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Trudy, 53

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About Me

we're all here for basically tha same reason...we're lonely, or bored, needing something diff in our lives... it all starts w/ good conversation...trying this again... i want to hear from Christian ppl...that means, no boozers, liars, players or druggies (yes, weed is a drug)... and u must love cats... someone who loves to smile/laugh, is down-to-earth. real. im lookin' for someone who is nice!someone whos fun, stable, doesnt sweat tha small stuff...who can make me laugh, is cheerful, hard-working, mature...im a no bs kinda girl, and if u dont say stuff to let me know uv read my bio, ul not hear from me. hey, if ur too lazy to read, im too lazy to write back. im tired of generic letters and tha ones liners... talk to me... plus, im old-fashioned, i have morals and standards...u should too. keep it clean!im a pretty simple person. low maintenance, no drama, friendly. i dont require much but, im looking for someone whos genuine, fun, someone looking to really connect w/ another. i need u to be talkative, and attentive. interesting, and interested.i wanna talk w/ ppl who really wanna get to know me...dont just tell me u like my profile....tell me *why* u like it...ive got all tha time in tha world in this big ole house and an acre of land...i even have a large pond... and have nobody to enjoy it with, ugh. im a huge DIY'er...-do countertops) got all new furniture for every room, changed all tha flooring, fixtures etc...im almost completely done w/ tha upstairs and after that, im afraid i may go crazy w/ boredom. my cats and tv keep me company (how pathetic is that). im kinda a neat-freak, love working in my home and in tha yard... so anyone out there who feels like we could click, write me, i could surrrre use someone to talk with.im pretty much a homebody, although i do have days where i like runnin' tha roads...now to find someone to run them with......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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