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Charmaine, 49
United States, South Carolina, Anderson

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Ok..after my deep breath (can you hear it lol)...here it goes. Bluntly, if infidelity is part of the reason you are in this situation,( and you were the unfaithful one) you will have a hard time getting me to understand. But you could try. ( uuummm, good luck if your so brave) I have always been a one man woman. If you have kids and don't take care of them to the best of your ability, unless extreme circumstances, you won't like me very much.I easy going and open to all kinds of people as long as they are honest, true to self, unselfish and not judgemental (drives me insane!)( It's so hard to be me lol). You have to want to laugh, even if at yourself sometimes. I have sacrificed fun for quite some time, and need to have more of it. I'm am sooooooo not high maintenance, and I have been told this is a fault of mine. My high maintenance? Holding hands, a shoulder for my head, walks in the park, looking into my eyes, and laughter. I guess I can learn...and kind of look forward to having a little of it. I do love flowers though, and a card bought with thought says the world to me. Throw a letter in there and....the day is good:)I really have never "needed" a man, but have "wanted" a man. Huge difference. I walk side by side with you. Not in front of nor behind. I dress up or down depending on the occasion. It's sort of a "transformation" process.Yes, I am educated, but am learning more by living life. Should you meet me, you will know that my education is the last thing that I exude. I am down to earth and my formal education has nothing to do with that.Weathering storms ... taught me to communicate my needs as they are worth listening to. It has also taught me to not to shut people out.. I forgive others as it is not just a gift to them but it is a gift to myself. . Fighting ... Nope, agree to disagree, I have learned that inhibitions are unnecessary and quite honestly, *** won't fight for a man, but I will fight for love. If the two go hand in hand, it is a blessing.I have lived through more "drama" than one person can take. I have no patience for it. Take that as a warning lol. I live my life with a few mottos: Tomorrow is another day, and the one I like best...MAKE it a good day. take some responsibility for "making" your day good, and not just waiting for it to happen.I am traditional in my beliefs morals, and values and I believe they are worth living by. I have been burned by this, but don't care. I do it for myself, but most importantly, to be a role model for my two boys. No matter what, they will grow up to be fine young men.. I use sarcasm as a defense mechanism. (Tell me I am being sarcastic, and I usually stop) I pick my battles and don't waste energy on the small irritations in life. Hopefully you have done the same. I tend to be comical, but sometimes don't get jokes and mess up song lyrics :). Additionally, I CAN'T sing. I tend to dance in the car with my teen-age boys, and it drives them nuts. I say so what, it makes me giggle.I don't have any expectations right now except to treat me like a woman for at least 10 minutes a day. Even if it is just an adult conversation, as I don't need ***attention.My kids are my life, and that will not change until they are adults and on their own. I would take a bullet for them, but I need to be more than just a mom at the same time.I have faith in many things, and being happy is one of them.Mom and Dad, 52 years. Learned what it takes to make a relationship work (even though it's not always pretty)I continue with my gift of gab, and hopefully you have been curious, even if for a minute.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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