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Hallie, 55
United States, California, Napa

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About Me

I'm a resilient tenacious morning lark not a nite owl, independent & down to earth, & a Humanist. Prefer the company of a few select friends over noisy crowds. Time with my guy takes top priority, but I don't open up to many. Dependable but not always predictable. I'm into health & wellness but I can enjoy a good steak occasionally. I enjoy being out in nature when the weather is tolerable, hearing the sounds of crickets and frogs versus city traffic. Camping, fishing, gardening, or new things around the city at times is all good. I enjoy cooking, especially with someone - cajun dishes or just about anything grilled / smoked and a cold one. More on health & wellness - I strive to be more natural with organic, wild caught or free range foods (but still spicy & yummy) to make the best of myself. I'm a big do-it-yourselfer, not afraid to get my hands dirty. I love doing new things and seeing new places, saying hell yes to fun new things .....makes going back to work on Mondays not so bad. On the practical side - I love the intelligent capable huckleberry type which seems to be a rare find these days. My guy must be honorable or no other quality he may have will make up for the lack of that one. He would be finished with his 'sampling'. A man without honor is just a "toy". It's a man's actions that counts, not insincere sweet words. Yet he will be as deep in passion as in thoughts, excels in communication. He is supportive not controlling. He’s open minded realizing he doesn’t have all the answers. He has enough flexibility to get my Gemini personality. He’s more interested in making me laugh than in appearing perfect. He balances fun with responsibilities. He would appreciate someone he could count on, would treat me as his equal & not treat me a sidekick. He does not need the approval or constant companionship of a pack of friends, and never independently of me. Friends should be our friends. We would give each other top priority. He is also strong in spirit as well as body, strives to stay healthy as I do. (Sorry but if you have a gut that's bigger than the love handles category then you aren't taking care of yourself so this isn't striving to stay healthy to my standards.) Of course it starts with the right chemistry and it is an absolute must but I want a real partner in all areas. Late spouse was older - can't do that again. A bit younger is my preference.;honest" man it does not mean she wants a jerk whose entire profile is bad mouthing women. Not all women are like the last one. Yes, I am a strong, outspoken and independent woman, not a side-kick that will agree with everything you say. Having said that, be assured that I am also flexible and compromising giving 110% to my loved one. One issue that I have incurred recently is guys who skip steps in the "getting to know you" stage and quickly directs the conversation to the physical desires. I love flirting and will do my share of it but that doesn’t mean it’s time to get physical. It’s important to learn all those wonderful qualities you have to offer and allow a bit of time for the attraction and romance to develop. I’m looking for my life partner not a temporary fun time. Having said that, be assured in an established relationship that passion is very important to me. It makes tolerating all the other BS in life that we know comes up….all the easier to go through. Something casual, low pressure, committing to a limited amount of time since most of us know within minutes if there is a connection or not. A cold one and an appetizer after work sounds good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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