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Bonnie, 40

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About Me

UPDATE: CHEMISTRY should be FAST...but RELATIONSHIPS should be SLOW!!!I am a natural beauty with a vibrant personality, young heart, wise soul & feisty spirit. I love walking & talking, wining & dining (actually, I prefer really good beer over wine),I love to cook and cozy evenings at home...Dinner & one-on-one time are even better than going out! ;)It's all in the smile and personality (well mostly) for me...the energy/connection (that RARE SPARK).Chemistry, Chemistry, Chemistry ~ that's what I want! Ideally, we would be attracted mind, body & soul!(yeah, that's the hopeless romantic in me coming out)Great conversationalist (if you are super descriptive and like to elaborate, I'm all ears!A guy who expresses himself and is emotionally available is sexy...what a turn on!Talk to me...but say what you mean & mean what you say. HONEST (better be). Be sweet but not too sweet...I don't want a man that doesn't want to be the man!Single and looking for my last lover that can be my best friend too.I want great conversation & companionship...to spend quality time with someone that makes me laugh & with whom I am attracted to...attraction is a must, as well as chemistry!Preferably would turn into something long term, but not looking for an immediate relationship.Some people my age already have kids out of the house, but I guess I started late...I have two children that live with me, ages 4 & 12. Which means, it isn't always easy for me to just do things on a whim.Someone who understands that is important.I am very down to earth, but that does not make me simple. I live a pretty casual no frills lifestyle. If you love women that always have perfect hair, manicures and that wear heels daily...then I'm not your girl! However, I do enjoy a good night on the town every now and then. I know how to dress for any occasion...even the opera! ;)If you are attached, don't even bother contacting me. Also no drug users & prefer non-smokers.p.s. I will not give out my number so that we can text right away. If you are not cool with that, please move on...I've had people get mad at me already because they think that is weird. I think the opposite is weird!"For the closer she came to the edge, the more she could hear; the more she could see;the more she could feel. Finally, she stood at the very edge. She saw a light. She leaned out to touch it…she slipped, and she flew into tomorrow; a place with more suns in the sky than you can count;a place not like today or yesterday… a place where things are better."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elba

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I have lived in four countries, travelled to many more, graduated from UT in 3 years with honors, raised two children by myself for nine years. If there is something I want I go for it. And I really want 50 years with one man beside me. I want to be that couple everyone stops and stares at because the connection between us is so obvious and when I am beside you, you are all I can see.I am a very confident person so I need a very strong man.Do you exist?P.S.- This site is kind of, no very insane with so many *** don't be offended if I don't respond. I honestly don't have time to even read most of them....but if you have any real interest and think we could be that couple, please reach out to me more than once.This part I am not excited to include, but feel compelled to now w so many *******you could be greatest man in world but if you're in your twenties...no If you are a girl.....no If you are claiming to be 49 but your real age is very different....noI would never waste anyone's time, so please don't waste mine.

  • Chasity

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    HiI want a committed relationship. I adopted 2 little girls this year and work full time. I dont have time or interest in casual or "just fun". A babysitter costs me more than dinner costs you so know what you want & don't play games. My girls dont have a dad so I don't get every other weekend off. If I am going to have a relationship, it will be with someone whose family is priority.

  • Marsha

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Looking for an independent man, one who knows what he wants and is not afraid to let you know. I like affection but I really can't take a klingy man. A nice guy with an edge I guess you could say. Someone who likes to smile and have fun and has a positive attitude! No doom & gloom! I'm an independent person I own my home, car, and truck. I pay my own way I'm not looking for someone to take care of me, I am not looking to take care of anyone. Just want to find someone to be happy with. Something simple like coffee or a beer!

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