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Marcia, 40

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About Me

I was married for quite a long time and am somewhat new to online dating. I am separated, but not divorced and we do live separately, this seems to be an issue for some so I am putting it out there. I do have children, I realize this can also be an issue, if it is feel free to move on.Hoping to find a nice guy that can make me smile and keep up with my sense of humor. I am looking to date and see where things lead from there, I am not interested in a FWB situation or to be a booty call. I am tired of "players", if all you want is to get laid, move on and please don't waste your time or mine. I promise you that I'm not a **** (though it may kind of sound that way from this profile), just trying to be upfront about what I'm looking for to save everybody time and effort.I'm not clingy or demanding but I think it's reasonable that if you are interested in someone, you text a little get to know them and then meet, please no endless texting without ever having the intention to meet. Also, if you aren't even open to the possibility of a relationship (realizing that relationships take time to develop, not looking to run off and get hitched next week. lol), we probably won't be a good match, I am not a serial dater and not looking to be one of the girls in your rotation. Really just looking for a nice guy that is relatively normal and sane (maybe with a little bit of an edge to them), and who is looking for the same in return.Love listening to music, I like to go see bands both local and national acts. I can (an do) listen to other stuff, this is just my preferred type of music.Pretty much can enjoy any style of movie/tv- action, comedy (favorite), sci-fi (yes, I actually do like Star Trek and Star Wars), and a soft spot for all things zombies and vampires, Walking Dead and True Blood are a must see TV for me.I love to cook, and think it would be awesome to find a guy that will cook for me too (though certainly not a requirement). Walks on the beach/boards are awesome...-like qualities not really a summer-time beach girl. lol Comedy clubs are fun and I think Karaoke bars are a great way to people watch, I cannot sing to save my life, so I will never do so. I have no idea what else to say here, if you want to know something, ask me.If you are seeking a fun, easy-going girl who absolutely detests drama, send me a message :) Start off with something short to get a look at each other and see if we click, perhaps a drink or coffee and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maryanne

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for someone that is ready to be done with dating and done with games. I am an honest, kind, very loyal woman that loves to spend time with the man I am involved with. I love to cook, travel, go to the city, watch movies, and just do everyday things together. I am very down-to-earth, not into being flashy or shallow things. What you see is what you get! There is nothing I wouldn't do for the person I am involved with, and I hope to get the same in return. I am a teacher, so am def looking for someone that has nights and weekends off bc I believe in spending as much time together as possible and building a great relationship together. (I can not stress the need for the same type of schedule enough....) Being 42, I really hope to meet someone that is interested in just one person (me!) and not into any drama or playing games. It's hard to meet people at this age, so please only respond if you are truly looking for something serious. Obviously, chemistry and compatibility are very important, but I just don't want to meet someone dating a bunch of people or just looking for "fun". I love to exercise and stay active. I take Zumba regularly and stay in shape. (As you can see from my photos, as the years have gone by, I have actually gotten thinner LOL, all due to Zumba!) I love hiking, biking, walking, swimming, picking up and going away for a long weekend. If I can be outdoors, I am a happy girl! Although, nothing beats a rainy Sunday cuddling on the couch, watching movies, ordering in sushi, and just having a relaxing day with the guy I'm with. I have 2 cats that are getting up there in age, so please don't be allergic to cats - they aren't getting locked up anywhere lol. I do drink socially, but am not into going to bars and sitting for hours and just watching people drink until they can't stand up. I like to be active, I'd rather spend a Saturday hiking up in the NY mountains or going biking in the Poconos than sitting at a bar. And in the hope of trying to narrow down some *** am getting. I do not want children. I am physically unable to have them, and never wanted them to begin with, so that is something that won't change. Also, I am not interested in dating anyone with children, regardless of custody situation. It just isn't for me. I'm sure there are many women that would love to be a stepmother, I truly am just not that person. I am 42, but look much younger. Most people think I am in my mid-30s so I am looking for someone my age, younger, or someone that looks younger. I have never been a girl with "daddy issues", so I am not interested in older men. If you are 45 and look 40, that's great. But I have to be honest, I'm just not going to be interested in someone that looks much older than me. I know I say it above, but I am truly only looking for someone that has a similar schedule. If you work nights and weekends - we aren't going to work out. I recently went through that for over a year - there is no point for me to try it again, it was a waste of time. Time spent together is crucial. I want to travel together, go on weekend trips, have dinner together during the week. If time can't be shared, I just don't see the point. I'm not looking for a hook-up, only a serious relationship. These things are def deal breakers. Thanks for reading :) And to repeat, if you are just looking for someone to hook-up with while dating other people - go right past this profile because I am not the girl for you! I would prefer a first date to be very casual. There is enough pressure meeting someone new without throwing other stress in! I'm a simple girl, do not need expensive things to be impressed. So the easier, the better!

  • Rose

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi this is all new to me recently single after a 12 year marriage. I have 3 beautiful daughters and my kids are my LIFE! I enjoy going to my kids activities, hanging out with friends and even enjoy staying in and watching movies, I love watching football and like listening to live bands. Just dinner and maybe a movie

  • Susan

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    What you see is what you get! = ) I would descibe myself as pretty laid back, a tad on the nerdy side, a bit of a Star Wars fan.....any takers yet? ; )My tastes are quite varied but make me who I am and I can enjoy an evening out just as much as an evening on the couch. I wouldn't necessarily consider myself very materialistic and find value in the everyday things and connections I have with people in my life as my most valued commodity. I like to travel, commune with nature, I really dig art deco and mid century modern architecture and design, B scifi movies, LOVE history and try to make a difference in the world. My cats are my kids...I also have some fish and a turtle so if you don't like animals, we probably won't be a good match.Anything else, please feel free to ask! It's always put who you are in a paragraph or two. Someplace where we can talk to get to know each other a bit....doesn't necessarily matter where, it's more about the person than the place.

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