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Elva, 39

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About Me

Let's keep it simple...I am a divorced mother of three boys. They come first, just as I would expect your children would come first for you. I don't want to play games and I'm pretty good at telling when someone is full of it. I like quiet nights on the couch and being outdoors. I avoid drama and have a caring heart. I have a lot of love to share with the right man. Basically, I just want a nice guy to have a relationship with - not just a 'booty call.' I do not want to go from zero to married in two weeks. I don't just want a texting buddy either. Good things are worth a little time. A first date is always stressful but keeping it casual helps. Just a simple coffee or something along those lines. I want to be able to talk and get to know you better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Jillian

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a craze you'd endorse! I am smart, sassy, and sexy.Honesty is what I'm looking for the most. If you're a liar or a player, don't bother contacting me. I'm not on here to get laid. Please... I don't need the internet for that. I want to meet someone interested in the good stuff I have to offer. I can honestly tell you that I'm not one of those girls that looks pretty or cute when she's asleep, but I give it all I got when I'm awake.I'm looking for someone that I am genuinely attracted to. It's not all about the physical, but that is important to me. Please do not feel offended if I do not find you as my type. I am not a mean or shallow person. I just know what I like.I love movies and I love to hang out in an old bar with a new jukebox where you can hear yourself talk and pick the music. My favorite pass time is the PS3 game SingStar. I don't claim to be a great singer, but it is my passion. I love attention and will spoil whomever I am with. I have three kids that live with me at home, as well as a new grandbaby that I adore. That cannot be a secret or a deal breaker. If you're interested, send me message.Have a beautiful day!

  • Bonnie

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    UPDATE: CHEMISTRY should be FAST...but RELATIONSHIPS should be SLOW!!!I am a natural beauty with a vibrant personality, young heart, wise soul & feisty spirit. I love walking & talking, wining & dining (actually, I prefer really good beer over wine),I love to cook and cozy evenings at home...Dinner & one-on-one time are even better than going out! ;)It's all in the smile and personality (well mostly) for me...the energy/connection (that RARE SPARK).Chemistry, Chemistry, Chemistry ~ that's what I want! Ideally, we would be attracted mind, body & soul!(yeah, that's the hopeless romantic in me coming out)Great conversationalist (if you are super descriptive and like to elaborate, I'm all ears!A guy who expresses himself and is emotionally available is sexy...what a turn on!Talk to me...but say what you mean & mean what you say. HONEST (better be). Be sweet but not too sweet...I don't want a man that doesn't want to be the man!Single and looking for my last lover that can be my best friend too.I want great conversation & companionship...to spend quality time with someone that makes me laugh & with whom I am attracted to...attraction is a must, as well as chemistry!Preferably would turn into something long term, but not looking for an immediate relationship.Some people my age already have kids out of the house, but I guess I started late...I have two children that live with me, ages 4 & 12. Which means, it isn't always easy for me to just do things on a whim.Someone who understands that is important.I am very down to earth, but that does not make me simple. I live a pretty casual no frills lifestyle. If you love women that always have perfect hair, manicures and that wear heels daily...then I'm not your girl! However, I do enjoy a good night on the town every now and then. I know how to dress for any occasion...even the opera! ;)If you are attached, don't even bother contacting me. Also no drug users & prefer non-smokers.p.s. I will not give out my number so that we can text right away. If you are not cool with that, please move on...I've had people get mad at me already because they think that is weird. I think the opposite is weird!"For the closer she came to the edge, the more she could hear; the more she could see;the more she could feel. Finally, she stood at the very edge. She saw a light. She leaned out to touch it…she slipped, and she flew into tomorrow; a place with more suns in the sky than you can count;a place not like today or yesterday… a place where things are better."

  • Dale

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    **** I have found that I need to clarify a few things.****I don't do long distance relationships ........I have a 23 year old daughter...... I don't date men under 40. But it's very flattering.After that if you still want to read more...... Here I am.I am a mom first before anything else. I enjoy being with my kids, hanging out with friends, dancing, swimming, nature, all kinds of animals, music (mainly country) & just having fun. I am the type of person that wants to have fun. Life is too short to be unhappy and I like to laugh as much as possible. I am a southern girl born & raised. I can rock the blue jeans or dress up & be a lady. I do not consider myself "high maintenance". I enjoy the good stuff but don't have to have it.I want to find someone I can have a loving relationship with however I do not want to jump into anything. I would like to find someone that values honesty, trust & communication. I want someone that can be my friend first & see what happens from there. I do not want pushy, untrustworthy or a player. If you like what you have seen & heard so far let me know & we can see about being friends then see where we go from there. Never know until you try...... First date in my opinion should be in a place that it is easy to talk. It doesn't matter if it's a boat ride, out to eat, coffee, a drink or just walking in the park. Most importantly a first date should be a way to get to know each other face to face then go from there.

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