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Bonnie, 40

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UPDATE: CHEMISTRY should be FAST...but RELATIONSHIPS should be SLOW!!!I am a natural beauty with a vibrant personality, young heart, wise soul & feisty spirit. I love walking & talking, wining & dining (actually, I prefer really good beer over wine),I love to cook and cozy evenings at home...Dinner & one-on-one time are even better than going out! ;)It's all in the smile and personality (well mostly) for me...the energy/connection (that RARE SPARK).Chemistry, Chemistry, Chemistry ~ that's what I want! Ideally, we would be attracted mind, body & soul!(yeah, that's the hopeless romantic in me coming out)Great conversationalist (if you are super descriptive and like to elaborate, I'm all ears!A guy who expresses himself and is emotionally available is sexy...what a turn on!Talk to me...but say what you mean & mean what you say. HONEST (better be). Be sweet but not too sweet...I don't want a man that doesn't want to be the man!Single and looking for my last lover that can be my best friend too.I want great conversation & companionship...to spend quality time with someone that makes me laugh & with whom I am attracted to...attraction is a must, as well as chemistry!Preferably would turn into something long term, but not looking for an immediate relationship.Some people my age already have kids out of the house, but I guess I started late...I have two children that live with me, ages 4 & 12. Which means, it isn't always easy for me to just do things on a whim.Someone who understands that is important.I am very down to earth, but that does not make me simple. I live a pretty casual no frills lifestyle. If you love women that always have perfect hair, manicures and that wear heels daily...then I'm not your girl! However, I do enjoy a good night on the town every now and then. I know how to dress for any occasion...even the opera! ;)If you are attached, don't even bother contacting me. Also no drug users & prefer non-smokers.p.s. I will not give out my number so that we can text right away. If you are not cool with that, please move on...I've had people get mad at me already because they think that is weird. I think the opposite is weird!"For the closer she came to the edge, the more she could hear; the more she could see;the more she could feel. Finally, she stood at the very edge. She saw a light. She leaned out to touch it…she slipped, and she flew into tomorrow; a place with more suns in the sky than you can count;a place not like today or yesterday… a place where things are better."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cristina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Domestic Goddess & lover of life, music, poetry, beauty, art, spirituality, fashion, dancing, meditation & yoga seeks romantic gentleman for fun, frolick and a fantastic relationship. I'm a hopeless romantic girly-girl who loves to dress up in stylish & hip fashions. I'm classy, sassy, elegant and refined and I adore wearing retro & vintage dresses one day; and, the next I'm wearing jeans and enjoying a beer at a local dive bar. I'm a chameleon and a contradiction and I fit in anywhere and with anyone! However, my favorite outfit is a skirt with heels and silk stockings. Beware: I have a serious polka-dot obsession! If you like ponytails, tennis shoes, hiking boots (more than high heels) and gortex, move on! Yes, I'm a Greener. GO GOEDUCKS! I still have Midwestern values and a strong work ethic.Music is an absolutely HUGE passion of mine. I'm a devout listener and supporter of KEXP. My favorite genre is Indie and alt-rock. I go to concerts/shows several times a month. Some of the most recent shows I've been to are: Band of Horses, Cloud Cult, Rose Windows, Mudhoney, Black Flag, Best Coast, The Eels, & the Joy Formidable. I really dig 80's music and am quite fond of: The Clash, The Ramones, The Cure, The Smiths, Joy Division, New Order, Depeche Mode, The Stone Roses, Bauhaus, Erasure and the Descendents will always be my favorite!I have two adorable children, a son & daughter whom are precious to me and are my priority. I am committed to raising them to be fine, outstanding humans. I'm a package deal, guys! You can't have me without my kids. But don't worry, they already have an amazing father.I am incredibly lucky to have a career that I love and is quite rewarding. I actually wake up excited to go to work every day. I can honestly say that I make a difference in someone's life daily and this is very fulfilling. My career has spanned 20 years and I still am doing something that I am greatly passionate about and it brings me joy. I feel like I won the lottery!For fun, I like to belly dance, go see shows/concerts, frequent indie coffee shops, go thrift-store shopping for amazing treasures, exploring the city and different neighborhoods, attend film, dinners, happy hour, house parties, art museums, poetry readings, hiking in the summer, road trips, and traveling.I believe in taking very good care of myself therefore I'm a devout vegetarian and have been for ***years. I eat healthy, exercise, meditate, do yoga & qigong daily. I believe in prescribing meditation *** "medication". It's amazing what just 10 minutes a day of meditation will do for you. Try it and see how much better you feel. After 10 years of a solid meditation practice, I feel grounded, balanced and sane.If you're interested in meeting a fun, dynamic, intelligent, attractive, effervescent and playful professional hip mama, who has her act together; is healthy emotionally, psychically and spiritually, then look no further. I'm honest to a fault, sweet, kind, affectionate, compassionate and the owner of a tender heart. I'm here looking for an amazing, high-caliber man of substance and integrity. Someone who is a true gentleman, who is like-minded and knows a great catch (ME) when he sees it. If I've piqued your interest, drop me a line. Who knows.... our fishing days could be over!****BONUS POINTS**** Coffee, or dinner, drinks and an amazing indie rock concert! A smooch under the moonlight...

  • Maryann

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Just setting this back up to see what's out there. I am a single parent with a 20 yr old son. I am in the insurance industry and have been for 13 years and also working on my real estate license. I am a huge U of L fan and enjoy watching football and basketball. I enjoy hiking, long walks, camping, and working out. I'm looking for someone that shares the same interest and wants to get to know me. If you are here for a quick pickup or to play games, please pass me by!! Will update later

  • Imogene

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ***my all time favorite... I have a heart of gold.. I'm a single mother of three wonderful boys...UpdateFirst of all if you live at home with your parents keep on looking. Second of all if you don't have a job keep on looking.. Third of all if you don't have a vehicle keep on looking...Fourth if your a player, lier, cheater, and rude keep on looking... Many of you men on this site could use a english class that way you know how to spell... Please do NOT FAVOR me if your not going to talk to me.. Gentlemen shut your cell phone off when your meeting/spending time with a women its disrespectful to answer/text back the other person... If I send you a message and your not interested just say not interested show some respect... There are a lot of rude men on this site grow up your not in high school anymore... Please have an up to date picture (within the last 3 months)If you are going to stay stay forever.If you are going to leave,then do it today.If you are going to change,change for the better.And if you are going to talk,make sure you mean what you say.

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