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Bessie, 31
United States, California, Westminster

Offline, last seen Sat, 03 May 2025 02:19:02

About Me

Hi :-) I don't really like filling these profiles out but it seems alot of you have been hesitant on talking to me because I haven't said much. But why say it all on here? Then what will we talk about? I will say I am very loving. I LOVE to cuddle and be affectionate. I love to have a good time but that doesn't mean Iam a partier. I have four dogs. One of them is old and his days are numbered. You must be a dog lover to be with me otherwise my lifestyle will annoy the sh*tout of you. I love hikes, camping and dog parks. I love going out on the town for a nice dinner and a show of some sort. I love movies. I'd like to find the man of my dreams and live happily ever after but I think that only happens in fairytales right?Hopefully I can find a man who isn't shady. Who makes me laugh, wants to share his life with a true and honest, fun loving woman. I know he's out there so message me if you think you might be him and we will go from there. ;-)I wanted to add one last thing. If you have a profile picture set with you not wearing a shirt, do not bother messaging me. I'm sorry but if you think you are getting my attention by doing that you have another thing coming. Iam not looking for a hook up and if all you have to offer me is your muscles then don't waste your time. Also if you say Hi and that's it don't expect a response. If you have a general message that you copy and paste to me and 20 other women a day then keep going. I'm not wasting my time. I know what I want and I will wait as long as I have to until I find a man that is what I am looking for.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Reggae Craft Making Indonesian Spanish Family & Kids
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