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Deborah, 48

United States, South Carolina, Anderson

Offline, last seen Wed, 07 Oct 2026 00:42:35

About Me

With Fall here I thought it would be a good time to update my profile. Let's start by saying yes all the pics are from ***however I go from straight to curly and wavy hair from day to day. I am honest and positive. I make a choice to be around positive people and tend to turn away from negativity. I took time to know myself and what I want. I am strong in many ways but do have my vulnerable side as well. I love things like pedicures, manicures, spa days, travel, etc. I also love a walk in the mountains, or to sit by the water and watch the sun go down whether a pond or an ocean. I like country music as well as classical and everything in between. It is not the type of music it is how it makes me feel. I have a good career and no plans of retiring anytime soon. I can support myself but choose not to support a man without equal contribution from him to support me. other words it is a ***or as someone told me ***each giving 100%. When I am passionate about something where a cause, an issue, etc. I give 110% of myself. What am I looking for? the love of my life. Someone that makes me feel like the only woman in the room of ***women. That from across the room can bring a smile to my face with a simple glance. Someone that will call me on it when I am wrong or will discuss matters with me and not simply agree with me. Someone that thinks I am beautiful with no makeup and hair a mess the same as they would when I am dressed up to go out for a special night. Someone that sees the inner beauty. I will do the same see your inner beauty, think you are handsome in sweaty t-shirt after mowing the lawn the same as you in a tux ready for a night out. I will call you on issues if I disagree and I will not agree just to be polite. Now for the disclaimer: if every other word is a curse word, you get drunk every day or every weekend, smoke, have hang ups about your past, or are the jealous type it will not work for us. If you want to know more feel free to ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am fun, witty and passionate. I'm not interested in drama and live a pretty simple life. My sense of humor is on the sarcastic side but I am not mean-spirited and laugh at myself on a daily basis. I enjoy the company of positive energy individuals that are versatile and easy-going. My ideal match would be attractive (to me) and confident without being arrogant or self-centered. His friends would say he is a "great guy". I am an affectionate person and appreciate this in a partner. I am generous and giving and am happiest when it is reciprocated. At this point in my life, I have learned that friendships/relationships require a certain amount of effort and they generally are not successful if they are one-sided. I would like to meet someone that is content with his life already but wouldn't mind someone coming along for some special times together. I am independent and resourceful. I own a lawnmower and know how to use it. I enjoy being close to a special someone but also need my space. I am mature enough to realize that I am not perfect and neither do I expect perfection. I would like to get to know someone that understands that we are all "a work in progress". I am seeking a stable, mature yet fun, intelligent and dependable man that has had a few hard knocks in life and knows how to get back up again. He is comfortable in his own skin and knows where he is headed in life. He is happy and loves to laugh. He makes others around him feel good about themselves and is communicative and honest. A companion, lover and best friend will be something that he is looking for on his life journey. In return he would be my knight in shining armor (a few dings and some rust are not deal breakers) and I would stand by him always. I would be his help-mate, friend, lover and biggest fan.We would have lots of fun and make lots of memories together. I probably should add, that I am not interested in tons of dates but I am interested in getting to know someone one on one at first to see where it may lead. If a connection is made, my focus would then be on that one person. I think something casual and fun. Quick appetizer and drink. If we end up connecting and the date lasts longer even better. Attending a sporting event could be fun especially this time of year...it's football season. First Friday walking downtown.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    My hobbies are crafts of all kinds, I love to read, go dancing and watch movies, spending time out side. I'm originally from Southern Calif. We moved to AR when I was 16. I joined the Navy out of High School, I was in the Navy for ***years and loved the time I was in. I got out in ***and moved around a bit before settling down here in AR. I like classic rock and country, 80's pop and also Disco music, anything you can dance to and understand I like. The movies I like are comedies, dramas, scary and action. I'm a city girl, not much on camping but I like to visit our state parks. I like riding motorcycles. I've never learned to drive one though. For those who my not like tattoos I have a few and want more. I love the beach (the smell, the sound, and the sand) the hole package. I want to travel and see more of the world. I have two children, boy and girl. I have one grandson. I didn't like the idea for being a grandmother when my daughter told me she was going to have a baby, I just didn't think I was old enough to be a grandmother, but now that I am, I love it. I just wish they live closer so I could see them more. I'm not a jealous person. I'm secure in myself, I don't need constant reassurance. I want a relationship but don't need it to to survive. I want someone to spend some time with and have fun, but don't mind if I need my my time and be secure that with that. I'm a trusting person until given a reason not to. Everything I have done in the past has made me who I am today so I don't regret anything. I do think back and can't believe some of the stupid things I did, but we are all young. That's what life is all about, the adventures we have, and I am now ready my next big adventure! I don't do drugs so I don't want anyone that does. I may have a drink every now and then. Go some place we can talk and get a feel for each other, and go from there.

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