Oh well....I work at a local gym. I enjoy my gym job because of the relationships I get to build, a staff that is like a second family to me and the people I get to help. I have 3 grown kids. Different as night and day. Love the stuffins out of all 3.I like most kinds of music, I grew up with Pink Floyd etc..... so I'm pretty much all over the map, If you can throw a little hip into it I'm all about it. I do enjoy being outdoors when it's not ***and humid. Hiking, back of a bike, concert, community theatre, sports bar, I'll even go fishing every now and then, I stink at golf but enjoy playing (at it), darts, swimming, cold beer warm night, Baily's on a cold one. Travel seeing new things. Attending sporting events. For some reason I really like hockey, (go figure) I am at a point in my life where I am getting to be a little better at expressing myself........ ..; :(. I am about living my life to the fullest . If it won't get me killed or thrown in jail I'm all in! I have spent a lot of years tending to other peoples needs and am ready to tend to my ownThat being said things are always so much better if you have someone to share them with..... I love to be cared for and return the favor. Snuggle, hand holding, open my door for me, Have my heart. Consideration & Caring.. I am one of the most caring, compassionate smart asses you will ever meet.I'm looking for someone who is comfortable in his own skin. Easy going and quick witted. Someone adventurous enough to try something new. While not being opposed to a night of just relaxing together. Having a tuff time findin current pics this sight will accept. The ones posted are just a couple of years old. Stay tuned. I finally found one that is current. If you are very observant you will notice my hair color changes with the seasons, my mood, or just because. It's just hair :) I have started to write this five times five different ways. The main thing I keep coming back to is meeting somewhere for a drink or coffee where we can hear each other and exchange our stories, then we see where the it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Salsa Dance
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a Pisces although my profile says Capricorn and who knows how that happened, but with that in mind...I do not base my future on astrology. I am an independant woman who has a job, a car, and a place of my own. I am looking for a man that knows how to treat a lady and can take care of her. I want the fairytale or as close to it as I can get. My fairytale consists of a man who loves me, takes care of me and understands me (I did say fairytale didn't I?) Ok so the understanding part has a wide margin LOL. You don't have to be perfect ...I am certainly not perfect. I am simply a woman who wants a good man to stand beside me through life sharing the good moments, the awesome moments the not so good moments and the knock your socks off moments. Life is far too short not to have someone to love you and have that same love in return. I do not take life for granted...you only get one shot at it and I want to give it my best. I am a Christian mother of two beautiful children that I love dearly. I am loyal and trustworthy and I expect the same in return. When I give my heart I expect it to be treated with love, kindness and respect. I know most men don't want to hear mushy stuff but I am a tender hearted woman that wants to be doted on by the man who loves me. I want the tough guy that turns to jello when he is with me... I want the man that only sees "me" in a room full of perfect models. Too much to ask? I don't think so... He is supposed to be the man for ME and I don't share :)I do have my crabby momments but not very often, I like to take charge at times but mostly I like to be taken care of and cherished. I like a smooth shaven face on a man...very sexy!!! Someone who smokes ....not sexy!!! Beer good !!! Too much beer.....bad!!! I like Wine with my meal sometimes and of course my social drinks of Wine, Margarita's etc...you know.... the "girly" drinks. :)One human being to another....I am just like you, a person who has wants and desires and am in search of finding that one person that get's me and loves me for it. I love to have fun and laugh. I am passionate about many things like when I love, when I feel strongly about something, when I know things are right or wrong. I look for the good around me and learn from those I admire. I like going out on a boat and watching the kids swim, tube, or ski and yes I do like those things myself. I enjoy riding jet skies, reading books, riding horses though I haven't done much riding at all. I grew up in the city what can I say :)I really love to watch movies and curl up with that special someone, I enjoy backyard BBQ's with family and friends. I love quiet walks, tender kisses and hugs, walking barefoot in a river and picking up the pretty rocks.....taking them home and putting them in the flower garden. I have been fishing, camping, hunting and have done sports. I find fishing relaxing, camping adventurous, Archery fun and sports on TV boring. Hunting for food is good, hunting for sport is bad. I find pleasures in the simple things of life. I tend to be a bit of a workaholic but I do like my job, but once I am home...it's all about my family...oh yes.I work in the OIL Industy so I am around a LOT of oil field guys and I love them all.....that's me as simple and yet complicated as it is... putting myself out there in hopes of finding that one person .....a keeper :) We can talk about that later

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am not a huge fan of this site but when you work often and live in a different town, meeting people is difficult. Meeting quality is even harder.I love life, adventure, traveling and helping people. I work hard, play even harder and don't rely on any one. I am allergic (terribly) to cats but love dogs. I have 3 ... choc lab, wolf husky and a pyr/husky mix. All great natured dogs.I have one left at home, a 16 yr old Sophomore. Great kid ... very together and fun! I have a 30 yr old son and a 29 yr old daughter, 3 grandkids 7, 8, 10.Music is always playing around me. Ecletic taste ... also sing mostly country. It's my accent that seems to pull it all together.My son isn't going to be with me in a few short years ... I am hopeful I will find someone I really enjoy spending time with and maybe ... something long term will develop.I also Cater/dj/kj ... being a single parent ... I like spoiling my son, this helps even though I have a good job and make a good living.I have been here before ... met several but haven't found a mutual interest I guess. When I meet one I am interested in, and vice versa, getting off dating sites will be the first thing I do.Just because I want a relationship ... I sure don't need one. I do single very well, very practicle and expect respect.BTW ... I do ride a Harley Just be real ... fake always comes out in the end.

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