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Kellie, 53
United States, California, Napa

Offline, last seen Sun, 08 Mar 2026 20:17:29

About Me

Its not going to work if you are attracted to a woman who doesn't know who she is/wants, drama queens, high maintenance, and/or not done with your last relationship. Oh yeah, I'm a busy professional and classy LADY lets not waste each other's time. Thank You:)I'm down to earth; like to have fun; work hard; have dreams; very active; spontaneous and free spirit; very loyal, passionate and a romantic; I speak my mind and know what I want in life. I have a great job with good pay and benefits and can take care of my own financial needs. My kids are grown and responsible young adults. I smile, like a good laugh, cry and when appropriate am serious. Most people feel comfortable around me and am often told that I'm easy to talk to and easy to get along with. I tend to stay away from drama. I tend to listen more at first but once I know you I am open, like to joke, funny with a great sense of humor.I'm a realist who normally looks at both sides of the coin; I don't hesitate to make a decision but I am not impulsive by nature. I have learned that life is short and have a great appreciation for the little things in my life. I take full responsibility for my actions and admit when I've made a mistake. Close friends describe me as patient, calm, cool and collected (most of the time), with high self-esteem and goals. I accomplish what I set out to do. When something gets me down, I pick myself up and tackle the problem quickly; I adapt to changes and tend to maintain a balance and perspective during difficult situations. I was born in the Azores (Portuguese) and although I’m fluent in English and all American customs I have retained my old world values and ethics. Life has been tough at times but I value those experiences and have learned from them. I value family and friends and prefer an evening with them rather than a large party. Occasionally enjoy a nice restaurant but most of the time I prefer cooking side-by-side, warm fire, and glass of wine. Like gardening, picking fresh fruit and vegetables.Life is too short. I believe that differences can be overcome and lasting love can be sustained IF two people work hard and consistently show mutual understanding, respect and cherish each other. I forgive quickly, kiss slowly and passionatelly, love deeply and truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that has made me smile. Sometimes the word 'love' is used too looselly and when i say it i really do mean it. Meet for light conversation over lunch or coffee , , hike with a group, stroll thru the Capitol rose garden or streets of downtown to grab a cup of coffee or glass of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean English Turkish Action Martial Arts Drag Racing
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    As Dateateers let's begin with a crooked grin and a shared smile. Without further definition of who I'm looking for (there’s no value in limiting wonderful) I'll move on and give you a few hints of the life that surrounds me. Hint: Tall, humor, and affectionate drives me crazy!.The perfect day is when I've laughed and played, learned, created, and shared. My style tends to be jeans and bare feet on home time, jeans and heels during work time (I'm a salon owner), and if I'm very lucky the occasional Cinderella dress during magical times. My heart moves at love stories and jumps at scary ones (hungry ghosts you know). I'm blessed with family and friends which include two grown children and the most magical grandson on the face of the planet. I love creativity, oceans, hikes and picnics, boats, intelligence and good spelling (:-), blue cheese stuffed olives, and scuba. I enjoy baseball and hockey, warm days cross country skiing/snowshoeing, bout any game as long as it does not involve the heart, movies and productions, live blues and classic rock, and the amazing cities of the world... whew. With all that being said it's simple, most of all I love being in the arms of someone special and laughing no matter what we're doing.That about sums up my existence, well almost. If you think we might be a fit take a walk on the wild side and send on a note and let the smiles begin. Let's share a phone call before that magical first meeting and let the chemistry begin:-)

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

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  • Hallie from Napa | Woman | 55 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a resilient tenacious morning lark not a nite owl, independent & down to earth, & a Humanist. Prefer the company of a few select friends over noisy crowds. Time with my guy takes top priority, but I don't open up to many. Dependable but not always predictable. I'm into health & wellness but I can enjoy a good steak occasionally. I enjoy being out in nature when the weather is tolerable, hearing the sounds of crickets and frogs versus city traffic. Camping, fishing, gardening, or new things around the city at times is all good. I enjoy cooking, especially with someone - cajun dishes or just about anything grilled / smoked and a cold one. More on health & wellness - I strive to be more natural with organic, wild caught or free range foods (but still spicy & yummy) to make the best of myself. I'm a big do-it-yourselfer, not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love doing new things and seeing new places, saying hell yes to fun new things .....makes going back to work on Mondays not so bad. On the practical side - I love the intelligent capable huckleberry type which seems to be a rare find these days. My guy must be honorable or no other quality he may have will make up for the lack of that one. He would be finished with his 'sampling'. A man without honor is just a "toy". It's a man's actions that counts, not insincere sweet words. Yet he will be as deep in passion as in thoughts, excels in communication. He is supportive not controlling. He’s open minded realizing he doesn’t have all the answers. He has enough flexibility to get my Gemini personality. He’s more interested in making me laugh than in appearing perfect. He balances fun with responsibilities. He would appreciate someone he could count on, would treat me as his equal & not treat me a sidekick. He does not need the approval or constant companionship of a pack of friends, and never independently of me. Friends should be our friends. We would give each other top priority. He is also strong in spirit as well as body, strives to stay healthy as I do. (Sorry but if you have a gut that's bigger than the love handles category then you aren't taking care of yourself so this isn't striving to stay healthy to my standards.) Of course it starts with the right chemistry and it is an absolute must but I want a real partner in all areas. Late spouse was older - can't do that again. A bit younger is my preference.;honest" man it does not mean she wants a jerk whose entire profile is bad mouthing women. Not all women are like the last one. Yes, I am a strong, outspoken and independent woman, not a side-kick that will agree with everything you say. Having said that, be assured that I am also flexible and compromising giving 110% to my loved one. One issue that I have incurred recently is guys who skip steps in the "getting to know you" stage and quickly directs the conversation to the physical desires. I love flirting and will do my share of it but that doesn’t mean it’s time to get physical. It’s important to learn all those wonderful qualities you have to offer and allow a bit of time for the attraction and romance to develop. I’m looking for my life partner not a temporary fun time. Having said that, be assured in an established relationship that passion is very important to me. It makes tolerating all the other BS in life that we know comes up….all the easier to go through. Something casual, low pressure, committing to a limited amount of time since most of us know within minutes if there is a connection or not. A cold one and an appetizer after work sounds good.

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