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Bonnie, 40

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About Me

UPDATE: CHEMISTRY should be FAST...but RELATIONSHIPS should be SLOW!!!I am a natural beauty with a vibrant personality, young heart, wise soul & feisty spirit. I love walking & talking, wining & dining (actually, I prefer really good beer over wine),I love to cook and cozy evenings at home...Dinner & one-on-one time are even better than going out! ;)It's all in the smile and personality (well mostly) for me...the energy/connection (that RARE SPARK).Chemistry, Chemistry, Chemistry ~ that's what I want! Ideally, we would be attracted mind, body & soul!(yeah, that's the hopeless romantic in me coming out)Great conversationalist (if you are super descriptive and like to elaborate, I'm all ears!A guy who expresses himself and is emotionally available is sexy...what a turn on!Talk to me...but say what you mean & mean what you say. HONEST (better be). Be sweet but not too sweet...I don't want a man that doesn't want to be the man!Single and looking for my last lover that can be my best friend too.I want great conversation & companionship...to spend quality time with someone that makes me laugh & with whom I am attracted to...attraction is a must, as well as chemistry!Preferably would turn into something long term, but not looking for an immediate relationship.Some people my age already have kids out of the house, but I guess I started late...I have two children that live with me, ages 4 & 12. Which means, it isn't always easy for me to just do things on a whim.Someone who understands that is important.I am very down to earth, but that does not make me simple. I live a pretty casual no frills lifestyle. If you love women that always have perfect hair, manicures and that wear heels daily...then I'm not your girl! However, I do enjoy a good night on the town every now and then. I know how to dress for any occasion...even the opera! ;)If you are attached, don't even bother contacting me. Also no drug users & prefer non-smokers.p.s. I will not give out my number so that we can text right away. If you are not cool with that, please move on...I've had people get mad at me already because they think that is weird. I think the opposite is weird!"For the closer she came to the edge, the more she could hear; the more she could see;the more she could feel. Finally, she stood at the very edge. She saw a light. She leaned out to touch it…she slipped, and she flew into tomorrow; a place with more suns in the sky than you can count;a place not like today or yesterday… a place where things are better."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alisha

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I love to laugh and have a bit of a sarcastic humor! If you can crack jokes we will get along just fine. I like to be outside as much as I can during the warm weather. I don't enjoy the beach as much as I like, but hate to leave when I do. I spend a lot of time with my family. It would be nice to have someone to share my extra time with. Looking for someone that has time to date, and knows how to communicate what he wants. Tall and handsome men please reply here!

  • Juliana

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ************************************************************************** "; -************************************************************************** I'm a pretty easy-going and down to earth woman, working with children keeps me very young at heart! I'm very content with my day to day life, I'm positive and optimistic, I like to keep things light, but also have depth...I'm creative, I need to work w my hands. I'm also a perfectionist, when I do something I give it my best; it's also about personal satisfaction. I can get bored quickly, the more projects going the better I perform; I know it drives me crazy as well sometimes! I can be stubborn; when I get an idea in my head I'll be determined to achieve my goal. Intense you might think? I describe it as passion! I'm spontaneous, life is more interesting that way. But I equally need organization and stay focused. My brain needs to work all the time and stay stimulated, so it's possible that I ask many questions. If I seem curious - could be that I'm inspired. If I seem calm or quiet - could be that I'm listening, taking it all in. I give special attention to detail so don't be surprised with my memory at times! I might be shy at first but once I'm comfortable I can be quite funny. I am loyal friend, I have a big heart but I don't let everyone in. I am selective but it's more an issue of trust. I have a sensitive side but do my best not to show it. If you see it; it's because I care. I am positive about life. When anything bad happens I don't dwell on it, I will find what I could learn from it. Its unfortunate, it might take me some time, but everything happens for a reason. I'm independent and self-sufficient. I'm a good mother, my kids are priority, but I make room for myself too. I try to appreciate the little things in life. I dream and have ambition but I'm also realistic, well grounded and very patient, all in good time is fine with me.I'd like to meet people who intrigue me, drive me and inspire me to bring out the best of me, who are high on life but equally laid-back when needed. As my profile quote says; Love is Friendship set on Fire - I truly believe that a friendly pressure-free connection is where it all begins. I'm here to improvise. That's why I'm looking for friendship first, 'cause I'm open to see if it grows, and if it doesn't, a true friend is never a waste of time... "Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present" No expectations means no disappointments

  • Harriett

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Will fill this in later

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