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Elma, 53
United States, California, Napa

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It's time to do an update -- Ok -- Here goes.....Most people say that I'm basicly laid back and easy going (I get along with pretty much everybody) I am quite content to put on a pair of jeans, comfy shirt, and hang out at home or with friends ***Maybe, dinner and a movie or dancing, concert, social night out with friends. A romantic surprise night out with that someone special would be fun too. I would like to travel and experience new things that I've never done. I use to go to the gym and work out 3 or 4 times a week when my kids were in school. I would like to get back into exercising on a regular basis and it would be nice to have someone to do it with.People don't meet the same way they did the last time I was dating. So, I thought I would just go with the flow and give this social networking a try. I just don't know if I know how. I would like to meet soneone who shares some of the same likes and interest that I do. They need to willing and able to put forth the effort it takes to have a loving and intimate relationship. There needs to be a physical attraction and the chemistry that goes with it. I believe that a kiss is a true test of that and can also be a deal breaker. I'm sorry if that makes me sound shallow, but I need that. All of that being said, first we need to develop a genuine friendship. It takes time, but it's worth it in the end. I just want to take it slow (cause I wouldn't want to miss a thing).I was married for 23 years and I've been on my own for the last couple of years. It's time to start the next chapter in my life. I would like to expand my friends and family. And when I say family, I mean it. I lost both of my parents and a sibling in the 90's. I love kids and animals. I have a dog, a cat, and a sugar glider. And I can't forget to mention my two boys. They may be full grown, but they still light up my life.Ok, I know this is getting a little long and if I keep going I might lose your attention. So I'm going to leave it at that. Meet some where for dinner or a drink. Conversation to get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Crime History Sci-Fi War Western
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    Woman. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-25

    Hi! My name is Sam. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Napa, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Aurora from Napa | Woman | 55 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Well..as usual everyone on here is just playin games. im tired of the back n forth messages that lead nowhere. from now on..if you want to meet then lets meet. im not doing the message nonsense anymore..dont like wasting my time on bored weirdos. i prefer to find out if someones real right at the get go. if you dont like that then keep looking. Im real and looking for a grown up. absolutely no "this feels like an interview" feeling. Just enjoy each others company out having some casual fun. its much more important to me to know how pleasant or fun you will be than whatever the hell was or is going on in your personal life. we all have em. my details will be in my autobiography. :) Halloween is coming...a costume shop would b lotsa fun.You know I just thought of a way to make dating sites more helpful, people should just tell thier actual hangouts...not say beaches, other countries or cities, all that stuff. They should mention actual hangouts, that way if someone really wants to meet them, they could just start goin there, eventually they would meet...right? these days i kinda like Woodys. but never after dark.

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  • Hallie from Napa | Woman | 55 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a resilient tenacious morning lark not a nite owl, independent & down to earth, & a Humanist. Prefer the company of a few select friends over noisy crowds. Time with my guy takes top priority, but I don't open up to many. Dependable but not always predictable. I'm into health & wellness but I can enjoy a good steak occasionally. I enjoy being out in nature when the weather is tolerable, hearing the sounds of crickets and frogs versus city traffic. Camping, fishing, gardening, or new things around the city at times is all good. I enjoy cooking, especially with someone - cajun dishes or just about anything grilled / smoked and a cold one. More on health & wellness - I strive to be more natural with organic, wild caught or free range foods (but still spicy & yummy) to make the best of myself. I'm a big do-it-yourselfer, not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love doing new things and seeing new places, saying hell yes to fun new things .....makes going back to work on Mondays not so bad. On the practical side - I love the intelligent capable huckleberry type which seems to be a rare find these days. My guy must be honorable or no other quality he may have will make up for the lack of that one. He would be finished with his 'sampling'. A man without honor is just a "toy". It's a man's actions that counts, not insincere sweet words. Yet he will be as deep in passion as in thoughts, excels in communication. He is supportive not controlling. He’s open minded realizing he doesn’t have all the answers. He has enough flexibility to get my Gemini personality. He’s more interested in making me laugh than in appearing perfect. He balances fun with responsibilities. He would appreciate someone he could count on, would treat me as his equal & not treat me a sidekick. He does not need the approval or constant companionship of a pack of friends, and never independently of me. Friends should be our friends. We would give each other top priority. He is also strong in spirit as well as body, strives to stay healthy as I do. (Sorry but if you have a gut that's bigger than the love handles category then you aren't taking care of yourself so this isn't striving to stay healthy to my standards.) Of course it starts with the right chemistry and it is an absolute must but I want a real partner in all areas. Late spouse was older - can't do that again. A bit younger is my preference.;honest" man it does not mean she wants a jerk whose entire profile is bad mouthing women. Not all women are like the last one. Yes, I am a strong, outspoken and independent woman, not a side-kick that will agree with everything you say. Having said that, be assured that I am also flexible and compromising giving 110% to my loved one. One issue that I have incurred recently is guys who skip steps in the "getting to know you" stage and quickly directs the conversation to the physical desires. I love flirting and will do my share of it but that doesn’t mean it’s time to get physical. It’s important to learn all those wonderful qualities you have to offer and allow a bit of time for the attraction and romance to develop. I’m looking for my life partner not a temporary fun time. Having said that, be assured in an established relationship that passion is very important to me. It makes tolerating all the other BS in life that we know comes up….all the easier to go through. Something casual, low pressure, committing to a limited amount of time since most of us know within minutes if there is a connection or not. A cold one and an appetizer after work sounds good.

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